Originally posted by: jojo_mojo
Hey PPak, i did not watch the episodes this week yet..But i think your point in bold is true.
BBSB is suffering from denial and delusion (This is conclusion i reached based on everything i read)
BBSB does know that Malini attempted to molest him in full consciousness and he does believe that Imlie has been saying the truth all the while. It was not easy for him to accept that and to say let the court decide Malini's fate.
Malini complicated the already complicated situation by playing the baby card. Now BBSB seems to have completely shut off his brain because he cannot handle the truth. That he was molested and that now there is a baby in picture is too much for him to bear. It is easier for him to delude himself that Malini is also a victim. It makes his new reality more palatable. And BBSB as always is taking the easier path.
The reason Anu and M were so easily able to manipulate him was because he was ready to be Manipulated😆
This was also again a point raised in court scene. Imlie was yelling at him that I literally showed you the video of didi attempting to molest you. What more should i do? How should i prove that didi is the culprit?
Unless BBSB is willing to see the truth, no proof will be useful. Nothing imlie does can open his eyes. You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
This is basically BBSB attempting to protect himself in a situation he cannot handle. His answer is to run away. To ignore and to pretend everything is all right.
He is happy to let imlie decide Malini and the baby's future because he cant handle it😆
He is sticking to his truth that he is imlie's husband. He cant accept Malini. Baki sab he will let imlie handle the way she sees fit😆
I agree completely. I think he knows. In the Janmashtami episode he said why do you think I don't believe you? But wanted proof. Even when Imlie accused Malini before she got proof - there were many times when he showed this - he did not lift a finger to help Malini when she was dragged to the station, did not defend her once saying she did not do this, did not offer more than token help to get her drunk mom out, etc.
The only time he said she could not have done it was to a direct question in court because he could not bring himself to say that she did it. The way he said - she could not have was not convincing at all.
Have you noticed - he has the same expression when this topic comes up...in the court when he was hearing it play out, while Imlie was screaming at him, in the bench, in Imlie's kona - he has the same - I know what you are saying and I cannot agree to this now - not because I trust Malini more or trust you less - but because I just have to.
Court blow was saying MAlini was innocent only mom was guilty - totally unnecessary - the implication that he did for the baby would have been enough. No need to take it further but he did.
Yesterday, was the worst blow tho. Like someone also said - I would have been ok if he did not say anything - but saying he thought of the baby and deleted was the worst he could have done. He put his child with Malini - who just has surfaced as an embryo, over the one who he calls the truth of his life, the love of his life - really??? For this child to come, born of molestation and deceit, he sacrificed Imlie's trust, faith, her education, his concsience, his reputation... all in a blink of an eye. Imlie needs to wake up and smell the roses. A man who in a twinkling of an eye prioritized his unborn baby over her - when the baby actually begin's to grow in the womb and is born - he will give her barabar ka rishta? All Malini has to do is wag her finger and he will say - Malini is not my wife - but she has my child - sorry Imlie and leave her alone. If MAlini asks him to stay married so child will grow in T house - he and Imlie will both oblige.
I expect that's the next track that will start - the pull of his child vs. Imlie. He said he will take MAlii's responsibility for the baby and cannot refuse to indulge her. As Nani rightly said he will be forced to run after her and put up with her tantrums. Even if they happen to show him rejecting Malini's advances now since the child is not tangible yet - based on his deletion of proof for his child...at some time soon..he will flip - it is his child after all.
Already we are dealing with a nasty situation of why Adi or no one is thinking of long term arrangements. Nani yesterday said Malini who is not his pathni took away Imlie's right? What in the world are the dialog's even saying? Even in court Mr Desai said - just because you don't call her your wife - she does not cease to be...she is still your wife on paper. Just by Adi repeating she is not his wife - now the tacit understanding in T house is - Imlie is patni and Malini not? That's garbage. He is living openly with 2 wives and the makers are shameless to have him sitiing at a breakfast table with his molester and happily mutter to himself that he would send Kunal a text.
WHAT a DISAPPOINTMENT ADI turned out to be.
Unless they really have something - a game he was playing etc...he can never ever be redeemed. Imlie got a dud. I want Imlie to leave and for Adi to suffer for a really long time.
Having said all this - I still have hope that maybe he is playing a game - because he does not even attempt to argue his point with Imlie and the look he gave both of the sisters yesterday when Malini realized Imlie was back was a little strange. But one cant even trust his expressions - because after such expressions, he still sits next to her at police station, at home, in hallway and today on a dr visit date?
So where does that leave me - hoping against hope that makers will have something that will resurrect Adi - not some saving Imlie's life pls - something where he consistently chooses her over the other, quite categorically.
