~*Off we go Starboard side #3*~ Strictly Invitees only - Page 33

Originally posted by: fria319

Working & trying to be an adult.

😭 I miss college

I'm in MD :)

How about you?

Don't cry 😂😂

It's good to be adult 😂

I am on KS, I am working as Assistant SW QA manager.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Don't cry 😂😂

It's good to be adult 😂

I am on KS, I am working as Assistant SW QA manager.

Been trying to be an adult for 10 years now - its trash - why did I ever want to grow up? I want to be in college again without a care in the world 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: fria319

Been trying to be an adult for 10 years now - its trash - why did I ever want to grow up? I want to be in college again without a care in the world 🤣🤣

Everyone wants to be in college and care free , who wants to grow up 😆. But we have to.. you will do well and will get settled too 👍🏼 I don't know whether you read sharada OS, it's good. Wish cvs do something to watch bearable 🙄

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Fria and Ana - are you both working or studying??

Ana you are on PA.

Fria you ??

Gayu I am working...

Originally posted by: fria319

Working & trying to be an adult.

😭 I miss college

I'm in MD :)

How about you?

We aint far away Fria.. I am in south Central PA😊

Fria what is your short take on the epi. I ain't watching.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Fria what is your short take on the epi. I ain't watching.

It can’t be a short take. I’m confused on how I feel 😂🤣🤣

I’m not mad at Raghav. I’ll give you the tldr: he gets so drunk he’s hallucinating that Esha is Pallavi. Esha doesn’t correct him. And yes it’s implied that they do the deed.

I am disappointed in his decision to continue drinking. He clearly didn’t know what he was doing but can I say this all was allowed to happened bc he was drunk? Is that victim blaming? Is he a victim? Is he not?

Sober Raghav would have never done this, obviously. Esha did make advances towards him while knowing he thought she was Pallavi - so I guess that makes him the victim?

I’m just confused about where I stand on this which is why I’m not mad at him but I am disappointed. He does have a history of hallucinations so I mean can I really place any blame on him? Is this r*pe? Is it not, bc he wasn’t forced? He pulled Esha closer to him thinking it was Pallavi. So he was tricked.

But at the same time, he made that decision to drink - and to keep drinking. He knows he can’t handle his alcohol anymore. Esha egged him on but she didn’t trick him about the drinking game.

It was a drunken mistake, but is that any consolation to a spouse? Either way he cheated right? He chose to drink right ? Is Eshas manipulation of the situation enough to place all the blame on her ? It’s not like she pinned him down. She’s gross AF for what she did but she didn’t force herself on him. Or did she because she pretended to be Pallavi?

and before anyone starts, if this happened to P the way it happened to R, I would be just as confused and asking the same questions.

Tbh I’d like peoples opinions. I’m not sure what to think. I think it definitely is clear Raghav would’ve never done this if he was sober or if he wasn’t hallucinating, so it’s not his fault?

I’m sad it had to come to this. He’s definitely going to keep it from Pallavi tho. And that will be his downfall.

also please no one say this is victim shaming bc I don’t know if what happened to him was actual assault or just a drunk mistake. Or both. I am confused tbh. Maybe someone can clear it up for me.

Originally posted by: fria319

It can’t be a short take. I’m confused on how I feel 😂🤣🤣 I'm confused too after reading the updates. No courage to watch.

I’m not mad at Raghav. I’ll give you the tldr: he gets so drunk he’s hallucinating that Esha is Pallavi. Esha doesn’t correct him. And yes it’s implied that they do the deed. Fria they will have to show nothing happened. This is not UD, this is Mhrw. Inko koi trp nai aane wali. I'm counting on a reveal that drugs plus trap plus nothing happened.

I am disappointed in his decision to continue drinking. He clearly didn’t know what he was doing but can I say this all was allowed to happened bc he was drunk? Is that victim blaming? Is he a victim? Is he not? Fria, he knows he can't handle his drinks then he should have drank in limits. I would not want him to touch a drop of alcohol to save his own life also. I know he hallucinated her and Esha took advantage but is that going to be enough of an excuse for Pallavi. I want her to ask him if she did this would he forgive her.

Sober Raghav would have never done this, obviously. Esha did make advances towards him while knowing he thought she was Pallavi - so I guess that makes him the victim? Yes he's a victim but a stupid victim to have willingly walked in the trap. How can be ever prove he slept with Esha assuming she was Pallavi. Let's say Esha was positive and drunk as well. Then where does consent come in the picture. Raghav's defence is Esha ke intentions right now. Which is not sitting well by me tbh.

I’m just confused about where I stand on this which is why I’m not mad at him but I am disappointed. He does have a history of hallucinations so I mean can I really place any blame on him? Is this r*pe? Is it not, bc he wasn’t forced? He pulled Esha closer to him thinking it was Pallavi. So he was tricked. Very disappointed as well. He's going to lie and the likes of Esha, sunny and laxmi will blackmail him. Serves him right. I want tk see him shitting bricks seeing Pallavi close to discovering the truth.

But at the same time, he made that decision to drink - and to keep drinking. He knows he can’t handle his alcohol anymore. Esha egged him on but she didn’t trick him about the drinking game. I agree. He needs tk face consequences of his actions

It was a drunken mistake, but is that any consolation to a spouse? Either way he cheated right? He chose to drink right ? Is Eshas manipulation of the situation enough to place all the blame on her ? It’s not like she pinned him down. She’s gross AF for what she did but she didn’t force herself on him. Or did she because she pretended to be Pallavi? Their marriage is hanging on a thin thread right now that Esha trapped him and nothing happened. No other situation I can see Pallavi forgiving Raghav.

and before anyone starts, if this happened to P the way it happened to R, I would be just as confused and asking the same questions. Yes agreed.

Tbh I’d like peoples opinions. I’m not sure what to think. I think it definitely is clear Raghav would’ve never done this if he was sober or if he wasn’t hallucinating, so it’s not his fault? It's his fault he drank so much that he could not handle. It's not his fault that Esha who was in her se senses didn't control herself. He's a victim.

I’m sad it had to come to this. He’s definitely going to keep it from Pallavi tho. And that will be his downfall. Blackmail 101 on the way. Time to rename RR mansion as SA mansion 🤣

also please no one day this is victim shaming bc I don’t know if what happened to him was actual assault or just a drunk mistake. Or both. I am confused tbh. Maybe someone can clear it up for me.

It is an assault because he was knocked out. He's a fully grown adult who's making such stupid choices one after another. This I can't defend him on.

Originally posted by: fria319

🤣🤣

Let's see.. Raghav did the following :

1) grab his exs hand to pull her away from her ex husband.

2) blew on her wound, all up close to her face.

3) had an eyelock with her during this time as well - mind you all of this is being shown with sentimental BGM music.

4) gives in to his ex's request to drink.

5) sits on the bed with her, right next to her, as she's drinking

6) sees her walk towards him and aim for a hug and doesn't back away (prob least offensive thing he did bc it's hard to push people off like that).

I think you already know what the precap is. I'll fill you in after I watch the episode in a couple of hrs.

everyone - did I forget anything else ?

Thank you so much😅😅😅 yes do fill in on today's episode....reading stuff doesn't make it sound so bad than watching it🤭🤭

Was the precap any better than the episode.. ?