Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily Discussion Thread no 46. - Page 9

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

She was actually staring at Sammy… like “why did you come back?”

😂😂 This fits. She must be thinking I just started emotionally blackmailing Sai so she leaves Virat. My path would have cleared soon , you just ruined my plans 🤣

It was one of the most heart breaking episodes even worse than the anniversary plan flop episode. I could understand and empathise with Sai there and why she was behaving so. But today she was quite heartless with Virat, coz she saw Samrat suffer a lot due to the Virakhi past and all her frustration and helplessness and anger regarding the two got multifold and she failed to realise how much she was hurting him by her harsh words. That too when the guy is already reeling under the guilt and pain of Samrat misunderstanding him.

Many are saying he deserved every bit of the words. But no, Imo. Knowingly he never thought anything bad for Samrat. He made that stupid promise to Pakhi that has ruined their lives together only so that she will marry Samrat. He thought Samrat liked her and will be shattered if Pakhi doesn't marry him now and he didn't wanna take away that happiness from him.

Was he stupid and short-sighted? Absolutely yes he was. But his intentions were pure, with only love for his cousin. So he didn't deserve the hatred he received from both ends today. Repeated blames and misunderstandings about his conduct and his association with Pakhi is shattering him, when he's done nothing to be called a cheater or a two timer. He's said to be playing with two women's feelings but he is clearly given clarification to Pakhi, she doesn't get that means what can Virat do? As for Sai, well he's not gonna confess his feelings or say he'll choose Sai(and even of Samrakhi get divorced he's not gonna choose Pakhi, that's for sure) now that he's decided that he'll free her off from this relationship and won't keep her with him if it's giving nothing but pain for her.

Virat looked so resigned and dejected today, felt awful for him more than anyday. Nothing is happening right for him and he's just being thrown bricks after bricks by his near and dear ones, and he didn't deserve that.

Who feels like slapping Virat in today episode.

He was also canting Sai insult him means his beizzati.

Sai found his lost brother made sure he's going with them then what's this my parivaar ke mamle mein etc etc.

Originally posted by: MB1996

I actually agree with the Karma dialogue of sai to Virat.who the hell gives him the right to take decisions for other's life.

He didn't wanted to marry but who gave him the right to ruin his brother's life and gave that stupid vaada to Didi.

Just imagine but if virat hadn't married sai and was still single and then Sammy would have asked him why you are single then what would have been his response -i promised a woman to never love anyone except her and that woman is none other than your wife.so let's stay together 3 of us together happily together as if nothing happened and I am the Mahan who sacrifices for everyone.

And also now he has the audacity to still work to bring Samrat and didi together and force them to give their marriage a chance even though he knows that woman will never love his beloved jeeva.

How is this love ? I don't understand ? Who would want their brother to live such a painful life.

Why does he always acts like an almighty guy whom no one understands.its too much.

Atleast for God sake let them decide what they want and where their happiness lies.They are adults and let them breathe.

First he needs to learn stop being hero and learn to clean the mess of his life &stop being so coward.

We all know virat chavan is an amazing guy and understanding guy and loves blindly.

His intentions are always good but his way of doing it sucks which always bites him in the end.

Yes sai is brash and what she said about virat is unacceptable ,infact no body has the right to accuse him like that.But she also mentioned that instead of focusing on what I said ,can you please focus on the reasons why I said that?

She is again and again asking for validation and he is again quiet. She asked him to choose between him or do ,again he was quiet.

See I understand what Sai was insanely rude and she has no right to talk to him like this but you can see the struggle going in her mind.

How she cried when she gave the Karma taunt to virat and he went out and she had tears .Yet she is keeping herself strong

Also when she was talking to virat you can feel the pain in her voice especially when virat told her that he is breaking all ties with her,her pain was visible.

Hence for this episode I do sympathize with Virat bit overall for the entire track I will be siding with sai.

As she is a sad ,scared 19 year old girl who has no body to share her feelings.

This!

It's easy fir Virat to believe everyone above Sai

It's easy for Virat to easily doubt Sai even though he knows BeastDidis intention and his families hatred towards her.

