About myself

Hello everyone

I loved reading all your responses today.

before I sleep.. a small introduction

I am 37 years old and live in CA with my husband and two kids. I have a successful career in healthcare administration

I love both Sai n Virat but I sympathize a little more with Virat because I am like him

I avoid confrontation for the most part. This has helped me immensely at work especially when I have to get 50 year old white men to listen to to me and follow my instructions 😜

home is different. I know my husband and kids love me. I have good n bad days with my in-laws. I used to argue with them in the past but now I ignore them. I spend time with them when they are in a good mood and turnoff when they are irritating me. It’s not worth my time

believe me, Virat and I are not bad people. We approach things differently

I hope you all will understand

Oh also, I rarely get mad at anyone except my husband

he always asks me why I am nice to everyone but yell at him. I have no explanation

but I love him to pieces and can do anything he says

Welcome to the forum :) don't worry Virat's good days will come back.

Hey simmi!!!! Nice to meet you!!

I guess u vent out at your husband only cos he will understand u the most an also be understanding as to the venting reason.... It's like he has your back an he is your punching bag....

With virat, I think the general issue is he does not confront ppl in general.... Ok..... But he does not even clear the actual confusion in private...... There the non confrontation gets into ego tussle ....

Hey nice to meet you

Please don’t fight with me for taking Sai’s side in the formus because you already know I am her shipper🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

And please don’t beat me up while I am bashing Virat 😃

Originally posted by: Simmi988

Hello everyone

I loved reading all your responses today.

before I sleep.. a small introduction

I am 37 years old and live in CA with my husband and two kids. I have a successful career in healthcare administration

I love both Sai n Virat but I sympathize a little more with Virat because I am like him

I avoid confrontation for the most part. This has helped me immensely at work especially when I have to get 50 year old white men to listen to to me and follow my instructions 😜

home is different. I know my husband and kids love me. I have good n bad days with my in-laws. I used to argue with them in the past but now I ignore them. I spend time with them when they are in a good mood and turnoff when they are irritating me. It’s not worth my time

believe me, Virat and I are not bad people. We approach things differently

I hope you all will understand

Hi! Welcome to the forum. I'm Fatema. I too sympathise more with Virat since I understand his position. But, please refrain from saying anything against Sai even if you feel she's wrong.

Bindaas ship anyone you want. 😆 You aren't a bad person just because you understand Virat's POV. 😆 NeilSha themselves say that SaiRat aren't fully wrong and fully right so we are no one to target you. 😳

Welcome to the forum. We all have our own flaws, as humans after all. I like SaiRat and Virat a little bit more too as Neil is playing the role and I've followed his previous shows and have been a fan of his work.

Being like Virat isn't bad thing coz he isn't a bad guy. He's just not perfect. Virat has lot of other good qualities which go unseen many times. He's a good man, loyal to a fault, kind and caring person. He's just not being in his best phase now as he's emotionally hurt.

Idkwhattoput@ Being like Virat isn't about having feelings for his SIL. He is impulsive, inexpressive, vent frustration on our spouses which are some common qualities many of us possess. And the Topic maker clearly meant those. And also Virat doesn't have feelings for Pakhi, which has been made clear. Even today if she celebrates her SR in the next room with Samrat, Virat would be least bothered or affected. Virat supports her like today like an hypocrite because he's mad with Sai (not saying he's right, yeah he's an insensitive hypocrite for that). But saying that he harbours illicit feelings for his bhabhi and that's the only quality of his is something I can't agree.

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I wish i could sympathize with Virat... for me he's the reasons for most of the troubles in his and sai's life also samrat's.