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Posted: 4 years ago

The article is beautiful and well written and obviously by an insider and with the permission of the family. There was a lot of love and care behind the words. I hope Shehnaaz finds the strength to resurrect herself from the chaos.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Kar_Nan

There is not even a single day, I have not cried for him. I will cry for him forever….. thank God this forever will end with the day of my death.


Ppl say death is painful, I say life is. Death is the end to all the pains

I guess this will not give you relief, but I sincerely hope you find an avenue to do something yourself that gives you newer sense of direction. Challenge yourself and tire yourself out physically and allow healthy hormones to do their work.

To invest in television, idols and third parties beyond a point can be detrimental to our mental health. Find your mooring in yourself ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago

I just hope shehnaaz work start krde uske liye bahut tough hoga but yahi ek tarika hai ki wo thoda busy kre apne aap ko


I am happy ki sid k fam mein aur koi Tellywood ya Bollywood mein nhi wo atleast media se dur rhenge


Hope hum sid ki memories ko smile k sath dekh paye na ki pain se

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Posted: 4 years ago

Yes, most definitely left in wake a tale of love and loss that the world will not forget. I had craved for a closure for SidNaaz and the article brought to me exactly that. It was beautiful and sweet as every end in the world.

I would never believe Sidharth left abruptly or he had more to do. I would always believe his karmic cycle was this much and he’s achieved and done everything he was destined to do. For a human could make a mistake but a divine force who works behind all things that is life would never make a mistake. To the glory you fly Sidharth Shukla. Hopefully you’ve left Shehnaaz and everyone you loved with enough love that it would last them a lifetime. Because honestly, how can it not, when you’ve loved them so much?

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Posted: 4 years ago

And Shehnaaz “Dudh Garam hai”. His loving protection would always make sure she never touches a hot vessel of milk. As I am sure his other imprints would always be with her as her instincts because who says he’s gone forever, he’s left his presence in each one of them. Including us.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Camlin

And Shehnaaz “Dudh Garam hai”. His loving protection would always make sure she never touches a hot vessel of milk. As I am sure his other imprints would always be with her as her instincts because who says he’s gone forever, he’s left his presence in each one of them. Including us.

I continue to shower at night before I sleep- a practice I began with BB, and not one day have I skipped thinking of him at night- of the lifestyle impact he made. I continue to smile inwardly when I see any guy wear shorts and think, but nobody looks as good as Sidharth in those blue ones. At every champi, at every burnt roti, at every deo splash before sleep, at every sarcastic comment I pass, at every dal made at home… so many more instances, he continues to bring a smile. I am sure lakhs more would have been impacted in a many more little and bigger ways. That is the most that any actor has constructively impacted, atleast in India- a life more than well lived.
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I continue to shower at night before I sleep- a practice I began with BB, and not one day have I skipped thinking of him at night- of the lifestyle impact he made. I continue to smile inwardly when I see any guy wear shorts and think, but nobody looks as good as Sidharth in those blue ones. At every champi, at every burnt roti, at every deo splash before sleep, at every sarcastic comment I pass, at every dal made at home… so many more instances, he continues to bring a smile. I am sure lakhs more would have been impacted in a many more little and bigger ways. That is the most that any actor has constructively impacted, atleast in India- a life more than well lived.


Of course. Never have I seen people actually grieve an actor. The actual grief and heartbreak was so prevailing during the initial days of his passing away that people who wouldn’t generally be aware of television or Bollywood industry or were too skimpy with any discussions about the same were openly talking and being sad about the situation.

I would never want to take away from the actual man that Sidharth was because he still is larger than life. But as I have said before people left were into a freefall about SidNaaz and were shocked that they wouldn’t know how this story would end.


But, I believe too strongly in Karmic cycle to believe that SidNaz’s were destined to have any other end. She is devastated, yes, but I believe something more powerful and spiritual has been a part of their story and how can it all be anything but destiny?

