Hickory Dickory dock, life..errr Karma comes around the clock😬 - Page 13

Originally posted by: sunshine36

I cant believe am saying this but I would enjoy watching Karma biting his sorry ass than watching MaAn union. When Vanraj is happy while Anuj is sad I will be like

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Same but I don't want it done the way they're doing it with Kavya. No sympathy. Just straight up laughing at him while he drowns in his misery.

Originally posted by: sunshine36

Today's sbb/sbs segment had a different story to tell. Looks like she is growing closer to Anu and is kind of melting with Anu's love and affection. Mal seem to be desperately needing attention and she dint get any of it after her parent's death. Now with her brother always doing Anu ka jaap she feels she is unwanted and has become a rebel but if makers ever establish a proper medical condition for her, I want them to talk about seeking professional help and not just curing with love🤞

Haven’t watched sbb/sbs segment but it will be good to see Anu and Malvika get closer. Establishing a medical condition and addressing it would be awesome even if only some joint therapy appointments with Anuj and Malvika. 🤞🏼

My first thought after seeing today's episode was.. Yaar! Malvika is sooo exhausting to watch! I found it very strange that a woman who has partnered with someone for a big business venture would go and start begging that person to allow her to live in his house?! Understood that she has major demons but given the fact that she seems to have a successful professional life and that she has been able to live on her own and manage herself for so many years, wouldn't it be so that she can compartmentalize and keep her personal and professional life separate? Otherwise how could she have succeeded in her career if she allows her personal demons to intrude into her working relationships? I don't know if I'm making sense. But her whole behavior didn't make sense to me.

As for anuj, yes we are now getting to see the man and not just the lover as has been so far. And I find him so much more endearing and real. Really. Another thing that struck me was seeing how Anuj also has so much unresolved trauma.. he was only 25 when the tragedy happened.. and his life sort of changed after that, I see how he would've held on to his love for anupama as the only thing that somehow connected him to his self after all the responsibilities and guilt took over his life. It was probably what kept him sane through the years. And we can see why he has not been able to form any lasting relationship, it was also because of the baggage he carried, not just undilutedly his love for anupama. This might sound unpleasant to some but I find it more coherent and karmic. His 26 years of love despite the multiple affairs (which some people have found highly objectionable) is better explained like this. Maan are two people who are destined to come together eventually and fate makes one have a terrible marriage that nevertheless has caused her to grow and become rock strong and the other facing other tragedies has failed to move on and has been waiting till her running and growing stream finally comes and joins his still waters and brings movement and change and eventually completion.

Now we see that anuj is a man like many others who are completely blind in love. Anu is not that. She is generous and forbearing to a flaw but I don't feel that she was ever blind to the faults of those she loves. Anuj blindly loves his sister. She has been really spoilt. And then the accident that was sone pe suhaga. Even if it hadn't taken place she would still be a very difficult girl who would have made the life of those who love her painful.

I guess vanraj's arc is written to have redemption rather than comeuppance. But I don't see that he is being made into a hero? Why do some of you feel that he is shown as a hero and that anuj is seen as vulnerable in front of them? Overall I think it's good that the shah family members, the people over whom anupama has poured so much of her goodness and life, should somehow become better people rather than stay bad which would be a negation of the power of good over evil. Also its a happy bearing of fruit of anu's sacrifices and unstinted love. It keeps her life from becoming a tragedy and instead makes it a success story, a much much higher and deeper success than vanraj's shallow financial successes, his 'tujhe wahan se yahan tak aana hai' (that is so 🤢)

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

yup, NOW we're seeing the real anuj. he has some real real trauma going on there. i was actually shocked. this man has no peace in his life. its so sad. i thought the whole time that he was gonna be the saviour in anupamaa's life cuz she was the one who had the sh*tty 26 yr marriage, got cheated on, blah blah blah...but now when i see what anuj has been through. this man needs healing. he needs TLC. he needs anupamaa as much as she needs him. he needs someone who is going to stand beside him like a rock and cater to him. he deserves it. like i literally want to see her give him whatever comfort he needs. seeing him try to calm down malvika when she freaked out in the pancake scene was just heartbreaking. i couldnt look away. its like he in stuck in limbo...could never get over anupamaa and then never knows if the sister is alive or dead. how does he sleep at night?

You're so right! How does he sleep at night? I swear it broke me to see him grovelling in front of malvika.. It made me so angry st her too even though I understand she has a lot of unresolved trauma. But she was very self-centered from even before the accident from what anuj relates about her. I feel really really sorry for anuj.

