My Thoughts (Long Post Alert)

Hey all

Long Post Alert

So I thought of writing this after today's episode

So today I actually got too frustrated while watching Anupama, as she literally has so much baggage carried on her shoulder of her ex in laws, I literally told my mom that Anupama should just leave the house, if she really wants to move on.. By Moving here I don't mean Remarriage, offcourse she can get married once she gains the confidence and believes that she too deserves Happiness.

Shah Family and spcly Baa Baapuji have literally laid Road Blocks before Anupama by making her stay at their Home.. If they really wanted to Help Anupama, they could sell their home and give equal amount of Money to Anupama, Their daughter, Vanraj and offcourse them.. Because I don't think this is their love for Anupama, rather I feel it's their selfishness and insensitivity of keeping Anu there with continuous Taunts of Kavya and Vanraj.. As far as Kids are concerned, they are all grown up yaar.. And they can definitely stay wherever they want, simple.. And Baa Baapuji too can stay wherever they want.. This looks more like they have kept Anupama as Maid at their place and please she will never be able to move on in atleast this toxic and insensitive Shah Family.. Also I mean are you for real writers that Kavya and Vanraj or Baa have the audacity to question Anupama that why she danced with a college friend in their Reunion? I mean really Kavya?? You really were sleeping with Vanraj for so many years and u guys literally were shamelessly cheating on Anupama...

Also If Baa Baapuji's daughter had a same situation like Anupama, would they still think the same way? I mean right from sharing home with Cheater husband and his new wife, with orthodox mother in law? Wouldn't they think of remarrying Anu or happy for Anupama that she finally was so happy at Reunion and enjoyed it...Wouldnt they like that she finally finds happiness,Respect and love from someone which she never got from Vanraj???

I mean seriously do they even consider Anupama a human being with emotions? And Anupama has the same old mindset to be frank, because she still is trapped by the orthodox clutches in her mind.. I honestly aas happy the Maturity and Independent Anupama, during their whole Divorce track.. Now this really doesn't feel realistic at all...I really wanted Anupama and Anuj to start with great friendship and eventually proceed into romantic partner, but in shah house even if Anupama hasn't commited crime or sin, and it's nothing wrong to find happiness and love she will be made feel guilty about.. And mainly her own thoughts in this environment will always be regressive..

Why can't a woman who never experienced love, Happiness and Respect from her Husband can't find Love and Happiness after Divorce and when her husband is already married??? Why does our Hindi Serials always find it difficult to built up a proper plot and storyline for the same?

Baa and Baapuji are responsibility of everyone and majorly of Vanraj and Kavya.. Anupama isn't the sole responsible person to look after them.. Because these ppl will just guilt trip her in the further episodes if she is genuinely seeking happiness and finds one in Anuj