“Vichode da gam” ve say in Punjabi. Which means the pain of separation. They were supposed to play this emotion in this lifetime. For me, it is a series and one season just happens to finish abruptly. The souls will find a new form and then continue the show as it is. Maybe someone else in thw world will be lucky to see it the next time♥️

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Posted: 4 years ago

Thanks Uma for the nice words. I am trying and sometimes I succeed (only time when I am asleep) but u know wat hurts the most….. the reminder that he wanted to live… that he had future plans coz finally things were falling into place…


If I am unable to handle the pain, wat Shehnaaz will be going through. The world will never be the same for any of us as it was before 2nd Sept. All my age, I have never felt this devastated and so hopeless…

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Kar_Nan

Thanks Uma for the nice words. I am trying and sometimes I succeed (only time when I am asleep) but u know wat hurts the most….. the reminder that he wanted to live… that he had future plans coz finally things were falling into place…


If I am unable to handle the pain, wat Shehnaaz will be going through. The world will never be the same for any of us as it was before 2nd Sept. All my age, I have never felt this devastated and so hopeless…

I understand. That said, I always felt his desire to live wasn’t ever in the extreme. If you hear that talk he did for the brahmakumaris long back which we wrote about too here a year or so before, he was extremely mature about life and and people thought they couldn’t identify with that side of him. I don’t think he was afraid of death either.

He never seemed insanely ambitious about his career or deliriously in love with life. He was simply content and taking a day at a time and happy in the flow of life. I could be wrong too. We have seen moments of him staring in thought as a spider spun its web, morning moments in isolation, and he was well aware of the transience of life. Ofcourse, as he lived, he did to the fullest, sought good opportunities, loved with all his heart and so on. That is the best way to live- attached, but fairly detached and aware, attending to one’s responsibilities and obligations in the best manner possible.


As for Shehnaaz, it is tough indeed. As much as I understand the strength of their love, I have personally always felt that women need to be a bit independent as well simply yo ward off similar situations. But that would be living half-heartedly, eh? She always needed him by her and I suppose it was true vice- versa too, if BB was a sample to go by. If this had been the other way around, he would have been just as traumatized.

Was watching the below VM earlier today and it reminded me of a second cousin’s parents who passed away in old age some years back. The age difference between both husband and wife was like our Sidnaaz. She had been a retired school teacher and he retired out of railways. The way he pampered her, we would find it in unbelievable. Even in his 90s, when they sat down to eat together, the first few morsels were fed by him to her. New visitors meeting them for the first time would sit and watch in wonderment. They were always oblivious to those glances- each other alone mattered. He passed away in his late 90s caring for his wife like she was a pearl until his last day. She fell into deep depression after he passed away. None of her 9 children could ever care of her anywhere as near as her husband did. Sometimes love does spoil, in a good way… and sometimes it leaves behind a devastated partner.

We always said Sidnaaz lived a lifetime inside the house, didn’t we?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Camlin


Of course. Never have I seen people actually grieve an actor. The actual grief and heartbreak was so prevailing during the initial days of his passing away that people who wouldn’t generally be aware of television or Bollywood industry or were too skimpy with any discussions about the same were openly talking and being sad about the situation.

I would never want to take away from the actual man that Sidharth was because he still is larger than life. But as I have said before people left were into a freefall about SidNaaz and were shocked that they wouldn’t know how this story would end.


But, I believe too strongly in Karmic cycle to believe that SidNaz’s were destined to have any other end. She is devastated, yes, but I believe something more powerful and spiritual has been a part of their story and how can it all be anything but destiny?

“Vichode da gam” ve say in Punjabi. Which means the pain of separation. They were supposed to play this emotion in this lifetime. For me, it is a series and one season just happens to finish abruptly. The souls will find a new form and then continue the show as it is. Maybe someone else in thw world will be lucky to see it the next time♥️

Beautifully put. Agree with all of it… ❤️🙏

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