The Meltdown - Page 19

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol me calling Imlie Devi means I think she’s more at fault? 😆…..I’ve called Adi Maharaj for so long too, woh sab bhool gaye? 😆….If I’ve called out his mistakes and stupidities for so long, why not Imlie’s? Jo galat hai, woh galat hai. 🤷‍♀️


What will be achieved simply by asking Adi to kick M out? Lol is that the way to resolve this? It sounds so childish, not some patni ki plea as so many are painting it here. Agar Imlie ek baar bhi rote rote kehti ki mera dum ghut raha hai with M in this house, then Adi may very well have told M to leave. But the way Imlie is framing it is like a childish zidd in anger. Ki M ko nikaalo, toh hi main wahaan rehne aaungi. lol heck if Imlie had even told Adi ki ya toh main rahungi us ghar mein, ya M….then we could have accused Adi ki he “chose” M over Imlie lol. But that is not what happened either. Imlie never made it a binary choice. She just demanded he kick M out and abhi bhi yeh nahin bol rahi ki us ghar mein main rahungi ya Malini….she’s saying M ko nikaalo toh main waapis aa jaungi 😆….the whole framing of her point is why it’s messing things up further. Adi is unable to view it as anything other than an angry zidd rather than the deep heartbreak of a wife. The way Imlie has framed this is sadly not making her point come out effectively 🤷‍♀️.


Baaki Adi is stuck in the mentality of an abuse victim. Simply blaming him for not being able to believe the rape even after seeing video proof is also not a fair characterization 🤷‍♀️ There are deeper psychological issues at play given the 7 years of emotional abuse he’s lived with vis a vis Malini. All of those have to be factored in for his mental block.

No one blames Imlie for leaving T house and refusing to return. Her stance is understandable on that. But unfortunately, she will learn the hard way that abandoning Adi to figure out M’s truth on his own is also not the right solution to this. He is even more lost without Imlie now 🤷‍♀️.

Lmao ay ji I am sorry 😞 ke ab devi ji ko devi kehn dena paap hai.. hawwwww yeh lya paap ho gaya aapse.. yahaan sorf adi ko hi bol sakte hain ajeeb ajeeb naam and it is all fine but imlie ko kuch keh dena is the highest order ka problem caz woh kabhi galat nahi ho sakti woman you see

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL all I can say is that if there are new viewers showing up after 300+ epis without any idea about the baseline story, unko bhi bahut jaldi bahut bura wala trauma hone wala hai🤣

Imlie se jo bhi log expectation lagaa rahe hain of her "organically falling in lowe" with this Udhaarwala🤣.....oh boy, I can only say all the best.....bahut nazaare dikhaayegi Imlie aap logon ko😆

I know it's hard for some people to accept, but Imlie doesn't love Adi only because he is her pati😆....matlab if that's the logic by which people think ki woh ASR will suddenly become new pati toh Imlie will flip to loving him🤣, toh wahaan bhi chop hi hogi......lol only Adi-Imlie know what they truly mean to each other beyond every label, beyond every rishta.....lol baaki sab log toh baahar se bas commentary kar sakte hain - Aparna included.....in madam ko toh naya naya pata chala hai that Adi-Imlie truly love each other....lol she was also under the delusion for so many epis ki Adi just pities Imlie and she is trapping him.....lol toh jin logon ko Adilie ke equation ki history bhi nahin pataa - what they haven't even witnessed from the various PD trips - woh log kya samjhenge is rishte ko😆

Adi is an amalgamation of so many roles in Imlie's life ki woh khud bhi shaayad kabhi articulate nahin kar paayegi😆.....pati is the easiest one to use cuz it's the most obvious one.....lol but he is her friend, guardian, love, babysitter😆, mentor, motivator, teacher, school, university, darzi😆, soul baring confession box, saathi, dard, dawaa.....lol sab kuch....no other person can fulfill so many roles in her life and that is why what she feels for him is all consuming - not dependent on the label of pati.

This!! Itni si baat samjh lein toh baat hi kya hai.. again pati toh aaya bhi sabse aakhir main they have been all these things before . They were/are beyond labels which is why this level of hurt and longing and it hurts so much seeing them make a mess out of the situation.. again yes as adi and inlie says sirf hum dono jaante hain hum ne kya kya Saha hai yeh baahar wale kya jaanein .. easier said then done.. and try to be a preacher on the fence having not an oounce of idea of the actual ground problem 🙄

Great reviews everyone😊 I have not been watching the episodes for a while, but I enjoyed reading everyone's takes whenever I got time.

