Ram is in love with the idea of being in love

Well I am not saying that Ram does not understand love becoz as far as all the dialogues yet, it is clear that he does understand love pretty well even he may be right when he says mujhse zyada pyaar ko koi nahi samajhta but I get the vibe that he keeps defining the ideal love that he wants instead of the love that he has experienced.

I think he has never experienced love first hand i.e. two sided love even though he of course claims that he loves Vedika and of course his family and both of them are kinda not reciprocated by them but he seems fine in the surface level with not being loved back but furthers this theory as he believes in bookish concept of love that it's fine if they are not loving me back, I will do anything for them. We have not yet seen how Ram was in a relationship with Vedika or for the matter even if there was any relationship with her in the first place as it could be that Vedika was always Ram's one sided love. But one thing is clear that even in a relationship Vedika must have used him then too.

My point of this post is that he know the notion of love pretty well but since he never received love that he expects to, he creates ideal definitions in his mind and fulfills all the necessary duties for his loved ones but he actually does not know what a love relationship is either with a gf/lover or his family.

U said what I felt Today 💞

Even I think so

That's exactly how I feel about Ram's love for vedu... Its like he has this idea of undying eternal love .... True love is what he will understand when he falls for priya.❤️

"Ram is in love with the idea of being in love"

Beautifully put! ❤️ I agree!

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

That's exactly how I feel about Ram's love for vedu... Its like he has this idea of undying eternal love .... True love is what he will understand when he falls for priya.❤️

I think he equates love as only seeing their loved ones happy and to do anything to achieve that and the eternal kind of love that he has always heard about liek one cannot fall in love twice or that he will keep loving a woman even if she is married to some one else and will never be with him. U are right he will only understand that love is beyond what he describes after he is with Priya.

Originally posted by: Shlroy

I think he equates love as only seeing their loved ones happy and to do anything to achieve that and the eternal kind of love that he has always heard about liek one cannot fall in love twice or that he will keep loving a woman even if she is married to some one else and will never be with him. U are right he will only understand that love is beyond what he describes after he is with Priya.

Vrinda tried to make him understand that there's no pretence in love, you can just be yourself as ram still thinks vedika and her husband are madly in love couple.. Ram has a long way to go and experience love to understand its true meaning... Its gonna be a beautiful journey for ram and priya.❤️

I love the title... it resonates with the Character of Ram.

I soo agree to u

On point

Agree about his emotions not being reciprocated. He has not experienced the sweetness and beautiful moments of being in love or may be they were short lived. But I don't think his definition of love is ideal. As I see it, it's fine. Love is complete in itself. In it's purest form it's unconditional. That only makes it more beautiful, at the same time painful. To wish someone well always, to try to stand by your loved ones, to keep one's promises, are all the things, those people can do who truly, deeply understand love and compassion. He is although a victim of his own longing and loneliness. Something which is very difficult to transcend for normal human beings too. He thinks he has surpassed the phase where he does not need someone and his individual efforts are enough. To a certain extent it helps him too. It helps him keep the sanity of his mind intact, but deep down he has an expectation from life, to have a more deeper, personal relation (which in this case will be Priya).. It's more of a natural instinct. His idea of love his fine, he just has not been able to find his kind. But longing is a never ending saga. It never settles. In fact it's his unconditional love, that has kind of kept him settled, somewhat happy and closer to life.

I think I became overly philosophical. 😆