RaghVi.... A happy ending??? From whose point of view?
Why does the thought of Raghav-Pallavi getting a happy ending doesn't sit right with me? It is like pushing someone into a deep well, a shit hole that I know she would never be able to come out from. It is that knowing that uski saath galat ho raha hai. Pallavi is going back to such a person who has treated her like shit 90% of the time. Why should she contend with a man who didnot think twice before cheating on her. Yes, cheating. Emotional cheating is also cheating and is also condemned. Raghav didnot think twice before having drinks with his ex, feeding her soup, hugging her, or while declaring his ONS in front of 20 odd people. What does that tell about him?
*Edited By DT*
Raghav cheated emotionally. Because of his looks? Definitely not because of his personality coz it is shit. Why is Pallavi going back to such a person acceptable? Why is this not rejected?
In what way does Pallavi deserves a person who has always been uncaring of her emotions? R has been an insufferable jerk from Day 1. It is nothing new. He never said he was a saint. It was like a decent man made a cameo in the redemption track and the "Raghav Rao" came back soon after that. He has been going downhill ever since. At least that guy had some principles. Yeh toh đľ. I liked Raghav very much in that track. His behaviour now makes me question how could a man stoop so low?
Aaj he is even trying to commit suicide? Like really? What more evidence is needed, it screams toxic relationship. He has committed a irreconcilable mistake and he doesn't even give her the space to think. How sick is that. Mujhe pyaar nahi nazar aathi uski harkat se. He is not running behind his love, he is once again emotionally blackmailing her to make her bend according to his marzi. He is being selfish and he doesn't even realise. There is something called space. You give that for the other person to think and regroup.
His guilt-e-ishq has made him do so many things. I haven't mentioned half the things he did, that hurt Pallavi. So what happens when she forgives him? Will he change for good? I don't think so. Eff up thy name is Raghav Rao. He will f***k up umpteen times and Pallavi will always have to reconcile and forgive him. Basically baby sitting a grown adult. How many times does he need redemption? He character assassinated her, redemption. He thought Pallavi needed closure and khud ko surrender kar diya jail mein. Apologize. Keerthi ne Sunny se shaadi karne ka blame bhi Pallavi par aayi. And he didnot even freaking apologize. He didnot pay heed to Pallavi's advice to stop the illegal business, but no avail. Pallavi had to take a bullet to convince him. Redemption. Now ONS and EC. Ok, it will be proved either he was violated or it didnot happen. But the incidents that led up to the actual deed was were he was in his full senses. Why do we ignore that? When will Raghav stop being an ass? And more importantly why should Pallavi out up with this?
Yes, his abandonment issues and his past has played a vital role in his mistakes. But can this be the reason he always commit mistakes? Does having a bad past warrants a person to behave like shit and then apologize?
His past has turned into a damn joke. He hates women because his ex ditched him. He is money and power obsessed because his father and brother died. But according to the story he moved on to love someone else immediately after moving out, and he got over his Nana and Bhai's death so quickly? They say grief doesn't have timelines. But isnt this quiet contradictory to what was shown regarding his guilt and pain? Chalo, Let's forget the logical issues of the show for now.
What did Pallavi do so bad to deserve this fate? Because she has given her whole heart and loves everyone wholly? The ex turned out to be psycho and current Cheater? Doesn't she deserve a husband who respects her love, thinks about her instead of being wholly selfish? Remarriage would have been welcomed with open arms about 1.5 months back when he was atleast a decent human being. But now it doesn't feel like happy ending. It feels tragic because knowing Pallavi will never feel secure to trust him whole heartedly. Kabhi yeh nahi keh payegi that her husband has been always loyal to her. He has cheated once, whats the argument he wouldn't again? As they say, once bitten twice shy. Will he stop drinking and lying to her? Will that abstainment continue or will it be back to square one after a few days? Even now he is drinking.
Since people are very fond of this: Imagine, if your closed ones, your best friend, sister or someone whom you knew was in such a predicament, will we recommend them to give the husband a second chance? Kis basis pe? We would ask her to ditch it and get away from this toxic relationship as soon as possible. So why should Pallavi not do that and forgive Raghav? Kyunki yeh show hai, asal zindagi thodi. But such shows do affect the thinking of many a people. I wouldn't wish a fate on anyone knowing they are consciously making a mistake. Yes hum insaan hai, galtiyan hoti hai humse. But second chances are for those people who commit mistakes. Choices donot deserve second chances, jo insaan khuli aankho se galtiyan karta hai, usko maaf karne se kya hoga? You have got to accept that you made terrible choices and move on. Raghav can consult a good psychiatrist for his mental issues and allow Pallavi to move on in life. She is allowed to be happy and take decisions in her life. Again if she chooses to forgive that's something else, but here he is forcing her to reconcile. Gussa haraunga? Seriously? Stakking and forcing someone to forgive doesn't solve shit. It only shows how good of an emotional manipulator you are. Gaslighting, emotional manipulation, emotionally cheating, humiliation, he has done everything. But still he deserves second, sorry uncounted chance? Kyun aisa kya kiya Raghav ne Pallavi ke liye?
A husband needs to make the wife feel secured, loved and happy. Loved just as she is. Raghav made her self doubt which in itself is disdainful. Ek baar nahi do baar. Because of his "guilt". Kab khatam hoga iski guilt?
Self harm is one of the worst types of emotional blackmail. That is literally forcing the other person to act according to your whims and fancies. I mean wtf is this? Does he really think him dying, agnipariksha will absolve him of his guilt or the mistakes he did consciously? How is this even justifiable?
Sorry mere liye, its not RaghVi happy ending. It doesn't feel like it. It feels like a tragic ending for Pallavi. It is happy only for R because he has got back his emotional punching bag back. He has someone whom he can play blame game on. And still the lady has got to be patient and accept him as he is. Is this why we should celebrate? Or is it because Pallavi's life will be forever a question mark uske liye?
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