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Posted: 4 years ago
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The best part of the today's episode for me was raghav telling Pallavi that I have accepted you the way u r, I never asked u to change , then why can't u accept me the way I am and why u are hell bent in changing me but ofcourse our self righteous Pallavi thinks she is perfect and flawless ...

Hence she will continue to preach about her high morals and values so

I want raghav to ask pallavi

1. Where were her values and morals when BWA took keerti's pics and posted in internet, due to which amma , keerti were humiliated and landed in jail?


2. Where were her values and morals when BWA stole necklace from showroom and blamed raghav?


3. Where are her morals and values when aai shielded her criminal son, projected image of marayada puroshotham ram in front of pallavi's eyes for 2 years..?

4. Where were her moral and values when baba continued to support his criminal son, cursed raghav and Pallavi...?

5. Where were her moral and principles when she tried to covered up Amrutha's pregnancy?

6. Why she didn't let nikhil rot in jail , when she knew he was doing some illegal stuff..

Today she said she is ashamed that society will call her criminal's wife , why she didn't care about Raghav's image when she was staying with her ex and what society would have thought when she missed her husband's award function.. wasn't his image and brand at stake then .??

I really want to see pallavi's face and reactions to these questions

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Posted: 4 years ago
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True....even i want Raghav to ask these questions to her but at second thought I think that Pallavi never considered the d family as her own except for aayi.....you'll only be a well wisher for those whom you truly love right.....the d family was only her responsibility, whereas Raghav......is her world.....the only person whom she has loved more than anything.

Even if he does the smallest mistake, she'll point it out....cause she has the right....cause she doesn't want even the smallest mistake to be the reason for them to separate like how she did with Mandar's case. She never had the right on deshmukh parivar cause they never gave her any, she was just an outsider.

But for Raghav she is the only person who holds his vacant heart.....the only person who painted his black and white world into a colorful fantasy.....his and her fantasy which is now broken.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: d.padmini

The best part of the today's episode for me was raghav telling Pallavi that I have accepted you the way u r, I never asked u to change , then why can't u accept me the way I am and why u are hell bent in changing me but ofcourse our self righteous Pallavi thinks she is perfect and flawless ...

Hence she will continue to preach about her high morals and values so

I want raghav to ask pallavi

1. Where were her values and morals when BWA took keerti's pics and posted in internet, due to which amma , keerti were humiliated and landed in jail?


2. Where were her values and morals when BWA stole necklace from showroom and blamed raghav?


3. Where are her morals and values when aai shielded her criminal son, projected image of marayada puroshotham ram in front of pallavi's eyes for 2 years..?

4. Where were her moral and values when baba continued to support his criminal son, cursed raghav and Pallavi...?

5. Where were her moral and principles when she tried to covered up Amrutha's pregnancy?

6. Why she didn't let nikhil rot in jail , when she knew he was doing some illegal stuff..

Today she said she is ashamed that society will call her criminal's wife , why she didn't care about Raghav's image when she was staying with her ex and what society would have thought when she missed her husband's award function.. wasn't his image and brand at stake then .??

I really want to see pallavi's face and reactions to these questions

much needed..our pallu needs a reality check..

She is going to stay with her x husband due to his medical issues tarnishing the image of his business tycon husband...

And now...she is giving moral science lectures...

Kuch bhi kaho ye sunny the SAAS ka kaam hai hamari pallu ka brain wash 😂🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: d.padmini

I want raghav to ask pallavi

1. Where were her values and morals when BWA took keerti's pics and posted in internet, due to which amma , keerti were humiliated and landed in jail?

Pallavi didn't know about that because Raghav punished Pallavi for it without telling her what he thought she did. Pallavi probably saw the graffiti on Jaya's house when she stayed there, but if she asked Kirti what that was about, Kirti wouldn't have been able to name Sulochana. Only after Raghav tried to drive Pallavi out of Hyderabad while her father was in the ICU, put her brother in jail, forced her to marry him, denied her the key to her shop, threatened to take off his towel in front of her, and threw neem leaves at her and told her to grind them into paste while she was feverish ... after Raghav got Sulochana's confession without a word to Pallavi, he had a panic attack and then told Pallavi that he had wronged her. I don't think Raghav said anything to Pallavi about what happened to Kirti, and when Raghav alone went to the Deshmukhs to play Sulochana's confession video, all they heard her say was, "I implicated Jaya and Kirti" - not a word about undressed or photos or internet or jail. Then Raghav went and told Pallavi that he had thought about arresting Sulochana, but he had decided to leave her punishment to her family. So, it was Raghav alone who had proof and he on his own let Sulochana go, apparently without asking Kirti what she thought.


