Originally posted by: NotAMuggle
This is a big issue that I have with Asha. I don't understand why Asha is hyped up so much as some ideal mother, because honestly she was not. She was that typical mother who advised her daughter to tolerate everything silently & always bend to make amends. Irrespective of whether her efforts are appreciated or not. Irrespective of whether she was valued & respected or not. She had this obsession with Dev & always pushed Sonakshi to be with him, regardless of whether it was good for her or not. She was never offended on behalf of her daughter & nor was she supportive of her. Post leap she actively joined Dev-Ishwari camp & literally bullied her daughter to forgive Dev & go back to him saying she was being unnecessarily sulky & stubborn.🙄
I feel, Bijoy is much better a parent than Asha was. But the fandom made a villain out of him & compared him to Ishwari because he was not swooning over the male lead & believed his daughter deserved better.
bold - completely agree. Bijoy is the only one who always stood for sonakshi. He had her well-being in every situation and the only one who could see through the ma-beta BS without any tinted glasses. The amount of bashing his character got was another level, just because he didn’t fall for the charm of dev dixit or couldn’t see sonakshi’s cravings for dev. Even sonakshi disappointed me with her outbursts at him in that regard, unfortunately she had already been totally a gone case by then.