The Meltdown - Page 18

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

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pls tell me he is reading this for ideas on what to do about Didi 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤣.. one can only hold on to hope! Deluded I know but still hope 🙏🏻

Punishment ka to pata nahi.. Mann next crime definitely planned.. Murder bach gaya hai.. Didi wo bhi karde kisi ka🤣

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

Sorry I just want to understand ki cause Imlie showed too much guess, aur gusse mei Kuch jyada keh diya...so she is all wrong now? Adi ne kit I Baar Bina samjhe, Bina Jane Imlie pe guess Kiya hai, Kya Kya nahi kaha to finally PATNI decided to be full fledged angry and only will calm down if Adi says ok Malini ko uske Ghar bhejta hu. Jimmedari to phir bhi no hai ja sakti hai. Bas sab theek ho jata instead he was like nope that can't happen, come home and live with ghatiya rapist.

LOL firstly, Adi doesn't believe that M is a rapist....so point number 1, what he doesn't believe or understand, he can't be accused of "forcing" Imlie to bear.....Imlie has also told the WHOLE T family that M is a rapist, that M is lying about this goli thing......did the T family also not tell her ki aao ghar pe raho Malini ke saath? 😆.....so how exactly is it only ADI's fault baar baar as it is being painted by people here? And btw Adi never told Imlie to come home to live with MALINI.....he just told her to come back to live in HER HOUSE.....Malini is irrelevant for him.

Imlie has different rules for the Ts (who ABUSED her like dirt for more than 100 epis with the insanely nasty things they did and said to her) and the Adi who fought the whole world to be with her.....lol toh phir funny toh lagega hi why she is so cool with Ts who are also still treating M so nicely but she is hating Adi......

And nobody said that Imlie alone is all wrong now....jo baat hum bol bol ke thak gaye hain aur is forum ke mahaan diggaj samajhna nahin chahte is that BOTH Adi and Imlie are at fault.....but only Adi is painted as the all time sinner while Imlie always painted a victim......so we are only trying to set the record straight about what Imlie is doing wrong in her anger and impulse too.

Btw Adi has never told Imlie ki tum Malini ke saath achhe se raho, Malini ko tumhein permanently ghar mein rakhna padega.....he only once told to Imlie (before the Janmashtami rape) that M will always remain in his life as a DOST.....but after that time he's never forced Imlie ki you have to bear M in the house....it is Imlie who jumped on keeping M in the house and only later when she randomly flipped in anger, Adi was like aise retaliation mein kisi ko ghar se nikaalna theek nahin lagta.....that is all.

Yeh baat pata nahin logon ko samajh kyun nahin aati ki if Adi is not convinced of M's truth, why will he do retaliatory things? In his eyes, M is at the most someone who occasionally talks shit about Imlie out of jealousy....but he doesn't consider her a criminal....upar se she claims to be pregnant....no shareef person would act retaliatory towards someone aise hi.

And Adi-Imlie do not share a conventional husband-wife relationship jo baar baar log "as a wife, as a wife" ka gyaan dene aate hain.....lol "as a wife", no wife WILLINGLY steps back for so long from even doing the basic thing of sharing her husband's room.....lol but Imlie Devi ji chose all this willingly for a long time.....so yeah, let's really not get into "as a wife" here to justify why Imlie can't bear M only now.....the issue between Adi-Imlie is that they have taken turns getting manipulated and played by M.....and woh unko aapas mein hi solve karna padega rather than all this screaming daily ki "as a husband", Adi should instantly kick out a woman to please his wife.....lol as if M is some regular woman in their lives......this baggage has been welcomed in by both Adilie for a long time....aise hi nahin ho jaayega kick out.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

BTW, it is so funny that her dialogue today actually made sense - she is actively having to do nothing, while Adi and Imlie are hell bent in destroying their relationship in their own bitterness.

While Malini ne chingari phenki, inke rishte ko jalaya sirf in done ne hi. While Adi is still trying, Imlie is hell bent on not seeing past her zid, which has brought them to this point.

LOL Malini has already done enough to destroy them.....for her to now play coy in bemusement ki use kuch karna hi nahin padaa.....lol she got Imlie kicked out of the hostel simply to denigrate her self-respect aur yeh bolti hai isne kuch nahin kiya? Sure sure😆.....it's easy for her to sit back and watch it all burn down now but she didn't just light a chingaari, she used a mashaal......baaki hawaa Adilie ne khud de kar kar liya apna kaam tamaam.