I think dadda's words before getting arrested have triggered Imlie.

After Malini's entry into T-house, Imlie had to face many impossible situations and make some very difficult choices. Some of these choices were a compromise on her part but she compromised anyway because she was Imlie - Aditya's wife, T-bahu. She loved her husband dearly and was ready to walk through hell and high fire because of that love.

But Dadda's arrest changed her identity. Before getting arrested, Dadda said - we are only two people from village fighting against many shehris. They wont accept our truth because we speak differently. I don't know what is happening between you and Aditya babu. But I will tell you one thing, don't stay where people treat you as a lesser being. You are a shagun a sikka. This was a generic advice given by her wise dadda.

But suddenly Imlie realized that she was Imlie - pagdandiya ki wazifa prapt ladki. Dadda ki shagun ka sikka. His pride. A girl who never compromised her self respect.

Dadda's arrest and his words left Imlie feeling vulnerable. She was lost and wanted to feel the trust, the sense of belonging and love from her family.

So Aditya could not have picked a worse time to talk to Imlie. Malini's words shook him. He did not think that Imlie could ever be as viscous as Malini was making her to be. But why would Malini lie? He lamented that he uncovers truth for a living, but is unable to uncover truth in his personal life. He wanted to uncover the truth, so he needed to speak with Imlie. Ask her what happened and learn the truth.

So the next day, when M and AC claimed that Imlie was openly threatening to harm Malini, each family member declared their allegiance to Imlie and with each allegiance imlie was visibly preening. Her family loved and trusted her. Thank Sita Maiyya🙏

And in waltzed BBSB By the time BBSB walked in battle lines were already drawn. You either believe in Imlie or you dont. And after proudly declaring their allegiance to Imlie, T-fam wanted Aditya to follow their suite. Declare his undying trust in Imlie. But for Aditya this was not the issue of trust. It was an issue of truth. He wanted to hear from Imlie, his wife, what happened. He wanted to speak to her privately. Tell her what malini told him, listen to her truth.

But for pagdandiya ki Imlie this was the ultimate proof that she was neither trusted nor respected.

It hit her that she was married forcefully and forced to act like a maid. She was treated badly by her husband and in-laws. But she never held that against anyone and treated everyone with love and respect. She even compromised and accepted her husband's assaulter and their unborn child. She earned everyone's trust and love. But even after doing so much, the man she was compromising for, loved so dearly, did not see her for what she was. He did not trust her. He proved to be unworthy of her. So she burned her mangalsutra and stormed out. She refused to go through trials and tribulations for someone who did not trust her.

This extreme reaction baffled everyone and deeply hurt Aditya. He did not understand this over reaction to a seemingly innocent question. To him, this proved once again, how easy it was for imlie to walk away from him. Everyone begged AI to reconcile. But pagdandiya ki imlie doesn't compromise and aditya would not beg her anymore to stay with him. If she truly wanted to leave, he will not stop her.

If pagdandia's imlie steels herself to leave, imlie Aditya's wife, t-bahu remembers the happiness she felt and the love she received. PD's imlie literally ran away from t-house to stop herself from going back in.

She reminded herself of all the mistreatment she faced and painted herself the abla naari and aditya the mistreating, hypocritical husband. So now from her moral high ground of being a mistreated woman she expects complete submission from Aditya. He lost the moral standing to question her or her choices. She completely discredited her own choices that brought her to this point.

Imlie is churning. She is sometimes Imlie from pagdandia, an intelligent, independent woman who does not shy away from yelling at her husband to stand her ground. Who declares that she is never coming back to t-house.

Other times she is Imlie - aditya's wife who loves her husband and expects his attention, praise and love. Who thinks that they are separated for a short time while her BBSB figures out M's truth. She hurts when she misbehaves with her BBSB. She understands his choices and supports him even when no one else will.

Rupi and Nishu are trying harder but need to do more against Malini. I wish Rupi had thrown that sharbat over Malini's head.

Why don't they search her room whilst she is out at college, to look for the chabi?

Then they can get the phone, copy the recording and send to all the family. Then Adi can be sorry and Imlie can come home to the T house. It is all I am waiting for.