Fatejo Friendship?

Hello Guys really need your opinions i don‘t understand why fateh wants to be friends again with tejo. Wasn‘t he the one 2 epis before who told he won‘t come back to home when she still stays there. Wasn’t he the one who said he doesn’t see Tejo as his wife. He wants to be free and wants to live his life with chameli. So what changed? Some episodes before did he bagged her for divorce and didin‘t wanted her in virk house now is he running behind her and wants to be friends again he even lied to his ibadat wala pyaar just to help tejo. Why? I mean he should go spend time with his chameli nowadays doesn‘t he spend time and begs tejo to be friends with him. My question is why? Why does he want this he didin‘t wanted her not even in home so what happened now? Why wants he to be the hero in tejos life? What is he trying to do. I know This isn‘t love he maybe feels quilty but in the jail he also didin‘t felt bad i mean doesn‘t he see what he did with her and how can he think that his wife can be now his bff after he cheated on her with her own sister. Can someone explain me why is fateh always behind tejo instead of living life with his pyaar?

Originally posted by: FaTejo.x

Hello Guys really need your opinions i don‘t understand why fateh wants to be friends again with tejo. Wasn‘t he the one 2 epis before who told he won‘t come back to home when she still stays there. Wasn’t he the one who said he doesn’t see Tejo as his wife. He wants to be free and wants to live his life with chameli. So what changed? Some episodes before did he bagged her for divorce and didin‘t wanted her in virk house now is he running behind her and wants to be friends again he even lied to his ibadat wala pyaar just to help tejo. Why? I mean he should go spend time with his chameli nowadays doesn‘t he spend time and begs tejo to be friends with him. My question is why? Why does he want this he didin‘t wanted her not even in home so what happened now? Why wants he to be the hero in tejos life? What is he trying to do. I know This isn‘t love he maybe feels quilty but in the jail he also didin‘t felt bad i mean doesn‘t he see what he did with her and how can he think that his wife can be now his bff after he cheated on her with her own sister. Can someone explain me why is fateh always behind tejo instead of living life with his pyaar?

Coming to him spending time with Chameli , did he ever do that , from the starting of the show hebhas always been behind Tejo (this even I never understood) . Cheating on Tejo he did know that he'll lose his wife but the dimwit thought their friendship will be intact🤪He has no idea to what extent he has hurt her , he doesn't have the capability to even study Tejo's emotions and to understand her pain . Not only Tejo's he just has no idea of the pain he and his Ibadati pyaar has caused to the people around him. He is selfish and wants everything for satisfy his male ego. There is no love and friendship from Fateh's side , with both the girls it's just his ego game

Because Tejo is selfless and smart soo anyone would want her in their life especially when compared to Jasso.

When fateh wanted tejo out of the house, he was in a problem. everyone was blaming him and angry at him. He wanted someone to blame and that person was tejo. He wanted to justify himself and hence tejo became the culprit. Also, at that time he was not getting what he wanted, that is a divorce.

Fateh was hurt when tejo signed the divorce papers, but angry wehn she tore them up.

Now, he is getting the divorce, he is allowed to stay in the house with jasmine, gone back to the academy. On the surface, to him, it seems as if his problems are being resolved. So, he no longer needs someone to blame. And hence, he misses his friendship with tejo. Also, tejo outrightly saying that they are no longer friends has hurt him.

Fateh has not realised, but he has started hiding things from jasmine for tejo. One can say that he did lied to tejo for jasmine, but the difference is that jasmine is his so called true love and tejo his BFF.

Here, fateh does not want tejo as a wife, but lies to his love for his BFF. He cares more about tejo, than he ever cared about jasmine. He was angry and somewhat hurt when jasmine left, but the anger and hurt was more for how could she move on so quickly, not that she moved on.

For tejo, he was heart broken realising tejo wanted to move on and forget him.

In todays episode, he is rethinking his decision of removing tejo from the academy. And Gurpreet's words that the real test of love is after marriage, is very true. And i am sure, the reason they showed tejo overhearing them, is cause it will have an affect on tejo.

While I am not exactly happy with the screenplay, it is kinda close to real life. Men and women are sometimes attracted to someone other than their partner and many of them have affairs. Some divorce their partners and remarry. Some realise that what they are running behind is nothing but gold plated shit.

There is a saying in hindi, "ghar ki murgi dal barabar".

Similarly, Fateh is running behind a fake love. He is confused and has mixed up his emotions. Fateh was living a simple life before all this mess happened in his life. He is used to getting what he wants, and now that he could not get jasmine, he is fixated on her. He is like the child who wants to eat too many ice creams on a cold winter night, but mummy stops him.