Imlie is very right in the point that she fought hard for so long by herself to make everyone see M ka truth....she has been through terrible situations all by herself and Adi ko idea bhi nahin hai......but at the same time, it is also true that clueless hi sahi, Adi ne kabhi Imlie ka haath nahin chhoda - his stance always remained ki come what may, we are together, we will ride it out jo bhi hai. He may have been negligent and stupid, but he never abandoned Imlie....he never pushed her away (again, I'm talking from the time he realized his love for her - not digging up old issues like others here keep doing trying to vilify him from the pre-realization phase....lol). Right now, Imlie is the one pushing him away actively....she's the one telling him you have no right to worry about me, don't show me your face warna main waapis PD chali jaaungi etc. etc......so that is the difference in their approach. No matter how much they clashed before, Imlie never went to this extent with him....so that is what is going to push him over the edge - the fact that Imlie is literally pushing him away now. Her walking away he could handle cuz she's done it many times before, but now she is pushing him away actively and also seemingly giving preference to a random new guy over him - that is what is breaking him.

Waise I do find M's dialogue ironic for another reason.....kaafi log yahaan Adi ko bhi Bhagwaan samajhte hain ki he alone decides the fate of why Imlie is now in ASR ka ghar.....lol yeh bhi hilarious baat padhi maine with people claiming Adi is responsible for Imlie landing up in ASR ka ghar cuz he didn't believe her about M in time and allows M to still run around free to sabotage Imlie😆.....waah waah so Adi alone is expected to have the powers to stop a psycho like M....he is expected to be so door-darshi ki itna aage ka soch le what all M can do to Imlie jaise ki Imlie toh bas lamb hai aur khud se koi decision nahin le sakti - wrong or right😆

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

After 2days episode with more new family imlie ss I felt like those who started watching show after 300+ episodes don’t miss anything much as they can see it as fresh show and those who wanted to not root after 300+ also miss nothing in upcoming episodes

Don’t know whenever they can show the real essence of show …

LOL all I can say is that if there are new viewers showing up after 300+ epis without any idea about the baseline story, unko bhi bahut jaldi bahut bura wala trauma hone wala hai🤣

Imlie se jo bhi log expectation lagaa rahe hain of her "organically falling in lowe" with this Udhaarwala🤣.....oh boy, I can only say all the best.....bahut nazaare dikhaayegi Imlie aap logon ko😆

I know it's hard for some people to accept, but Imlie doesn't love Adi only because he is her pati😆....matlab if that's the logic by which people think ki woh ASR will suddenly become new pati toh Imlie will flip to loving him🤣, toh wahaan bhi chop hi hogi......lol only Adi-Imlie know what they truly mean to each other beyond every label, beyond every rishta.....lol baaki sab log toh baahar se bas commentary kar sakte hain - Aparna included.....in madam ko toh naya naya pata chala hai that Adi-Imlie truly love each other....lol she was also under the delusion for so many epis ki Adi just pities Imlie and she is trapping him.....lol toh jin logon ko Adilie ke equation ki history bhi nahin pataa - what they haven't even witnessed from the various PD trips - woh log kya samjhenge is rishte ko😆

Adi is an amalgamation of so many roles in Imlie's life ki woh khud bhi shaayad kabhi articulate nahin kar paayegi😆.....pati is the easiest one to use cuz it's the most obvious one.....lol but he is her friend, guardian, love, babysitter😆, mentor, motivator, teacher, school, university, darzi😆, soul baring confession box, saathi, dard, dawaa.....lol sab kuch....no other person can fulfill so many roles in her life and that is why what she feels for him is all consuming - not dependent on the label of pati.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

In which 2otld has he said come home and live with rapist?? Koi alag epi chal rahi hai?? Have they ever talked about coming home in a decent manner..? Anyway I feel exhausted we have said out takes in q8 pages long thread if you are so curious you can read it am not gonna repeat myself and neither are my fellas here..once again..thanks..and btw no one said she is totally wrong again if you would have read the discussion you would have known..thanks and Bye

Didn't mean to upset you Nadanji.

Par jab Imlie apne pati ko bolti hai ki Malini ko nikalo mei chalungi Ghar and pati says woh hamari jimmedari hai, Tum Chalo Ghar! Now I am not nikaling any other meaning than what's told clearly. He is clearly saying he can't kick out MC cause she is his jimmedari and wants Imlie to be with him in his house.

