Originally posted by: milkcakejamun
For the longest time, I was flip-flopping between "Family is using Shiva" and "This is just their way of showing love." After this track I can safely say that the entire family (even Suman at times) is using Shiva. Outside of his love for his family, I realized that I barely know Shiva. Shiva and Raavi should've taken up on Shiva's friend's offer for family lunch/dinner. I want to see how he is when he is not worried about the store, not emotionally drained, and not fretting over his family.
And now no one even wants to pull him into dance 🥺. Buddy, regardless of what happens, he is still your family. This wasn't a marriage he wanted. It was a marriage he was forced into. Everyone is completely okay that Dev left a girl at the altar, who was almost going to die had it not been for Shiva opening the door and pulling her down, who would've been mocked for the rest of her life (like Anita) for being abandoned at the altar... if Shiva was in love with someone else, or if he said "No," could they live with the guilt?
Legit, almost everyone has thought or said aloud, "Shiva is not like this!" How could all of you be incompetent buffoons? At this point, I wish Shiva took up on a truck business opportunity where he could go across the country and earn some money. A few adventures may help him recover.
This is what bothers me the most.
I can understand raavi misunderstanding him, taunting him, slapping him because they had a childhood animosity. They are in a forced marriage.they hated each other.
But what is up with the family? They don't care at all about his emotions.on the other hand all he cares about is them.thats partly a reason I can't enjoy gaura or dhara scenes.
I loved the pre leap and initial Post leap dhara.she loved her devars to bits.
the scene where she caught krish smoking and was hurt but still reprimand shiva for raising his hand on him.
The scene where she desparately tries to make things right for dev, even going to janardans house, staking her self respect.
The dhara who holds out her aanchal and asks shiva to accept raavi.
The dhara who always protected shiva when Gautam or maami raised their hands right from childhood.
What have they made her into?
Where is she?
This woman just goes on beating and emotionally blackmailing people.
It would have been so beautiful to see a sensible and loving dhara taking care of a hurt shiva.comforting him.trying to understand him.
Edited by Pixiepadhi - 3 years ago