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Now Adi is in a known devil is better than an unknown angel. He knows Malini is devil but he didn’t see any other man apart from him right so that is enough for him to live with Malini. I sometimes think even if Malini PF happens, Adi might still side Malini saying you have done all this for my love and you have made yourself low to reach me and I don’t deserve this kind of love from you 🤣

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

Now Adi is in a known devil is better than an unknown angel. He knows Malini is devil but he didn’t see any other man apart from him right so that is enough for him to live with Malini. I sometimes think even if Malini PF happens, Adi might still side Malini saying you have done all this for my love and you have made yourself low to reach me and I don’t deserve this kind of love from you 🤣

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

that is what i asked if a man does raped he also fall down . so his sins should be forgotten if he cries bucket with monologue . that is what I asked should we feel sorry for him🤔

Adding further that rapists don't come from Mars. They are raised by our society. We have to change our society and value-systems that promote rape culture. Slūtshaming promotes rape culture.

In this case too, toxic masculinity and rape culture that made Malini believe that she could get away with rape because who would believe that a man "didn't want it"?

It was our society which failed Aditya by denying justice to him because "badnami hogi'. It is our society which fails when we do not criminalise anal rape/male rape. Finally, Aditya failed himself and his marriage by making excuses for Malini and deleting the evidence against her. Did he, a reputed journalist, not know what consent is?

Imlie, the youngest and least educated of the three, was raised by the same patriarchal society. She chose fight the good fight only to be defeated by her own husband.

Sorry, rape is such a heinous thing that I do not take accusations of trivialising it lightly

I don’t know ji. The more they delay the PF the more it is getting irrelevant to the story I feel. Now they are moving to some financial issues and might show BK in bad light. If it goes like this, at some point if PF happens also people would say everybody does mistake Malini has also done unknowingly and might white wash her. I just lost all hopes from makers to give justice to Imlie.

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

Now Adi is in a known devil is better than an unknown angel. He knows Malini is devil but he didn’t see any other man apart from him right so that is enough for him to live with Malini. I sometimes think even if Malini PF happens, Adi might still side Malini saying you have done all this for my love and you have made yourself low to reach me and I don’t deserve this kind of love from you 🤣

Goddy ji and Snowwhite ji, since, I cannot force-feed someone reading comprehension. Linking my first post in this forum where I clearly stated that no one deserves to be married to their rapist.

I don't know where you found the idea that I was defending a rapist when I clearly said that she's a bloodthirsty zombie in this very post.

Like Malini is not redeemable for being a rapist, Aditya cannot be absolved from his emotionally abusive ways just because he's a survivor. Perpetuating the cycle of abuse is not okay.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/159761488

Tagging the DT because this is such a severe accusation.

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

There r many people in world who fall in love with another person after getting married. Sometimes people r not meant to be. And when they reveal it to to partner is the solution is rape. Or exiting for their life with head held high with grace and give divorce. So even in ipk2 even asr was in live in relationship with Lavanya for 7 years. she exited from Arshis life with grace. She is still loved.

Ma'am again I didn't defend her, I just sketched her descent into criminality. That's why I started with Dev and Anu being manipulative parents. No one is responsible for the crime she committed. But her derangement is due to people emotionally manipulating her ever since her childhood. I offered no defense. Just an insight into why she's turned into such a zombie. This is not rocket science to understand.

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

And age gap between AdiLie there r many successful marriages with huge age gap. 😆 when a woman marrying younger boys is considered as progressive why is older man marrying younger giro is regressive😎

Bhai, I have already spelled this out in the thread you're clearly taking pot-shots at. Do I have to quote feminist theory here? Will you let your 12th pass-out daughter to marry a man in his mid-thirties? A 35 year old woman being with a 18 year old boy is abusive as well. The difference comes with world experience which the high school pass-out does not have. Aditya too treats Imlie as a child but oh well

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

I don’t know ji. The more they delay the PF the more it is getting irrelevant to the story I feel. Now they are moving to some financial issues and might show BK in bad light. If it goes like this, at some point if PF happens also people would say everybody does mistake Malini has also done unknowingly and might white wash her. I just lost all hopes from makers to give justice to Imlie.

Malini isn't redeemable in the slightest. She's truly become a zombie. It is just sad that they made Aditya make excuses for her heinous act. He's the one who chooses her over and over again. It's just sad how badly they dealt with this issue.

Yeah I know what to do. The purity of Adile relationship is lost. Now even if Adile happens it won’t be the same. May be makers will take the route of Adi resigning and regretting the fact that he didn’t trust Imlie and will completely move away from her life and allowing Imlie to move on completely. He might take as a punishment and start living his life in hell.

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

Yeah I know what to do. The purity of Adile relationship is lost. Now even if Adile happens it won’t be the same. May be makers will take the route of Adi resigning and regretting the fact that he didn’t trust Imlie and will completely move away from her life and allowing Imlie to move on completely. He might take as a punishment and start living his life in hell.

I have said elsewhere that he needs therapy— all of them do. He's a victim of rape of who is not only is in denial of it but also constantly defends her. Imlie cannot cure him. He needs a lot of therapy. And sadly, his family is responsible for his trauma by shoving that baby and Malini down his throat. Malini constantly manipulates their greed for the baby to stay in his life. They don't let her leave.