So, emotionally, fateh is unable to deal with the complications and now that things seem simpler with tejo divorcing him, he wants his friendship back.

Tejo on the other hand, is used to complicated situations due to her family. She is also more mature emotionally. Hence, she realises that things cannot go back to what they were. But, she will also understand fateh's dilemna and confusion.

Cheating is not right, but relations cannot be broken so easily, specially when you are emotionally involved like fatejo are, even if one or both of them do not realise just how emotionally involved they are with each other. Fateh cares for Tejo, while tejo loved fateh deeply. Once the anger cooled down, Fateh showed his care, like in the exam paper incident. Tejo, still loves him, but is successfully hiding it, because emotions do not die in a day. It is impossible.

Sometimes, it is easier to forgive someone for their mistake, no matter how grievious it is, than to move on. But, only when you are sure that the person will not commit the same mistake again.

wow, did not realise how long my post is.

Originally posted by: Shruti_0505

When fateh wanted tejo out of the house, he was in a problem. everyone was blaming him and angry at him. He wanted someone to blame and that person was tejo. He wanted to justify himself and hence tejo became the culprit. Also, at that time he was not getting what he wanted, that is a divorce.

Fateh was hurt when tejo signed the divorce papers, but angry wehn she tore them up.

Now, he is getting the divorce, he is allowed to stay in the house with jasmine, gone back to the academy. On the surface, to him, it seems as if his problems are being resolved. So, he no longer needs someone to blame. And hence, he misses his friendship with tejo. Also, tejo outrightly saying that they are no longer friends has hurt him.

Fateh has not realised, but he has started hiding things from jasmine for tejo. One can say that he did lied to tejo for jasmine, but the difference is that jasmine is his so called true love and tejo his BFF.

Here, fateh does not want tejo as a wife, but lies to his love for his BFF. He cares more about tejo, than he ever cared about jasmine. He was angry and somewhat hurt when jasmine left, but the anger and hurt was more for how could she move on so quickly, not that she moved on.

For tejo, he was heart broken realising tejo wanted to move on and forget him.

In todays episode, he is rethinking his decision of removing tejo from the academy. And Gurpreet's words that the real test of love is after marriage, is very true. And i am sure, the reason they showed tejo overhearing them, is cause it will have an affect on tejo.

While I am not exactly happy with the screenplay, it is kinda close to real life. Men and women are sometimes attracted to someone other than their partner and many of them have affairs. Some divorce their partners and remarry. Some realise that what they are running behind is nothing but gold plated shit.

There is a saying in hindi, "ghar ki murgi dal barabar".

Similarly, Fateh is running behind a fake love. He is confused and has mixed up his emotions. Fateh was living a simple life before all this mess happened in his life. He is used to getting what he wants, and now that he could not get jasmine, he is fixated on her. He is like the child who wants to eat too many ice creams on a cold winter night, but mummy stops him.

So, emotionally, fateh is unable to deal with the complications and now that things seem simpler with tejo divorcing him, he wants his friendship back.

Tejo on the other hand, is used to complicated situations due to her family. She is also more mature emotionally. Hence, she realises that things cannot go back to what they were. But, she will also understand fateh's dilemna and confusion.

Cheating is not right, but relations cannot be broken so easily, specially when you are emotionally involved like fatejo are, even if one or both of them do not realise just how emotionally involved they are with each other. Fateh cares for Tejo, while tejo loved fateh deeply. Once the anger cooled down, Fateh showed his care, like in the exam paper incident. Tejo, still loves him, but is successfully hiding it, because emotions do not die in a day. It is impossible.

Sometimes, it is easier to forgive someone for their mistake, no matter how grievious it is, than to move on. But, only when you are sure that the person will not commit the same mistake again.

Can you explain more on this? What kind of effect will this have on her?

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

Can you explain more on this? What kind of effect will this have on her?

She will help fateh. It is evident that she loves fateh more than she has loved anyone.

She will help fateh if he asks for it, or if the family requests. On the surface, she will help him to prove to herself that she had moved on, but in her heart, she will help him cause she loves him deeply and wants to prove that to herself.

Not sure if I managed to explain it properly. What Gurpreet meant was that the wife should help the husband, or vice versa, because partners stray from the relation but the other can help bring them back on the right path.

And the partner straying from the path does not necessarily mean cheating, but anything that takes them away from the relation.

Fateh wants to sail in both boats if he gets the chance.

He knows Tejo's friendship is more real than Jasso's love.