Is Adi Mistrusting Imlie ? Who is Right/Who is Wrong?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Whatever jo current situation is ongoing , it is popular opinion Adi is not trusting imlie.. why he is not trusting Imlie about DD matter ...

But is he really mistrusting Imlie ?


It is TBH complicated, what i feel .There is a thin line bet Distrust n giving benefit of doubt. Adi is currently giving imlie's accusation for dd a benefit of doubt by claiming that it is imlie's misunderstanding. Being a Practical one he is prioritizing the proofs rather than direct blame / accusation on didi like imlie.

Adi trusts Imlie .he is not distrusting her at all .otherwise he wont defend her toady ,he would blame her like Tripathis .from his side he is right now the state of confusion that A person may have misunderstandings to detect the situation..shahed woh jo dekha galad dekha.. shahed woh galad sochaa..shahed usko galadfemi hui

For Adi,it is not easy to believe all of sudden where he knows DD since 7 years,but adi forgot,one may be good with him,but not necessary she will be good wid worlds too. but imlie is thinking she could accuse malini by the basis of whatever she saw,but she forgot before accusing about a biggest crime u need proofs to prove worlds. Adi without proofs accuse nei karte. it is his character arch.agar shuru se hum dekhte hain, he went PD to collect SK's story, somehow he dint believe that time SK is a criminal, so tried to find out the real story,collected proofs to make him innocent infront of world. when imlie's medicine kand hua,yes he knew that imlie dint do that yet he went in medicines shop n was calculating how imlie is innocent by watching cc tv footage to prove her innocence. so here also we can see bandaa sab incidents ko proofs kay sath hi point rakhte hain..akhon dekha chis nei. aur yehi advice he tried to give to imlie..

Both Adilie trust each other more than any one .but problem is their way of exploring the trusts still not effective n impactful yet,There is a communication gap n also more than giving time to themselves to understand each other they are fighting with world to establish the relationship..so there have a slight gap yet.

Adi right now could not come from her past 7 years faith on didi and cant directly believe what imlie saying.he is in conflicts n thinking there is a misunderstanding bet didi and imlie for any issue. it may also the insecurities of imlie becoz of recent fam saas bahu drama. that is why yesterday he brought divorce issue to make clam n try to fix ongoing issues

I found both Adi and imlie right n wrong from their stand

Adilie reacted whatever they got 2 visual but they are r= not going in the depth of situation

she is not taking adi's evidence collecting advices seriously and like SK , let her be manipulated by malini didi and adi is not thinking the real reasons behind imlie's reaction beyond the misunderstandings

and He is not engaging himself with the situation,cos he does not care DD at all,Adi already made it clear her presence does not effect him.and somehow he wants to the end everything by doing the divorce. also expecting to imlie for staying out from this matter, just wants a focus on him,her n her study . so he is in ignorance fest n does not want to work on the mater of why imlie is reacting all of sudden for his peyari didi. n probably kinda guilt is still there as directly,indirectly to reject malini. ha kinda selfish motive,he is not thinking about all,just for him n his shadi shudha jindagi.. but his stand is clear from his side.


Now lets see kabtak didi tak sach gol gol ghumate rahee makers... Thats it...


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Nice post and a very valid question.


I think Adi's fault is that he is asking Imlie to collect proofs but he is not helping her with the same. She is fighting at so many fronts that expecting her to collect the proofs alone is wrong in my opinion. He should offer help as he is very experienced in this by profession. No one is asking him or Imlie to present false proofs. He can still keep this faith or benefit of doubt on Malini intact and he can simultaneously guide Imlie on collecting proofs. But right now he is too upset with Imlie to think clearly.


As for Imlie's condition today, I don't think Imlie had any other option but to stop Malini. Poison in food which is being served to people is a very serious thing. Wasting time on checking if its true or not OR collecting proofs would have been very dangerous if Malini had indeed poisoned the food.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarti1234

Nice post and a very valid question.


I think Adi's fault is that he is asking Imlie to collect proofs but he is not helping her with the same. She is fighting at so many fronts that expecting her to collect the proofs alone is wrong in my opinion. He should offer help as he is very experienced in this by profession. No one is asking him or Imlie to present false proofs. He can still keep this faith or benefit of doubt on Malini intact and he can simultaneously guide Imlie on collecting proofs.