2. Where were her values and morals when BWA stole necklace from showroom and blamed raghav?

Pallavi asked Raghav a question: can we not arrest Sulochana Kākū because that would disgrace Milind Kākā? Pallavi never insisted; instead, she admitted to Raghav that she was wrong. By then, Raghav had convinced himself not to arrest Sulochana, so he left Pallavi out of his plan and put a gun to Sulochana's head.


3. Where are her morals and values when aai shielded her criminal son, projected image of marayada puroshotham ram in front of pallavi's eyes for 2 years..?

Pallavi should absolutely be upset that Sharada never spoke up about a murder. On what do you base your claim that Sharada projected a positive image of Mandar for Pallavi? I can't recall Sharada ever saying a word about Mandar to Pallavi, good or bad, while he was presumed dead. Again, not telling his crime was absolutely wrong.


4. Where were her moral and values when baba continued to support his criminal son, cursed raghav and Pallavi...?

When someone lashes out in grief, confrontation doesn't help. Maybe Pallavi hopes that Vijay will see his mistake if she is kind to him.


5. Where were her moral and principles when she tried to covered up Amrutha's pregnancy?

Pregnancy and abortion are personal choices, and nobody's business to know. Sulochana was wrong to defame Pallavi, and Amruta was wrong to allow it. Pallavi was not wrong to tell Raghav to keep quiet about who had the abortion. Of course, with Raghav having already said the word abortion in front of Rahul and Asha, whatever Pallavi wanted was moot.


6. Why she didn't let nikhil rot in jail , when she knew he was doing some illegal stuff..

Pallavi said to the Inspector at the time, you know that this is a smuggling racket (yes, she used those exact words), so you should go after Raghav Rao who directs and benefits from the crimes. It is not justice to punish only the person who carries out the criminal order. I will also point out that "rot in jail" - or specifically the starvation and dehydration that the Inspector ordered for Nikhil, is cruel and unusual punishment that any law-minded person should abhor.


Today she said she is ashamed that society will call her criminal's wife , why she didn't care about Raghav's image when she was staying with her ex and what society would have thought when she missed her husband's award function.. wasn't his image and brand at stake then .??

You're saying, Pallavi's one-time tardiness should be as shameful to her as Raghav's pattern of crimes? Or, living apart from one's husband and in proximity to an ex is as shameful as crime? No, it isn't.


I am being respectful; please don't take offense. Fiction is fantasy and I am not extrapolating to anyone's real-life morals.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I haven't seen today's episode so I will say based on yesterday's and previous episodes. Raghav has accepted Pallavi with her past, true. But it didn't come overnight. Raghav's acceptance for Pallavi's past came when Pallavi herself accepted her past. Similarly Pallavi's acceptance won't come overnight. First Raghav needs to make peace with himself, accept his past and then only Pallavi can attempt to accept Raghav. Otherwise no matter how much efforts Pallavi puts in, it would always be insufficient. This is something that I have observed personally. In yesterday's episode, Pallavi said that she wants to free Raghav of his pain that he carries. She doesn't want to change him

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Pallavi has never insisted Raghav to change himself but insisting one's partner to give up his criminal activities isn't wrong.


Both Pallavi and Raghav are humans and have made their share of mistakes. While Pallavi was biased towards D's it was all set out of obligations. Human mind is twisted when buried under the sense of gratitude. However, she had listened to Raghav and tried to see things from his perspective.


Now coming to Raghav, if Aai didn't tell Pallavi about Mandar's truth, Raghav have too allowed Pallvi to stay in her illusions. Making false promises and telling lies through his teeth, he has done it all. She neither questioned Sharda, she didn't question Raghav because she's seeing the bigger picture.


