Udaariyaan | Episode Discussion Thread #15 DT note pg: 131 - Page 10

Originally posted by: Mink

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more BTS of Tejo breakdown

It going to be very tough for her 😭

Nd worst is she'll be alone ... her own ppl hv broken her... whom she'll trust now :(

When Fateh broke down Tejo stood by his side.

Gave him comfort nd helped him.

Nd what he did in return 🤬

Thankless man 🤬

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

I agree that she is going to be shattered but to be true she brought this heartbreak on her ownself. Had she atleast maybe tried to understand the attempts behind maami's warnings and not let her be sacrificed as a bait by her family it would have been different. The reason she got heartbroken and cheated the second time round too ,was because she committed the same mistake she did in her first marriage and it will happen again if this woman dosen't learn her lesson this time round again. I want her heartbreak to be even worse and not because I hate her because I love her and wish the world for her❤❤❤❤ and I want her to learn her lesson and learn it well enough to understand where she went wrong and work on those shortcomings as "Agar tum Apne aap ko Thali main paish karke doge toh duniya tumhe kacha chabake ,nimbu ki Tarah nichodegi"

Learn that nobody not even ur parents have the right to misuse u and take u for granted. Keep ur self respect on the highest pedestal and never let anybody trampel all over it.

Jai hind

Jai maharashtra

May Tejo's journey ahead rock and those jasfa sadale socks suck. 🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘.

I completely agree with you meri marathi mulgi ❤️

Man Gaurav Khanna's entry in Anupama today as Anupama's love interest ... so damn cute ... I need a Anuj Kapadia for Tejo pls

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I walked out of an abusive relationship too.

More power to you, Padmajaan❤️

Always keep ur head high and never give a ear to anyone trying to make u question ur decision.

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

I agree that she is going to be shattered but to be true she brought this heartbreak on her ownself. Had she atleast maybe tried to understand the attempts behind maami's warnings and not let her be sacrificed as a bait by her family it would have been different. The reason she got heartbroken and cheated the second time round too ,was because she committed the same mistake she did in her first marriage and it will happen again if this woman dosen't learn her lesson this time round again. I want her heartbreak to be even worse and not because I hate her because I love her and wish the world for her❤❤❤❤ and I want her to learn her lesson and learn it well enough to understand where she went wrong and work on those shortcomings as "Agar tum Apne aap ko Thali main paish karke doge toh duniya tumhe kacha chabake ,nimbu ki Tarah nichodegi"

Learn that nobody not even ur parents have the right to misuse u and take u for granted. Keep ur self respect on the highest pedestal and never let anybody trampel all over it.

Jai hind

Jai maharashtra

May Tejo's journey ahead rock and those jasfa sadale socks suck. 🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘.

Wow I just loved what you wrote.....

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I completely agree with you meri marathi mulgi ❤️

thank you meri jaanemaan, I owe u a pakoda party from the other day 😂😂. But I received a comment from a fellow forumwasi, who i think is apparently new to the forum, who asked me too stop victim shaming.

I did reply and give her perspective and reasoning behind my thought process 😞😞 regarding my comment but it hurt me a little.

Originally posted by: Msangita

Wow I just loved what you wrote.....

Thank you, I do really mean what I said its from my mom's personal experience of a abusive marriage hence I know what it feels like to be cheated and abaandoned. ❤❤❤

By the way even my mom's name is sangeeta. 😀😀

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

I walked out of an abusive relationship too.

I know and I love her to bits for that. It means the world to me that she chose to be a survivor instead of a victim when life threw a hurdle at her. I tend to hide my pain behind my sarcasm and humour but it damaged her beyond repair but still she is independent and lives her life according to her wish and gave me the strength to be kickass and outspoken and feisty sassy all that I am today. It was because of her that I took up martial arts and soccer and channelized my depression and anger issues that had lead me too suffer from epileptic seizures because of abuse as a kid.

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

Well trust is important in any relationship and it must be there but at the same time it should not be blind. Trust does not mean u keep placing everybody else before u. I am in no way victim shaming her what I meant was that she kept repeating the same mistake. And it is important for her to understand it now as history repeats itself until u don't learn ur lesson.

In this noway do I mean that she deserves to be cheated as nobody does especially a beautiful soul like Tejo, all I want is for her to learn and accept herself without any inhibitions and that will come after this heartbreak.

I too have a mother who walked out of a abusive relationship, and was in a state more vulnerable then Tejo ,she was very young and it took at huge chunk of her confidence and broke her badly but she gotup and walked away with her head held high and raised my single-handedly. My mom too gave into her parents emotional blackmail like Tejo and agreed for a marriage at the the age of 18 that ruined her life and youth leaving her with me at the age of 19 and was divorced by 22 when most youngsters at that age are busy having fun, my mom was busy working her bavk off to raise her child and give her the best life possible . Today she is a woman who I admire and respect not because she is my mother but as a human who had the courage to accept her mistakes, who learnt her lesson and worked on herself and gave it back to every person who pulled her down.

I'm sorry if I seemed like I was victim shaming. I can be very sarcastic and sound hilarious in alot of my comments but everyone who is a regular on this forum knows that's just who I am. But that doesn't mean I don't understand the gravity of a toxic relationship, Ive seen many in my personal life and even dealt with depression for a long time to coming from a broken family and have been a victim of abusive violence too . But today I am who I am learning, accepting and loving myself eachday. So sorry again if I sounded like that but I do believe she has to learn to prioritize herself and there is nothing wrong in saying she too has her faults as she does and that is what makes her more real and human.

Sorry for ranting and getting personal it just affected me so I said what I felt. I'm sorry again.

You and ur mom r love Shraddha ❤️🤗

We hv all known you for wonderful person you r...

And hell u can victim blame her ... we hv seen you loving the Tejo the way we all do..

we know ur intentions nd thoughts well ❤️❤️

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

thank you meri jaanemaan, I owe u a pakoda party from the other day 😂😂. But I received a comment from a fellow forumwasi, who i think is apparently new to the forum, who asked me too stop victim shaming.

I did reply and give her perspective and reasoning behind my thought process 😞😞 regarding my comment but it hurt me a little.

No need to be hurt because you explained your POV very clearly in your post + all your comments were bang on!

I have always said the same thing too and I adore Tejo too, it's only for her good in the long run and for her to become stronger, not weaker by repeating the same mistakes again and again!

I hope she remembers mami now at least and I hope everyone wakes up in the Snadhu house starting with Tejo, smell the coffee and realize that J is a snake and unfit to be loved or helped or understood because she is nothing but a snake.