Ishq Mein...[Raghvi, Mandaar & Esha] - Page 2

Originally posted by: euphoric

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This reminded me of yesterday's dialog from Sunny.. banda bht irritating hain but dialogues kya dhansu maarta hain..🤣

Originally posted by: euphoric

Lot of parallels can be drawn between Mandar and Esha track. However, the problem is not Raghav helping Esha, the problem is the way he is reacting.

Pallavi was very clear about her feelings for Mandar. She was dumbed down to a great extent but Mandar was nothing more an obligation that she took care of for the sake of her Deshmukh's.

However, the problem with Raghav is he's extreme in his exhibitions of emotions and impulsive. He is still harbouring the old wounds and that makes him conflicted. We know Raghav for sure will never... Like NEVER... will cheat on Pallavi. He loves her with the depth of his soul but his reactions may cause a dent on her trust if he continues. He has a lot of emotional baggage and Pallavi has been willingly offloading the same. However, it's not fair on Raghav's part to spill the pain of his ex on her.

He doesn't know how to handle his emotions. And in this, if Esha went away as a sacrifice, he will be guilty and sad. It is going to be a challenge for him to manage himself and yet keep Pallavi assured.

Another thing is Pallavi was extremely transparent with Raghav all through the Mandar track. Whether it was the bangles or him misbehaving with her... She told him all. But I can't say the same about Raghav... His insecurity and fear of Pallavi's reaction might stop him from sharing what is happening around him and Esha. Hiding and withdrawing is his defense mechanism... I hope I am wrong here... Coz that would be the major lapse.

Baaki I am sure makers aren't fools to kill Raghav by making him cheat on Pallavi. But sure enough, he needs to tone down and let go. Otherwise, the question is already hanging in the air, "Esha ke hone se tumhe itna farak kyun pad raha hai?"

Pallavi never loved Mandar but Raghav was deeply in love with Esha. But if Raghav doesn't tone down, her brains will go on an overdrive and both will pay the price.

Different people have different ways of handling situations and emotions. We cannot expect Raghav to behave like Pallavi knowing how he actually is.

Saying that I agree with you.

But see, the first time he tried to talk about his ex, Pallavi very clearly said she doesn't want to know anything. Whatever her reasons might have been. So Raghav tried to keep it to himself. Phir FD bolne laga ki ye theek nhi hain... be transparent.

Then suddenly she said she wants to know. So he told her. Now, I don't know why people are saying he shouldn't have said to her about his past. I mean ek pe raho naa sab.. batayein ki naa.

Pallavi didn't love Mandaar. Not her fault.

Raghav loved Esha. Not his fault.

Agreed that he should know how to handle his feelings regarding guilt or ensuing sadness knowing about the truth of the breakup. He should know how to balance his emotions. Present and past. In the same way Pallavi should have known how to balance her priorities and not get immersed in her feelings of empathy and responsibility.

But she couldn't.

Neither did I blame her for it then and nor would I blame her for it now.

Because to err is human. Mistakes occur. Emotions are a very complex field.

So, as I gave Pallavi the benifit of the doubt then, I will give Raghav a leeway now. Cause I know, the poor guy is in for a ride of carefully crafted misunderstandings and the FD is gearing to rip him apart to shreds for the same. 😆🤣

Though I do agree with some of your points and I will feel horrible for Pallavi cause she doesn't deserve it but I am ready to cut some slack to Raghav as well.

It is a terrible thing to be stuck in between your past and present trying to love your present and not feel guilty about your past. Its like two sides are pulling both of your hands in opposite directions and you struggle to not get ripped from the middle. Raghav won't cheat on Pallavi, he loves her now and he'll love her forever... of that I'm sure (plz makers). But if he doesn't feel horrible for Esha knowing the truth then I will feel there is a character defect in him. 😅

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

Different people have different ways of handling situations and emotions. We cannot expect Raghav to behave like Pallavi knowing how he actually is.

Absolutely. I am not even remotely expecting Raghav Pallavi to be same or reacting same. Considering they are poles apart, it's nt possible.

Saying that I agree with you.

But see, the first time he tried to talk about his ex, Pallavi very clearly said she doesn't want to know anything. Whatever her reasons might have been. So Raghav tried to keep it to himself. Phir FD bolne laga ki ye theek nhi hain... be transparent.

Then suddenly she said she wants to know. So he told her. Now, I don't know why people are saying he shouldn't have said to her about his past. I mean ek pe raho naa sab.. batayein ki naa.

It was her choice to not know and he respected that. I don't hold him for that. But problem arose with the the intensity of his reactions to Esha. Past was out of history books and he was ready to blow. Pallavi wouldn't have expected Raghav will be so volatile about his ex. So there instead of shunning and shutting her up he should have given her the reason and shut the matter. She knew the deal was important for him and yet he was kicking it off without a care. Farhad was worried too. She was bound to scratch her head.

Pallavi didn't love Mandaar. Not her fault.

Raghav loved Esha. Not his fault.

No one's fault. But even when there was emotional attachment, the angst was visible. He was so insecure. Yahan toh he loved her. If he continuous to churn a storm, how do we think that storm will not affect her?

Agreed that he should know how to handle his feelings regarding guilt or ensuing sadness knowing about the truth of the breakup. He should know how to balance his emotions. Present and past. In the same way Pallavi should have known how to balance her priorities and not get immersed in her feelings of empathy and responsibility.

But she couldn't.

I agree she was dumbed down. But even then she never inclined to reacted to Mandar. Raghav was aware of it too. He also pointed out abt her not prioritising him... But yahan its feelings involved.

Neither did I blame her for it then and nor would I blame her for it now.

Because to err is human. Mistakes occur. Emotions are a very complex field.

And Raghav is a nibba on this field of handling emotions

So, as I gave Pallavi the benifit of the doubt then, I will give Raghav a leeway now. Cause I know, the poor guy is in for a ride of carefully crafted misunderstandings and the FD is gearing to rip him apart to shreds for the same. 😆🤣

Though I do agree with some of your points and I will feel horrible for Pallavi cause she doesn't deserve it but I am ready to cut some slack to Raghav as well.

My issue is not about cutting Raghav some slack, my issue is he needs to tone down. He says he doesn't love her but if actions don't match his words, it is going to put Pallavi into conflict.

It is a terrible thing to be stuck in between your past and present trying to love your present and not feel guilty about your past. Its like two sides are pulling both of your hands in opposite directions and you struggle to not get ripped from the middle. Raghav won't cheat on Pallavi, he loves her now and he'll love her forever... of that I'm sure (plz makers). But if he doesn't feel horrible for Esha knowing the truth then I will feel there is a character defect in him. 😅

Absolutely. This is where I see Pallavi would ease him out of this pull and push. They won't butcher Raghav, I am sure.

Having said that I have no problem with Raghavs past but his dialogues.... She was my soulmate... It was the worst day of my life are so out of place.

I really fear the makers ability of handling a track that involves this level of complex emotions.

Originally posted by: euphoric

Having said that I have no problem with Raghavs past but his dialogues.... She was my soulmate... It was the worst day of my life are so out of place.

I really fear the makers ability of handling a track that involves this level of complex emotions.

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Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

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Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

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