As for Imlie's condition today, I don't think Imlie had any other option but to stop Malini. Poison in food which is being served to people is a very serious thing. Wasting time on checking if its true or not OR collecting proofs would have been very dangerous if Malini had indeed poisoned the food.


kyunki as per him it is imlie's misunderstanding.. he still does not doubt on malini . n he has full faith on imlie's capabilities.. woh aeise kayibaar bola agar imlie than letaa hain woh sab kuch kar sakte hain. so from that point adi subtly let her to do her own task which a mentor does.


n imlie does not need to stop malini, cos malini will never try to harm outsiders.. her fight is against imlie n imlie related stuffs.. not bahar walon. jo imlie khudi khudko samjhayaa after that . n agar imlie khane se rok v diaa , she could tell another theory like accha nei bana aur galtise kuch aur de diaa like sugar kay jagah namak .. she could stop baccho , prashad hain time nei lagte , instant kuch bana dete .. but directly accusing a biggest matter like life n death uske liyeee proofs chiyei. also she could ask sundar / meethi / nani to take care of that prasad taki koi ruin na kare as she knows already how much malini is dangerous now.. in a word it is now a war .. she will have to careful always i she wants to win. cos majority ppl uske against hain...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: opsora2090

Whatever jo current situation is ongoing , it is popular opinion Adi is not trusting imlie.. why he is not trusting Imlie about DD matter ...

But is he really mistrusting Imlie ?


It is TBH complicated, what i feel .There is a thin line bet Distrust n giving benefit of doubt. Adi is currently giving imlie's accusation for dd a benefit of doubt by claiming that it is imlie's misunderstanding. Being a Practical one he is prioritizing the proofs rather than direct blame / accusation on didi like imlie.

Adi trusts Imlie .he is not distrusting her at all .otherwise he wont defend her toady ,he would blame her like Tripathis .from his side he is right now the state of confusion that A person may have misunderstandings to detect the situation..shahed woh jo dekha galad dekha.. shahed woh galad sochaa..shahed usko galadfemi hui

For Adi,it is not easy to believe all of sudden where he knows DD since 7 years,but adi forgot,one may be good with him,but not necessary she will be good wid worlds too. but imlie is thinking she could accuse malini by the basis of whatever she saw,but she forgot before accusing about a biggest crime u need proofs to prove worlds. Adi without proofs accuse nei karte. it is his character arch.agar shuru se hum dekhte hain, he went PD to collect SK's story, somehow he dint believe that time SK is a criminal, so tried to find out the real story,collected proofs to make him innocent infront of world. when imlie's medicine kand hua,yes he knew that imlie dint do that yet he went in medicines shop n was calculating how imlie is innocent by watching cc tv footage to prove her innocence. so here also we can see bandaa sab incidents ko proofs kay sath hi point rakhte hain..akhon dekha chis nei. aur yehi advice he tried to give to imlie..

Both Adilie trust each other more than any one .but problem is their way of exploring the trusts still not effective n impactful yet,There is a communication gap n also more than giving time to themselves to understand each other they are fighting with world to establish the relationship..so there have a slight gap yet.

Adi right now could not come from her past 7 years faith on didi and cant directly believe what imlie saying.he is in conflicts n thinking there is a misunderstanding bet didi and imlie for any issue. it may also the insecurities of imlie becoz of recent fam saas bahu drama. that is why yesterday he brought divorce issue to make clam n try to fix ongoing issues

I found both Adi and imlie right n wrong from their stand

Adilie reacted whatever they got 2 visual but they are r= not going in the depth of situation

she is not taking adi's evidence collecting advices seriously and like SK , let her be manipulated by malini didi and adi is not thinking the real reasons behind imlie's reaction beyond the misunderstandings

and He is not engaging himself with the situation,cos he does not care DD at all,Adi already made it clear her presence does not effect him.and somehow he wants to the end everything by doing the divorce. also expecting to imlie for staying out from this matter, just wants a focus on him,her n her study . so he is in ignorance fest n does not want to work on the mater of why imlie is reacting all of sudden for his peyari didi. n probably kinda guilt is still there as directly,indirectly to reject malini. ha kinda selfish motive,he is not thinking about all,just for him n his shadi shudha jindagi.. but his stand is clear from his side.