It's easy for Virat to throw her out of the house.

It's easy fir Virat to cut ties

Bcz at the end of it all he has his entire family behind him.

Today, Samrat is hurt by him but bcz he's blood that will eventually be forgiven and they will move on.

But to tell your WIFE at every opportunity that you will cut ties with her completely and she shouldn't interfere in your family matters is who the real Virat is!

Sai's words carry truth and weight that's why the monstrous/violent reactions from Virat.

BeastLekhas actions or words don't bring about the same reaction bcz mentally he has moved on - but expects Sai to read his mind 🤔. No wonder she's putting her heart and soul into becoming a Dr - hope her speciality is mind reading.

It's a huge insult for her as his wife that to celebrate their anniversary he has to hide it from his family so that one person doesn't get whiff off it.

And the most important, as Mohit mentioned in the hospital- this family and Virat can toss her around like trash because Sai has NO family. There is no one to question their unethical inhumane approach and Virat's downright despicable behaviour towards her.

Exactly I mean imagine yourself as a 19 year old girl.

She is still a teenage and growing up into a woman and already has a complicated life

People accuse of her staying back at CN after virat stopped her .

But this is how teenagers are ,when they get mad they will get mad like anything else but they also forget the moment when their love ones apologize to them.

I am pretty sure we all used to get mad at our parents and would say mean to things about them but the moment they will do something or start talking nicely we would forget everything.Well Sai is no different.

She gets mad at virat but she forgives him the moment he starts apologizing again and again.

Now a 30 year old guy is using such words like I break all ties with you and expecting her to understand such complicated emotions is too much.

I am not at all defending Sai ,what she said is highly highly unacceptable.

But this is what virat does when he gets mad throw her out of the house ,break ties with her and show her cold behaviour as he has a family that will be with him.

But think from her perspective how much she would be scared and insecure she must be feeling ,she has no one to share her feelings and the turmoils she is going through.

The family she has is all bcoz of Virat.

And when mature people like virat and pakhi can't understand the wrong doings and their impact.

You really do expect her to understand that-a 19 year old girl who has no one

For today's episode I really had for virat but for this entire track I feel bad for sai.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold The Karma thing that she spoke about bothered me a lot. She has absolutely no clue as what happened in their past. He had actually sacrificed his love (be it anything) with a good intention, for his brother’s happiness. What does she know that she spoke that? He wronged Samrat, I agree but not with any ill intentions.

I am wondering why should he end the deal. If she thinks this way or thinks he is the reason for everything, or he is so bad then she should walk out of his life.

Originally posted by: Sofna

Seeing the emotional mess Virat is who till Sai came to his house couldn't even speak up for his mum... and even till now very rarely defends his wife properly and maintains her honour... this is what she's seen of him up close and very personally for a whole year - that's why she gave him the ultimate gyaan - to go and tell Sammy everything and to choose between his BeastLove or Biwi...cz as it's been predicted Samrats decision will give hope to BeastLekha and what will he do then...give his shoulder to cry on to his beast friend and come to his room and shout at his wife?

Btw did anyone see the number if Sarees Sai was packing 😲Why didn't she wear any if them 😳😆

Hmm. She has actually seen him waiting for Samrat and praying that he returns home too. I don’t have issues with her saying that he has to clarify to Samrat or asking him to understand Samrat’s POV. But I didn’t like that she had assumed or misunderstood or tried to perceive his silence, his gloominess to be because Samrat has returned. That’s where the problem is. She was happy to announce to him that she has found his brother. She also didn’t want Virat to give up and walk away but instead convinced Samrat to return home. She was happy when she saw Virat was happy and hugged his brother. The minute she saw Samrat wasn’t responding to Virat, Samrat was indirectly talking about Virat and Pakhi and Samrat refusing to talk to Virat in the latest episode saying he has heard enough because of which he left the house, had moved out of the path, had resigned to his fate, she started to associate Samrat’s pain with hers, she started to understand Samrat’s position. It was that which made her speak about Karma or asking Virat to understand Samrat. But didn’t she see that Virat was upset that his brother was distancing himself from him and that is why he was gloomy, why then ask him if he wasn’t happy that Samrat returned? That was her insecurity speaking. She wanted to know why he was quiet, what was running in his head, why he looked upset. It was bothering her. She wanted to know what was he thinking. She wasn’t sure or didn’t think that way but it was her way to ask what he would be doing about waada and Pakhi now that Samrat had returned. Rather than asking what his decision would be she chose the path of showing her impatience, restlessness by asking if he wasn’t happy that Samrat had returned. The conversation anyway ultimately led her to ask him to choose between her and Pakhi.

