Udaariyaan | Episode Discussion Thread #15 DT note pg: 131 - Page 12

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

All my forumwasis lots of love from me 🤗🤗🤗🤗 thanks for supporting. I just got upset with a comment from a fellow forumwasi who thought I was victim shaming but I'm back to being sassy and sarcastic 😁😁😁. All thanks to u all

Also I am not saying you were victim shaming, you definitely were not. I absolutely understand your emotions.

It's victim blaming that I said. Both are very different. And it was no way meant to upset you. I have been seeing such words while I understand they just don't want to see Tejo in that situation, and it's only their love for her. But it is also important that we don't blame her for trusting people.

Now that she has seen what trusting people can lead to, she will never be able to trust again and that's the saddest part.

No-one deserves to face such situation for trusting others.

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

Thank you, I do really mean what I said its from my mom's personal experience of a abusive marriage hence I know what it feels like to be cheated and abaandoned. ❤❤❤

By the way even my mom's name is sangeeta. 😀😀

☺️☺️☺️☺️ Wow.... This Sangita is also very strong... I always fought for which is wrong...

Taking some more inspiration....❤️

Give my love to your mom...❤️❤️

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

Well trust is important in any relationship and it must be there but at the same time it should not be blind. Trust does not mean u keep placing everybody else before u. I am in no way victim shaming her what I meant was that she kept repeating the same mistake. And it is important for her to understand it now as history repeats itself until u don't learn ur lesson.

In this noway do I mean that she deserves to be cheated as nobody does especially a beautiful soul like Tejo, all I want is for her to learn and accept herself without any inhibitions and that will come after this heartbreak.

I too have a mother who walked out of a abusive relationship, and was in a state more vulnerable then Tejo ,she was very young and it took at huge chunk of her confidence and broke her badly but she gotup and walked away with her head held high and raised my single-handedly. My mom too gave into her parents emotional blackmail like Tejo and agreed for a marriage at the the age of 18 that ruined her life and youth leaving her with me at the age of 19 and was divorced by 22 when most youngsters at that age are busy having fun, my mom was busy working her bavk off to raise her child and give her the best life possible . Today she is a woman who I admire and respect not because she is my mother but as a human who had the courage to accept her mistakes, who learnt her lesson and worked on herself and gave it back to every person who pulled her down.

I'm sorry if I seemed like I was victim shaming. I can be very sarcastic and sound hilarious in alot of my comments but everyone who is a regular on this forum knows that's just who I am. But that doesn't mean I don't understand the gravity of a toxic relationship, Ive seen many in my personal life and even dealt with depression for a long time to coming from a broken family and have been a victim of abusive violence too . But today I am who I am learning, accepting and loving myself eachday. So sorry again if I sounded like that but I do believe she has to learn to prioritize herself and there is nothing wrong in saying she too has her faults as she does and that is what makes her more real and human.

Sorry for ranting and getting personal it just affected me so I said what I felt. I'm sorry again.

A very tight and warm hug to your mom 🤗 It takes lot of courage and guts to walk out of abusive marriage due to so called society that we live in...I am really glad she took her call and raise you well..look what a fire bomb she created out of you 😆🤗 I'm a divorcee and at quite a young age too, I was in emotionally abusive marriage of just 3 months, luckily my parents supported my call of calling it quit before I started losing my marbles 😆 I'm doing quite well in my life from every aspect. The lesson I learnt is nothing is more important in your life than your own happiness.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I think so unfortunately.😭

Shubh Shubh bolo re 😆

Anupama got a new male lead... they are so cute.

Maybe in time Tejo can get a new lead also

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I walked out of an abusive relationship too.

Proud of u woman. Way to go girl. Nothing on planet earth is worth sacrificing one's dignity and self respect over. U deserve the best of the best dear. We all need love and companionship and get lonely at times but that doesn't mean we have to compromise our souls for it.

Na pucho meri manzil kaha hai

Abhi tho safar ka iraada kiya kai

Na harenge hosla chahe kuch bhi ho jaye

Ye kisi aur se nahi khud se waada kiya hai

Dedicated to every strong woman out there and all the amazing ladies here on forum

Keep going stay strong❤

Originally posted by: Msangita

☺️☺️☺️☺️ Wow.... This Sangita is also very strong... I always fought for which is wrong...

Taking some more inspiration....❤️

Give my love to your mom...❤️❤️

lots of love to u as well. Always remain the way u are.

As life is not about holding good cards but playing those u hold well. ❤❤

Originally posted by: music_girl

Anupama got a new male lead... they are so cute.

Maybe in time Tejo can get a new lead also

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

Well trust is important in any relationship and it must be there but at the same time it should not be blind. Trust does not mean u keep placing everybody else before u. I am in no way victim shaming her what I meant was that she kept repeating the same mistake. And it is important for her to understand it now as history repeats itself until u don't learn ur lesson.

In this noway do I mean that she deserves to be cheated as nobody does especially a beautiful soul like Tejo, all I want is for her to learn and accept herself without any inhibitions and that will come after this heartbreak.

I too have a mother who walked out of a abusive relationship, and was in a state more vulnerable then Tejo ,she was very young and it took at huge chunk of her confidence and broke her badly but she gotup and walked away with her head held high and raised my single-handedly. My mom too gave into her parents emotional blackmail like Tejo and agreed for a marriage at the the age of 18 that ruined her life and youth leaving her with me at the age of 19 and was divorced by 22 when most youngsters at that age are busy having fun, my mom was busy working her bavk off to raise her child and give her the best life possible . Today she is a woman who I admire and respect not because she is my mother but as a human who had the courage to accept her mistakes, who learnt her lesson and worked on herself and gave it back to every person who pulled her down.

I'm sorry if I seemed like I was victim shaming. I can be very sarcastic and sound hilarious in alot of my comments but everyone who is a regular on this forum knows that's just who I am. But that doesn't mean I don't understand the gravity of a toxic relationship, Ive seen many in my personal life and even dealt with depression for a long time to coming from a broken family and have been a victim of abusive violence too . But today I am who I am learning, accepting and loving myself eachday. So sorry again if I sounded like that but I do believe she has to learn to prioritize herself and there is nothing wrong in saying she too has her faults as she does and that is what makes her more real and human.

Sorry for ranting and getting personal it just affected me so I said what I felt. I'm sorry again.

Big salute and total respect to auntyji. Bravo way to go. U guys deserve every happiness life has to offer. 🤗

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

I know and I love her to bits for that. It means the world to me that she chose to be a survivor instead of a victim when life threw a hurdle at her. I tend to hide my pain behind my sarcasm and humour but it damaged her beyond repair but still she is independent and lives her life according to her wish and gave me the strength to be kickass and outspoken and feisty sassy all that I am today. It was because of her that I took up martial arts and soccer and channelized my depression and anger issues that had lead me too suffer from epileptic seizures because of abuse as a kid.

You are so brave sweetheart and a lovely person too...stay same...🤗

I am so glad, I met so many beautiful souls on this forum...who has their own wonderful stories of Udaariyaan 🤗