I want raghav to ask - Page 2

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Sonia, I was itching to reply to this post in the morning but was in a rush toh nai kia. I'm glad you posted a reply and tagged me 🍉

It's so easy to call Pallavi out for making him change but in a real life situation, everyone of us would want our husband to be safe. Life se badh kar kuch bhi nahi hai...

Raghav ka don avtar sabko dekhne main acha lagta hai but when the consequences come to the fore, people will run to the hills.

I remember us discussing that she holds Raghav in a high regard that's why she doesn't want him to do anything illegal. Her life, her world revolves around him. He's part of her soul and she just wants to be happy and safe with him.

Viewers need to deal with this because it's not what they want Raghav to be, it's what Pallavi wants. Woh log Pallavi ki jagah nahi hai. Raghav loves Pallavi. She's his wife, ardhamainda?

Ren, exactly she wants her husband and her family to be safe. It's not that she has done anything illegal and Raghav covered up a murder for her. But yes she has exceptions and prejudices towards family. Exactly why she didn't turn over Raghav to police. She can't do that. How comfortable it is to see a police inspector standing at your doorstep looking out for evidences against your husband?

Most importantly I don't see that she's trying to control or change him at all. She didn't tell him to change, right? She didn't ask him to become a saint or a pauper... she didn't tell him to stop earning... she didn't ask him to curb his greed for money too. It's like you want to earn, go ahead and make loads of money if that makes you happy... just let those means be legal! Bas! What's wrong in that?

Originally posted by: euphoric

Ren, exactly she wants her husband and her family to be safe. It's not that she has done anything illegal and Raghav covered up a murder for her. But yes she has exceptions and prejudices towards family. Exactly why she didn't turn over Raghav to police. She can't do that. How comfortable it is to see a police inspector standing at your doorstep looking out for evidences against your husband?

Most importantly I don't see that she's trying to control or change him at all. She didn't tell him to change, right? She didn't ask him to become a saint or a pauper... she didn't tell him to stop earning... she didn't ask him to curb his greed for money too. It's like you want to earn, go ahead and make loads of money if that makes you happy... just let those means be legal! Bas! What's wrong in that?

@bold kuch galat nai hai...as a wife she's right in her place.

Dude, uske sab prejudices also apply to Raghav equally. Aaj she didn't go to the police for she loves him right. How can you compare her love for R with the D family. Woh puri duniya chod sakti hai for him.

Unko charon taraf se khatra hai.. he's being blind in his overconfidence. She needs to show him her perspective and let him realise what he's doing isn't good for their future. In the process, she'll understand his perspective and both of them will find an acceptable middle ground.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

@bold kuch galat nai hai...as a wife she's right in her place.

Dude, uske sab prejudices also apply to Raghav equally. Aaj she didn't go to the police for she loves him right. How can you compare her love for R with the D family. Woh puri duniya chod sakti hai for him.

Unko charon taraf se khatra hai.. he's being blind in his overconfidence. She needs to show him her perspective and let him realise what he's doing isn't good for their future. In the process, she'll understand his perspective and both of them will find an acceptable middle ground.

Ren I think she already understands his perspective that's why she didn't go to police. That's why she's trying to explain him that he matters over anything and everything else.

As you said there is a danger lurking around him, he needs to understand that. Ab Amma and Pallavi are his responsibility too. What would happen to them if he's arrested? Will Amma survive that? Isn't that lady already too burdened?

Originally posted by: BrhannadaArmour

I am being respectful; please don't take offense. Fiction is fantasy and I am not extrapolating to anyone's real-life morals.

I respectfully disagree with the points you made. Thats the fun part of being part of this forums. We all look at things differently and get to express ourselves accordingly. Anyway below are my replies to your points.

1 Raghav admitted he is wrong and did everything he could to rectify his mistake.

He changed his mind about calling the cops on Salochana as he mistakenly thought that no matter how hard Vijay was on Pallavi, Vijay is a fair and just person. Raghav had a rude awakening abt his character. We were shown how Vijay really is by his treatment of Pallavi, Sharda and Milind. This man finds justification and prefers to side with the criminals of his family, ie Salochana, Mandhar. If Sharda & Milind can take understanding to why Pallavi showed fake records why couldn’t Vijay? Pallavi mentioned during her confrontation with Raghav that she found out from Jaya about the MMS scandal. As we saw she was more wallowing in self-pity at that time and preferred to do nothing about Salochana. Her morals get thrown out of the window when it comes to punishing the Deshmukhs.

2 Pallavi didn’t want to arrest Salochana she was totally against it. Later she changed her mind but it was too late as she previously already used Kaka’s name to convince Raghav not to arrest her.

3 Pallavi always placed Mandar on a pedestal. She only chatted over videocall with him so she hardly knew him. She got her impression from his parents. Vijay thinks his psycho son is God and Sharda lied by omission . She knew what her son was really like but she still phoned and called Pallavi for Mandhar’s birthday prayer expecting Pallavi to be part of it even after knowing that Pallavi has just accepted her new marriage and is trying to move on.