Raghav's business ways are a threat to their future, life and family. An inspector crazy enough shot his associate. A person like Ved in the past used his illegal channels for his own vested interests. An opportunist like Sunny is waiting at every step for Raghav to make one mistake. If this isn't a potential threat, what is it? On top of that a young life is lost and there's a grieving mother who is gonna curse him everyday for the rest of her life.


She ain't asking him to change himself, she's asking him to change his business ways so that he himself can lead a more secure life. And their family is secure.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly even I liked that scene today 😍

Exactly firstly her shankhi baba kitna moorkh panditji hai woh uskey ooper oochi awaz mein baat thak nahin kiya pallavi aaj thak

Aur Rahi BWA aunty usmey utna kuch kiya but she dint even tell police

Now she is behind raghav

Even I want raghav to ask these questions to her 😬😬

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: d.padmini

The best part of the today's episode for me was raghav telling Pallavi that I have accepted you the way u r, I never asked u to change , then why can't u accept me the way I am and why u are hell bent in changing me but ofcourse our self righteous Pallavi thinks she is perfect and flawless ...

Hence she will continue to preach about her high morals and values so

I want raghav to ask pallavi

1. Where were her values and morals when BWA took keerti's pics and posted in internet, due to which amma , keerti were humiliated and landed in jail?


2. Where were her values and morals when BWA stole necklace from showroom and blamed raghav?


3. Where are her morals and values when aai shielded her criminal son, projected image of marayada puroshotham ram in front of pallavi's eyes for 2 years..?

4. Where were her moral and values when baba continued to support his criminal son, cursed raghav and Pallavi...?

5. Where were her moral and principles when she tried to covered up Amrutha's pregnancy?

6. Why she didn't let nikhil rot in jail , when she knew he was doing some illegal stuff..

Today she said she is ashamed that society will call her criminal's wife , why she didn't care about Raghav's image when she was staying with her ex and what society would have thought when she missed her husband's award function.. wasn't his image and brand at stake then .??

I really want to see pallavi's face and reactions to these questions

I would like to add that Vijay & Sharda would probably be dead today if not for Raghav's money. Apparently to Pallavi that money becomes clean when used on Deshmukhs.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thats how narcissist spouses behaves, they want everything under their control. They are never wrong and its all about them. Thank god Pallavi is a fictional character. Imagine living with a spouse like that

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: euphoric

Pallavi has never insisted Raghav to change himself but insisting one's partner to give up his criminal activities isn't wrong.


Both Pallavi and Raghav are humans and have made their share of mistakes. While Pallavi was biased towards D's it was all set out of obligations. Human mind is twisted when buried under the sense of gratitude. However, she had listened to Raghav and tried to see things from his perspective.


Now coming to Raghav, if Aai didn't tell Pallavi about Mandar's truth, Raghav have too allowed Pallvi to stay in her illusions. Making false promises and telling lies through his teeth, he has done it all. She neither questioned Sharda, she didn't question Raghav because she's seeing the bigger picture.


Raghav's business ways are a threat to their future, life and family. An inspector crazy enough shot his associate. A person like Ved in the past used his illegal channels for his own vested interests. An opportunist like Sunny is waiting at every step for Raghav to make one mistake. If this isn't a potential threat, what is it? On top of that a young life is lost and there's a grieving mother who is gonna curse him everyday for the rest of her life.


She ain't asking him to change himself, she's asking him to change his business ways so that he himself can lead a more secure life. And their family is secure.


Sonia, I was itching to reply to this post in the morning but was in a rush toh nai kia. I'm glad you posted a reply and tagged me 🍉


It's so easy to call Pallavi out for making him change but in a real life situation, everyone of us would want our husband to be safe. Life se badh kar kuch bhi nahi hai...


Raghav ka don avtar sabko dekhne main acha lagta hai but when the consequences come to the fore, people will run to the hills.


I remember us discussing that she holds Raghav in a high regard that's why she doesn't want him to do anything illegal. Her life, her world revolves around him. He's part of her soul and she just wants to be happy and safe with him.


Viewers need to deal with this because it's not what they want Raghav to be, it's what Pallavi wants. Woh log Pallavi ki jagah nahi hai. Raghav loves Pallavi. She's his wife, ardhamainda?

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