Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 68 - Page 6

Originally posted by: S-I-A

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Raghav came to know beggar looking for secrets in his den 😆

Originally posted by: S-I-A

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Oh no choice for Raghav , sell necklaces given to palz n pay customs duty . Y lakshmi coming n giving warning so tat Raghav pay customs duty r wat 😆

did Raghav changed d file , seems looking at sunny talking with palz about deal n proofs , so Raghav came to know about sunny - palz deal about slapping Raghav 😆

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Yaa woh RR hai

I told and again tell u

Don ko pakadna mushkil hi nahin na mumkin hai 😎😎😎

RR kuch na kuch gotala kiya now sunny will be a popat 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😂😬

Originally posted by: S-I-A

🤣🤣

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Yeh sahi thha🤣

I've been feeling this for the past few episodes but it was confirmed in today's one that Pallavi probably hasn't connected the deep-rooted emotions troubling Raghav with his current behavior. While it's not a nice feeling to be blamed or misunderstood for something you haven't done, her focus is still far too much on proving she was right/innocent vs. trying to help Raghav handle his pain. Reminded me of the awards function.

His disappointment in Pallavi is less about him believing she had the wrong intent and more about her scoring an own goal. He made that pretty obvious today. He didn't argue with her about removing the alcohol once she explained the reason but the way she tried to tell him to put an end to this 'fight' and then later told him he was stretching this too far made me realize that she doesn't quite get it. All her efforts to dress up, etc. seemed off track to me because they are superficial and do not address the actual issue. She needs to learn to tackle the problem, not the symptoms. It reminded me of the time he brought her traditional dishes to appease her instead of addressing the actual issue in the Hyderabad schedule. Just like Raghav had to learn what clicked with Pallavi and what didn't, I suppose she will learn that in this track. She has some way to go to understand him. Couples need time to understand each other and learn how to react when the other person is upset or angry. If this is the case then I'll applaud the writers for taking this route to correct the imbalance in the way the characters are written.

I don't think he still blames her for what Keerti did or that he'd ever truly believed she was at fault - he saw her as going on her own path without consulting the others or understanding the back story, and then not treating Keerti's rebellion as critically as Amma and he did. It's not a question of whether his thinking is right or not. Rather, I'm looking at this from his perspective. Right or wrong, this is how he feels about what happened.

Raghav's words also showed that he knew Keerti was blind and that it was presently impossible to get through to her to make her see sense.

I've been watching another show where the brother and his wife tried really hard to warn the sister about the guy she wanted to marry. They even tried to prevent the marriage and did everything they could to provide evidence of the guy's true nature but she refused to listen. They even beat up the guy, and kicked him out of their house but failed to convince the sister to call off the wedding.

They told her she would see the truth herself one day but that it would be too late. The brother was devastated when she went ahead with the wedding but never broke off his relationship with his sister or stopped caring about her wellbeing and happiness.

Well, guess what? Many many episodes later, the sister did indeed start seeing the truth herself and remembered her brother and SIL's words. I expect the same here.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I've been feeling this for the past few episodes but it was confirmed in today's one that Pallavi probably hasn't connected the deep-rooted emotions troubling Raghav with his current behavior. While it's not a nice feeling to be blamed or misunderstood for something you haven't done, her focus is still far too much on proving she was right/innocent vs. trying to help Raghav handle his pain. Reminded me of the awards function.

His disappointment in Pallavi is less about him believing she had the wrong intent and more about her scoring an own goal. He made that pretty obvious today. He didn't argue with her about removing the alcohol once she explained the reason but the way she tried to tell him to put an end to this 'fight' and then later told him he was stretching this too far made me realize that she doesn't quite get it. All her efforts to dress up, etc. seemed off track to me because they are superficial and do not address the actual issue. She needs to learn to tackle the problem, not the symptoms. It reminded me of the time he brought her traditional dishes to appease her instead of addressing the actual issue in the Hyderabad schedule. Just like Raghav had to learn what clicked with Pallavi and what didn't, I suppose she will learn that in this track. She has some way to go to understand him. Couples need time to understand each other and learn how to react when the other person is upset or angry. If this is the case then I'll applaud the writers for taking this route to correct the imbalance in the way the characters are written.

I don't think he still blames her for what Keerti did or that he'd ever truly believed she was at fault - he saw her as going on her own path without consulting the others or understanding the back story, and then not treating Keerti's rebellion as critically as Amma and he did. It's not a question of whether his thinking is right or not. Rather, I'm looking at this from his perspective. Right or wrong, this is how he feels about what happened.

Raghav's words also showed that he knew Keerti was blind and that it was presently impossible to get through to her to make her see sense.

You nailed it

Raghvi should grow as couple to understand each other

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