Why will you invite some rando from the road into your house? Especially if that random person is your sister-in-law's ex husband?
Does Neha not have the freedom to be happy or unhappy or make decisions in her own marriage? Who is Sona to dictate when she should be ready to speak to Ranveer?
Also I really don't think she fell out of love with Ranveer- especially not because of amenities. Neha grew up extremely poor, and Ranveer lives in a 2 room house with 5-6 people. After marriage, she was transported back to the trauma of her childhood, having to forego her comfort and dreams to take care of a family. Why should she live a life like that? She has every right to leave when she realised that's not the life she hoped for.
Sonakshi was blind and blatantly disrespectful to other people's values, their circumstances, their privacy. The Dixits didn't come from the same comfortable background that she came from, their way of reacting to situations might not have been right, but it's because of their situation not because they're bad people. Sonakshi never bothered to understand these circumstances, actually none of the characters did.
That way, so many things Dev did was with selfless intention to help, not to hurt. But an action can simultaneously help someone and hurt someone else- like when he broke up with Sonakshi to make his mother happy. Dev was impulsive and messy- that's who he is, Sonakshi is sensible and sorted- that's who she is.
Sona never dictated neha neither disrespectful to any dixit members.. And ranveer was not ex. It was always sona's privacy invaded. Here Sona just wanted them to talk n solve. I think you see sona as outsider that's why you feel so. For me it's general that elders try to mend. Buts it's ok you are not considering her efforts for bringing them together. And I see from sona perspective, I would do the same. Neha knew before marriage what she is getting into. Ranveer was not bad person who dont treat her like outsider. So, it was neha who realised she needs luxury life over love life after marriage and didnot even thought she would spoil ranveer life. Infact i expected neha would adjust easily in ranveer house as she experienced from childhood how poor life is. If she was rich throughout life, then it would hv been difficult to adjust. And sadly she chose luxury over love. And she was bad with ranveer. No body will ticket to hurt someone bcoz of their bad past. That's my openion on neha.
Definitely neha has choice to choose her life. If she had told she cannot live with him n wants divorce, I don't think anyone would stop her.
And also sona never took decision for neha. What if she had treated neha as outsider which many family do. Once daughter married they bcom paraya. But kind hearted sona, after hearing so much from neha n family still went up to neha n asked if she can make smoothly for her. How ungreatful neha was. I always heard who grown from poor to rich remains grounded n value things around them. Unfortunately neha didnot. She herself is the reason for her sad life.
Now let us stop here. Bcoz you see from neha's perspective n I see from general perspective. And my openion will not change for sona. And I wish to get DIL like sona. If I get sona kind of DIL, I would consider myself lucky. Finger crossed..