4 What grief? Your son already killed a young girl and in front of your eyes he held a knife to Pallavi’s throat and asked Raghav to shoot himself. Instead of being disgusted by his behavior you decided to curse his victims. Looking at the way he stalked Pallavi shows he had psycho tendancies from way before he met Pallavi. Vijay should be disgusted with his own upbringing. And it seems Pallavi & Raghav are just convenient punching bags to him.

5 Raghav had every right to confront Salochana about false abortion charge. Why should he put his reputation at stake for something he didn’t do. Pallavi conveniently forgot her moral values here and took the fall but why drag Raghav into it. Abortion truth was not brought our to defame Amruta but to clear Raghav & Pallavi’s name.

6 No one forced Nikhil into these criminal acts. He got himself into gambling debts. Pallavi has double standards here. She is okay with Nikhil doing criminal acts but not Raghav.

7 Let Raghav’s ex come into the picture and let see if Pallavi feels it morally correct for him to move in with the ex.

Originally posted by: euphoric

Ren I think she already understands his perspective that's why she didn't go to police. That's why she's trying to explain him that he matters over anything and everything else.

As you said there is a danger lurking around him, he needs to understand that. Ab Amma and Pallavi are his responsibility too. What would happen to them if he's arrested? Will Amma survive that? Isn't that lady already too burdened?

Arre don't you know.... Raghav has made contingency plans... Farhad will take over the responsibility of Pallavi and Amma... Usne wada kia hai... Itna acha dost hai woh uska...

He literally believes that Farhad can take his place for Amma and Pallavi. Matlab dimaag bech aaya hai kahin in Pallavi's words.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Arre don't you know.... Raghav has made contingency plans... Farhad will take over the responsibility of Pallavi and Amma... Usne wada kia hai... Itna acha dost hai woh uska...

He literally believes that Farhad can take his place for Amma and Pallavi. Matlab dimaag bech aaya hai kahin in Pallavi's words.

Sacrificing insaan... i am telling u Ren... these both have switched positions. She's the gundi now and he's a self sacrificing insaan.

If anything happens to him, Pallavi and Amma kya paison ka Achar daalenge? I loved it how Pallavi said ki bungalow is irrelevant... their home is with him!

She prioritized him over herself. She was very clear, she doesn't want to lose him. And sorry if Pallavi is quiet over Raghav's ministrations, then how different will she be from keerti?

Originally posted by: euphoric

Sacrificing insaan... i am telling u Ren... these both have switched positions. She's the gundi now and he's a self sacrificing insaan.

If anything happens to him, Pallavi and Amma kya paison ka Achar daalenge? I loved it how Pallavi said ki bungalow is irrelevant... their home is with him!

She prioritized him over herself. She was very clear, she doesn't want to lose him. And sorry if Pallavi is quiet over Raghav's ministrations, then how different will she be from keerti?

You are right, she's become a gundi and he's the quintessential sacrificial lamb aka SP bahu.

If anything happens to Raghav, they will use his money to have kitty parties daily, go on lavish vacations abroad, tu bhi na. After all, Raghav is minting money only so that his family can enjoy. Amma-Pals ftw. Raghav kaun? Bhool bhool.

Also, agar Pallavi stays quiet and doesn't ask him to mend his ways, and something happens to him, uska kya hoga phir? She will become a widow again, may be children become orphans. She's seen both these in her life, hasn't she?

K ka naam math le. Woh alag planet main baithi hai to not understand a thing going on here. She makes my blood boil.

Originally posted by: d.padmini

The best part of the today's episode for me was raghav telling Pallavi that I have accepted you the way u r, I never asked u to change , then why can't u accept me the way I am and why u are hell bent in changing me but ofcourse our self righteous Pallavi thinks she is perfect and flawless ...

Hence she will continue to preach about her high morals and values so

I want raghav to ask pallavi

1. Where were her values and morals when BWA took keerti's pics and posted in internet, due to which amma , keerti were humiliated and landed in jail?

2. Where were her values and morals when BWA stole necklace from showroom and blamed raghav?

3. Where are her morals and values when aai shielded her criminal son, projected image of marayada puroshotham ram in front of pallavi's eyes for 2 years..?

4. Where were her moral and values when baba continued to support his criminal son, cursed raghav and Pallavi...?

5. Where were her moral and principles when she tried to covered up Amrutha's pregnancy?

6. Why she didn't let nikhil rot in jail , when she knew he was doing some illegal stuff..

Today she said she is ashamed that society will call her criminal's wife , why she didn't care about Raghav's image when she was staying with her ex and what society would have thought when she missed her husband's award function.. wasn't his image and brand at stake then .??

I really want to see pallavi's face and reactions to these questions

Raghav ll never ask these questions to her n we ll never see pallavi at receiving end. It s always preaching n lectur ka dukaan pallavi..

Originally posted by: Doc

much needed..our pallu needs a reality check..

She is going to stay with her x husband due to his medical issues tarnishing the image of his business tycon husband...

And now...she is giving moral science lectures...

Kuch bhi kaho ye sunny the SAAS ka kaam hai hamari pallu ka brain wash 😂🤣

Aye kaisi hai yaar. Long time no see. Kaha gayab thi. Didn't see u much...

How r u??

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

Aye kaisi hai yaar. Long time no see. Kaha gayab thi. Didn't see u much...

How r u??