I don't know if it has something to do with the Indian patriarchal mentality but what the makers are showing of karma getting back at kavya in this way.. She is seeing a playback of all her scenes of betrayal.. And she is suffering.. Its like a very crude form of payback. Its like they are proving in these kinds of affairs its always the woman's fault. Mard toh bechare mard hi honge.. 🤢

Vanraj only suffered a little bit because of his parents becoming disillusioned by him but never for having cheated anupama. If tbey really want to show his redemption they should atleast show him being remorseful for how he treated anu. Even his 'heart break' over kavya's dhoks was shortlived. He just jumped back in one nights roaming the streets and started his avenging mode. I don't think makers are ever going to show him down in the dust like how we want to see him.

Originally posted by: sunshine36

That was exactly my problem too..Vanraj is not hero but he seems to be in his game and having upper hand..Anuj can be vulnerable but let that only be for Anu and Mal to witness..never ever want him to bow his head down in shame for Mal's actions. He himself has tried a lot to stay away from them but tolerated only for Anu and now na chaahkar bhi he has to bear them for Mukku. Ughh why do these makers love Vanraj so much🤔🙄

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

I don't know if it has something to do with the Indian patriarchal mentality but what the makers are showing of karma getting back at kavya in this way.. She is seeing a playback of all her scenes of betrayal.. And she is suffering.. Its like a very crude form of payback. Its like they are proving in these kinds of affairs its always the woman's fault. Mard toh bechare mard hi honge.. 🤢

Vanraj only suffered a little bit because of his parents becoming disillusioned by him but never for having cheated anupama. If tbey really want to show his redemption they should atleast show him being remorseful for how he treated anu. Even his 'heart break' over kavya's dhoks was shortlived. He just jumped back in one nights roaming the streets and started his avenging mode. I don't think makers are ever going to show him down in the dust like how we want to see him.

Don’t think it has anything to do with gender. Kavya is in reflective mode and sees all these as paybacks. What you sow is what you reap, man or woman, and Kavya is reaping. Vanraj too in his own way is paying for his kaand, the love of his life is no longer the love of his life, he sees her as a noose around his neck, that is misery in itself too.

I rather watch bai and Katya than this mukki nonsense. Sorry to say bt this whole track is annoying.

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

You're so right! How does he sleep at night? I swear it broke me to see him grovelling in front of malvika.. It made me so angry st her too even though I understand she has a lot of unresolved trauma. But she was very self-centered from even before the accident from what anuj relates about her. I feel really really sorry for anuj.

yeah i really pitied him in that scene when he start singing muqabala. it struck me right in the heart. he's has had some very major setback and disappoints in life. him and GK living in that tiny apartment makes perfect sense now. he's only that business man 9-5 but outside of that, he is a lonely and grieved man. its so sad. yeah he did say that malvika was always flighty...i guess things got worse after the parents died.

Originally posted by: sunshine36

Reading your post actually choked me. No one should go through this kind of loss but as Arya mentioned the loving, devoted and a solid human being that emerged out of him is praiseworthy👏💪 to have a such a person in your life is actually a blessing. Anu had her trauma and she healed with a lot of grace and dignity. Now her pain has a purpose. She is the healer and am happy that she is the only one who can sail Anuj and mukku out of this storm. We are in for some serious emotional coaster. Hope they both find the light and peace within them and come together as one happy family. Anu, Anuj, mal and GK will actually make a great family na

yeah you're right. we all have a story and not all of us make it out in one piece. some of us turn bitter, resentful, hateful. but then i guess he is bitter, resentful and hateful towards himself. he needs people in his life that are going to help soothe that guilt. professional help would make a huge difference, but having a spouse or partner who you can off-load on would also make a huge difference for him. anu was right when she said that he bottles things in. im soooooooo happy tho to see that he opened up to her. he needs an outlet, someone he can trust, someone who wont judge him. him sharing his sorrow with her is a bonding moment for them and i think that's why mukku didnt like that. she doesnt want him to be bonded to anyone but her for fear of losing him. i dont know how much anupamaa is going to be able to do for mukku. she has this beautiful motherly way about her. if mukku can look to her like a mother i think mukku would at least feel like she has an anchor. i think the reason why she avoids anuj so much is cuz she sees the pain she feels reflected in his eyes. its like the pain is just reverberating between the two of them, back and forth. aside from anuj, anu can be a great addition to mukku life if she lets her in...