By the way, makers have kept such open loop..no one talks about what will happen when kid comes..will MC forever stay at T's once baby is born? Is MC still Adi's jimmedari once baby is out? Na Adi ko na T's ko yeh batein karta dikhaya hai. (I am still rooting fake pregnancy)

(Sorry started writing reply last night only but then I fell asleep with kids)

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL all I can say is that if there are new viewers showing up after 300+ epis without any idea about the baseline story, unko bhi bahut jaldi bahut bura wala trauma hone wala hai🤣

Imlie se jo bhi log expectation lagaa rahe hain of her "organically falling in lowe" with this Udhaarwala🤣.....oh boy, I can only say all the best.....bahut nazaare dikhaayegi Imlie aap logon ko😆

I know it's hard for some people to accept, but Imlie doesn't love Adi only because he is her pati😆....matlab if that's the logic by which people think ki woh ASR will suddenly become new pati toh Imlie will flip to loving him🤣, toh wahaan bhi chop hi hogi......lol only Adi-Imlie know what they truly mean to each other beyond every label, beyond every rishta.....lol baaki sab log toh baahar se bas commentary kar sakte hain - Aparna included.....in madam ko toh naya naya pata chala hai that Adi-Imlie truly love each other....lol she was also under the delusion for so many epis ki Adi just pities Imlie and she is trapping him.....lol toh jin logon ko Adilie ke equation ki history bhi nahin pataa - what they haven't even witnessed from the various PD trips - woh log kya samjhenge is rishte ko😆

Adi is an amalgamation of so many roles in Imlie's life ki woh khud bhi shaayad kabhi articulate nahin kar paayegi😆.....pati is the easiest one to use cuz it's the most obvious one.....lol but he is her friend, guardian, love, babysitter😆, mentor, motivator, teacher, school, university, darzi😆, soul baring confession box, saathi, dard, dawaa.....lol sab kuch....no other person can fulfill so many roles in her life and that is why what she feels for him is all consuming - not dependent on the label of pati.

That’s the thing.. ppl have this misconception that Adilie is only so because of their forced marriage but their bond is so much more beyond this. They are each others everything and more and now they are so lost cos they have only ever been able to rely and be themselves truly with each other. So this divorce won’t mean nuts cos even then they will get pulled towards each other like magnets .

This is the problem, ppl easy bashing AKT for something he could not do in his state of mind right now!

If a man is blinded, how could we accuse him of not seeing the light?

He is blinded by fake image of a frnd for 7 years! He is blinded by guilt of the mess he made the 2 sisters go through!

What Imlie is saying does not match what he is seeing!

And now even Imlie left his side and actively blaming him for everything! And never try to at least justify and clarify the new dost thing!

And even the Ts, it is easer to them to blame him, and dismiss what they have done!

What they would do if he told them about Imlie the first day? Will they hug her and welcome her to the family?

What will they do if he told them at Adini wedding? Will they be happy and take it easy?!

They never put themself in his shoes, and try to understand his state of mind!

For god sake! He is coming home shattered drunk!! Instead of hugging him, tell him every thing will be fine, they blame him and slap him! Like who does that to an already broken man!

The Ts that already afraid of mentioning Imlie's name in front of the whale to not upset the pregnant women and her baby?!

Imlie madam already knew everything! She knew that the whale planning to throw her out of Adi's home and life, so imlie madam made it easy for her and fulfill her wish, wah what a great move 😅

Ok, I could understand why she left, She was right then, but by pushing Adi like this now, while knowing that he is blind and manipulated by the whale, it is just not right!

So yes the divorce is a good move now, let everything fall apart now!

Let them both experience and deal with their mess and come out stronger!

Imlie from day one had believe in her marriage, and the fact that AKT is her husband, but she take this as a solo mission, which not required the other party to participate! And it is easy for her to step back and leave whenever she feel that she had enough!

Where Adi, believed in his love! And once he relies that, he start to believe in their marriage and never left her side, always running behind her and fight the world to bring her to his side!

And the whole universe blame him including Imlie! What an Ironi 🥲

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

Imlie let go of her right... oh god I don't want to get into this but you calling Imlie Devi does sound like you see all this being more of her fault but it's ok it's ITV all leads have to be Mahaan that's the moto..let it be 16 years ago Tulsi or Imlie now!

Lol me calling Imlie Devi means I think she’s more at fault? 😆…..I’ve called Adi Maharaj for so long too, woh sab bhool gaye? 😆….If I’ve called out his mistakes and stupidities for so long, why not Imlie’s? Jo galat hai, woh galat hai. 🤷‍♀️


What will be achieved simply by asking Adi to kick M out? Lol is that the way to resolve this? It sounds so childish, not some patni ki plea as so many are painting it here. Agar Imlie ek baar bhi rote rote kehti ki mera dum ghut raha hai with M in this house, then Adi may very well have told M to leave. But the way Imlie is framing it is like a childish zidd in anger. Ki M ko nikaalo, toh hi main wahaan rehne aaungi. lol heck if Imlie had even told Adi ki ya toh main rahungi us ghar mein, ya M….then we could have accused Adi ki he “chose” M over Imlie lol. But that is not what happened either. Imlie never made it a binary choice. She just demanded he kick M out and abhi bhi yeh nahin bol rahi ki us ghar mein main rahungi ya Malini….she’s saying M ko nikaalo toh main waapis aa jaungi 😆….the whole framing of her point is why it’s messing things up further. Adi is unable to view it as anything other than an angry zidd rather than the deep heartbreak of a wife. The way Imlie has framed this is sadly not making her point come out effectively 🤷‍♀️.