Now lets see kabtak didi tak sach gol gol ghumate rahee makers... Thats it...


I completely agree Adi just wants to have a simple married life and he is correct with respect to SK and DD … Imlie’s demand tht DD should also go to jail is not legitimate without proof how can she and he is failing to explain it to her …he keeps emphasizing tht you let SK run and she I will let u knw his details but DD is also a culprit ok fine then he should b like let’s work on getting the proof work as a unit to do tht this may help to reduce this Mu he should remove his blinders … everyday Imlie is put in a ring from his side and it is always Imlie v/s DD .. sandhya diya , Radha dance … it should nip it in bud … and dirt the matter he needs to take the lead … and also tell malini and his family members tht he will not tolerate this Cold War plz don’t put Imlie snd Malini in the ring …and b spectators…


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamer007

I completely agree Adi just wants to have a simple married life and he is correct with respect to SK and DD … Imlie’s demand tht DD should also go to jail is not legitimate without proof how can she and he is failing to explain it to her …he keeps emphasizing tht you let SK run and she I will let u knw his details but DD is also a culprit ok fine then he should b like let’s work on getting the proof work as a unit to do tht this may help to reduce this Mu he should remove his blinders … everyday Imlie is put in a ring from his side and it is always Imlie v/s DD .. sandhya diya , Radha dance … it should nip it in bud … and dirt the matter he needs to take the lead … and also tell malini and his family members tht he will not tolerate this Cold War plz don’t put Imlie snd Malini in the ring …and b spectators…



adi will take lead tabhi jab uske samne koi strong scene ayegaa.. 7 years ka goodness all of sudden chota mota misunderstanding jaise reason se nei ja sakte prb is that .. but i want to believe soon he will take the strong lead to expose him... but kab who knows

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamer007

I completely agree Adi just wants to have a simple married life and he is correct with respect to SK and DD … Imlie’s demand tht DD should also go to jail is not legitimate without proof how can she and he is failing to explain it to her …he keeps emphasizing tht you let SK run and she I will let u knw his details but DD is also a culprit ok fine then he should b like let’s work on getting the proof work as a unit to do tht this may help to reduce this Mu he should remove his blinders … everyday Imlie is put in a ring from his side and it is always Imlie v/s DD .. sandhya diya , Radha dance … it should nip it in bud … and dirt the matter he needs to take the lead … and also tell malini and his family members tht he will not tolerate this Cold War plz don’t put Imlie snd Malini in the ring …and b spectators…



Here is my problem with adi. I have no issues with him having trust on gehri dost. Par work as a unit with wifey to collect proof to help clear or confirm suspicions about didi. Enroll and delegate tasks to team imlie to watch collect proof, phone se record tho kar sakthe hai ye log. Investigative journalist bana kis liye patrakaar. Ye toh uske baaye haath ka kaam hai. Bichari imlu is facing multiple challenges all alone😭.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Abhi to lets see.. what happens tomorrow.. we can continue with this discussion agar kal Adi ki izzat bach gayi to.. otherwise damage would be too big.

Edited by aarti1234 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarti1234

Abhi to lets see.. what happens tomorrow.. we can continue with this discussion agar kal Adi ki izzat bach gayi to.. otherwise damage would be too big.

Hahaha ijat na bchi tb t9 kuch bopne ke piye rhega hi nhi fir trust ho na ho all go to vain.


🤮🤮🤮🤮

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarti1234

Abhi to lets see.. what happens tomorrow.. we can continue with this discussion agar kal Adi ki izzat bach gayi to.. otherwise damage would be too big.


he will be saved by his personal bodyguard

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: opsora2090


he will be saved by his personal bodyguard


Ideally he should be if makers don't decide to make Imlie a meek cow tomorrow. or I am hoping Adi somehow now knows the truth. Way he was drinking the sharbat makes me hopeful. But last 20 years of experience with ITV breaks my hope. 😂

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