Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 68 - Page 119

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

There is this person on insta

People who are supporting Raghav's illegal ways of conducting business what do they think Raghav ka not capable of earning money legally

Everyone is on Raghav's side

But this is the issue. The focus isn't on him changing his processes and ways of working to become fully legal. He can get a smaller profit margin when he pays customs duties but he doesn't need to stop being a merchant and do a 9 to 5 job or something menial.

Raghav hasn't built all this overnight and he knows the ins and outs of the business. There's nothing he can't achieve if he sets his mind to it and he might even find a legal and very profitable modus operandi that puts him in a win-win situation. Woh sab nahi dikhayenge.

Seeing Pallavi in this simple avatar and eating her own food, etc. is taking him back to his days of poverty. making it seem like her focus is on getting him to live a middle-class simple life. You can't expect him to suddenly change his lifestyle and throw it all away. The more she challenges him the more he will be adamant about proving himself right and round and round it goes. Of course, at some point his trauma will get the better of him and he will start having those panic attacks, hence the promo.

Originally posted by: Shakti1604

Pallavi suffers from holier than thou attitude when it comes to Raghav. Her self woven moral fabric shrinks to non existent when it comes to her ex in laws.

Both reaching middle ground doesn't seem where this is headed if VD is going to be thrown in between.

Superficially she bought veggies & groceries, wearing old saree etc but what about the repayment of lakhs which is a gigantic issue? Is she going to pay her share of rent, bills etc? The saree shop also belongs to Raghav, what of that then? Marriage don't work with account books. She can by all means work & be independent but right now it is coming off as to show Raghav his place as he doesn't seem to fit her rule book.

@bold and this is the problem, which is why Raghav's dialogue about gray was so relevant. I am hoping against hope that CVs will show her learning this.

Plus, they know that viewers won't accept Raghav losing all his wealth and becoming poor like he was 10 years ago, left to fend for himself on the streets. It's been done to death on ITV as well so hope they find another solution.

Originally posted by: Shakti1604

Raghav is perfectly capable of earning money legally, I think his resistance is because of Pallavi's approach. It brings out his trauma which happened due to lack of money. This is where I expect Jaya to tell Pallavi to take a gentler conversational approach rather than do things which aggravates his anger.

Will Jaya understand though? Raghav saw a lot of struggles when growing up, but what he went through alone in the past 10 years is another set of struggles. I wonder if Jaya understands that.

Only Farhad does... which is why again I want their backstory and for Farhad to maybe tell Jaya and Pallavi what he saw his Anna go through over the years, how he spent sleepless nights, worked himself to the bone to survive all alone.He truly is a self-made man and in many ways his determination to succeed has made him an idol to many people.

Originally posted by: inlieu

This is all the result of his bada sa dil with itnaaaaaa sa pyar, otherwise after what happened in the Mandaar track...

True Jean!! Itna bada dil is like a curse in this world. mostly everyone will stamp it or use it fully. I am so annoyed at Pals!!! This is not how a class example couple is formed

Originally posted by: Ruhi.007

One more possibility occurred to me. Could Raghav be planning to show sanki a taste of money and show how even her revered baba can take the grey route.

Imo, sanki is the type of person who could twist his values per his convenience.

I would totally love that. It's not ethical but then again Sanki is one of the biggest hypocrites out there who also has no decency and has a flake 'moral code'.

He's also gray so this might actually work out so well. I would love to see his swabhimaan dialogues go out the window when he gets a taste of the good life in an AC office. 😆

Originally posted by: RainFire125

True Jean!! Itna bada dil is like a curse in this world. mostly everyone will stamp it or use it fully. I am so annoyed at Pals!!! This is not how a class example couple is formed

Well according some posts I'm seeing on social media, she is 100% right and he is 100% wrong so they say her tactics are justified because all's fair in love and war.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But this is the issue. The focus isn't on him changing his processes and ways of working to become fully legal. He can get a smaller profit margin when he pays customs duties but he doesn't need to stop being a merchant and do a 9 to 5 job or something menial.

Raghav built all this overnight and he knows the ins and outs of the business. There's nothing he can't achieve if he sets his mind to it and he might even find a legal and very profitable modus operandi that puts him in a win-win situation. Woh sab nahi dikhayenge.

Seeing Pallavi in this simple avatar and eating her own food, etc. is taking him back to his days of poverty. making it seem like her focus is on getting him to live a middle-class simple life. You can't expect him to suddenly change his lifestyle and throw it all away. The more she challenges him the more he will be adamant about proving himself right and round and round it goes. Of course, at some point his trauma will get the better of him and he will start having those panic attacks, hence the promo.

BOLD - I definitely want her to retrospect and blame herself for his panic attacks!!! She is to blame. To solve a situation you cannot put that person is his miserable days!! thats not how things work. You will need to put urself is his shoes and then make him see the risks and leave it to him to make a decision of the way forward. I know Pals is never going to retrospect or think in RR shoes. If she does, I will applaud the writers!! I did see the last 3 episodes and i want Pals to leave and think. Really think calmly why is her most beloved person this way and is she really helping him by acting in such a manner????? One episode acting or reacting like that is acceptable, but not continuously. Her adamancy is his downfall mentally. And bringing in VD is a big NO NO for me.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well according some posts I'm seeing on social media, she is 100% right and he is 100% wrong so they say her tactics are justified because all's fair in love and war.

what nonsense!!! then those people sadly dont know the real world!!

Originally posted by: inlieu

I would totally love that. It's not ethical but then again Sanki is one of the biggest hypocrites out there who also has no decency and has a flake 'moral code'.

He's also gray so this might actually work out so well. I would love to see his swabhimaan dialogues go out the window when he gets a taste of the good life in an AC office. 😆

hahaha , if this is shown, than bravo!!! However I will not expect at all 😉

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well according some posts I'm seeing on social media, she is 100% right and he is 100% wrong so they say her tactics are justified because all's fair in love and war.

Sacchai ke jhande gaadna bahut aasaan hai

All is fair in love and war

Mandar Sunny Sulu ye sab bhi sahi hain

Ceimes in the name of love ye sab bhi sahi hota hai

Everything is fair in love and war

Dialoguebaazi karwa lo

The world and people in it are not fair at all