Baaki Adi is stuck in the mentality of an abuse victim. Simply blaming him for not being able to believe the rape even after seeing video proof is also not a fair characterization 🤷‍♀️ There are deeper psychological issues at play given the 7 years of emotional abuse he’s lived with vis a vis Malini. All of those have to be factored in for his mental block.

No one blames Imlie for leaving T house and refusing to return. Her stance is understandable on that. But unfortunately, she will learn the hard way that abandoning Adi to figure out M’s truth on his own is also not the right solution to this. He is even more lost without Imlie now 🤷‍♀️.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL Malini has already done enough to destroy them.....for her to now play coy in bemusement ki use kuch karna hi nahin padaa.....lol she got Imlie kicked out of the hostel simply to denigrate her self-respect aur yeh bolti hai isne kuch nahin kiya? Sure sure😆.....it's easy for her to sit back and watch it all burn down now but she didn't just light a chingaari, she used a mashaal......baaki hawaa Adilie ne khud de kar kar liya apna kaam tamaam.

Imlie is very right in the point that she fought hard for so long by herself to make everyone see M ka truth....she has been through terrible situations all by herself and Adi ko idea bhi nahin hai......but at the same time, it is also true that clueless hi sahi, Adi ne kabhi Imlie ka haath nahin chhoda - his stance always remained ki come what may, we are together, we will ride it out jo bhi hai. He may have been negligent and stupid, but he never abandoned Imlie....he never pushed her away (again, I'm talking from the time he realized his love for her - not digging up old issues like others here keep doing trying to vilify him from the pre-realization phase....lol). Right now, Imlie is the one pushing him away actively....she's the one telling him you have no right to worry about me, don't show me your face warna main waapis PD chali jaaungi etc. etc......so that is the difference in their approach. No matter how much they clashed before, Imlie never went to this extent with him....so that is what is going to push him over the edge - the fact that Imlie is literally pushing him away now. Her walking away he could handle cuz she's done it many times before, but now she is pushing him away actively and also seemingly giving preference to a random new guy over him - that is what is breaking him.

Waise I do find M's dialogue ironic for another reason.....kaafi log yahaan Adi ko bhi Bhagwaan samajhte hain ki he alone decides the fate of why Imlie is now in ASR ka ghar.....lol yeh bhi hilarious baat padhi maine with people claiming Adi is responsible for Imlie landing up in ASR ka ghar cuz he didn't believe her about M in time and allows M to still run around free to sabotage Imlie😆.....waah waah so Adi alone is expected to have the powers to stop a psycho like M....he is expected to be so door-darshi ki itna aage ka soch le what all M can do to Imlie jaise ki Imlie toh bas lamb hai aur khud se koi decision nahin le sakti - wrong or right😆

Oh I completely agree that Malini is the core reason for all this - there is no way she can wash her hands off this situation. But funnily like you mentioned, the way these 2 tackled the situation has gotten them to this point. Where Adi faltered was ignoring the problem in the hopes that it will either go away on its own or solve itself, while Imlie was being impulsive in her way of approaching the issue, which landed up being beneficial for Malini's manipulation of ADI even more.

Malini has a lot of crimes that she committed (we have a very long thread for that in this forum itself) in her quest to haasil karo ADI, but right now like you said, Adilie's relationship is at this point due to both their mistakes as well.

Imlie's issue right now is that Adi is not able to see even now what her issue with Malini is, while ADI still assumes that whatever the issue be, it needs to be resolved together. Imlie being tired of explaining herself makes sense - even yesterday if she had calmly spoken to Adi and told him that being in the same house as Malini is difficult for her and she put her point in a way that got through Adi (which she has done before), maybe things would not have escalated to this level. Adi may have not resolved the Malini issue but has time and again tried to respect Imlie's wishes while still making the effort to make her understand where he feels she is being taken advantage of - the same way Imlie did with him wrt to Malini. Like he never realised the gravity of her warnings then, she is not willing to see the coming problems in his warnings now. Hence my hope is that maybe some distance will help to give both of them some perspective to see the other's POV better - but that may take much longer and make them more bitter before their equation becomes any better.