That is what I could make out of Sai’s behaviour.

Originally posted by: laksh

Moving this message too to this thread.

I too didn’t like what she spoke. She was being too harsh and unreasonable. Yes, it is annoying that he stays silent but that doesn’t mean that she will say anything that comes to her mind 😡. I didn’t like the karma dialogue too. Just didn’t like it. He doesn’t deserve it. What does she know that she said that? Fine, she has faced a lot of things because of Virat and Pakhi, both of them have been wrong to her but what is the need to get so harsh on Virat and talk about Karma.

Samrat can be upset with Virat because he just met him and I can understand where he is coming from but not Sai. I understand that he is not clearing things up but these were too hurtful things to speak. Her insecurity can come out as anger but she should have a check on her words. And just out of her assumptions she has blamed everything on him and even thinks Pakhi gets blamed? What nonsense.

He has been wrong, took a wrong decision but she is not even willing to listen or think that he had said he ended his commitment. Even if he wasn’t clear or answer her questions, he did tell her that he doesn’t have any more commitment. He doesn’t speak even Pakhi accuses him or says she is waiting for him but that doesn’t mean she thinks that he is at fault. In her anger and insecurity, she is failing to think if Virat can hurt anyone intentionally. She is thinking he is confused? Then she should ask him what he wants rather than alleging him like this.

Felt very bad for him 😞.

Virat stayed silent, spoke he will show a different face to her and even end the relationship but those were all reactions to what she spoke and how she behaved.

I can’t get to blame him for what he did today. My observations and views after watching a few clippings and from the written update. Will watch the full episode once it gets uploaded for me and will let share my views later.

Originally posted by: laksh

Hmm. She has actually seen him waiting for Samrat and praying that he returns home too. I don’t have issues with her saying that he has to clarify to Samrat or asking him to understand Samrat’s POV. But I didn’t like that she had assumed or misunderstood or tried to perceive his silence, his gloominess to be because Samrat has returned. That’s where the problem is. She was happy to announce to him that she has found his brother. She also didn’t want Virat to give up and walk away but instead convinced Samrat to return home. She was happy when she saw Virat was happy and hugged his brother. The minute she saw Samrat wasn’t responding to Virat, Samrat was indirectly talking about Virat and Pakhi and Samrat refusing to talk to Virat in the latest episode saying he has heard enough because of which he left the house, had moved out of the path, had resigned to his fate, she started to associate Samrat’s pain with hers, she started to understand Samrat’s position. It was that which made her speak about Karma or asking Virat to understand Samrat. But didn’t she see that Virat was upset that his brother was distancing himself from him and that is why he was gloomy, why then ask him if he wasn’t happy that Samrat returned? That was her insecurity speaking. She wanted to know why he was quiet, what was running in his head, why he looked upset. It was bothering her. She wanted to know what was he thinking. She wasn’t sure or didn’t think that way but it was her way to ask what he would be doing about waada and Pakhi now that Samrat had returned. Rather than asking what his decision would be she chose the path of showing her impatience, restlessness by asking if he wasn’t happy that Samrat had returned. The conversation anyway ultimately led her to ask him to choose between her and Pakhi.

That is what I could make out of Sai’s behaviour.

I'm not sure I'm understanding what is wrong with her questioning.

Virat is trying to show her that he's moved on. They may have in the 1year many sweet moments, comfortable moments, desirable moments, happy moments, life changing moments but all that doesn't remove the red warning line he placed between them on their wedding day.

And he clearly has no intention to clarify any of that - not to Sai nor Samrat.

What does this lead to (if as per spoilers Samrat gives his marriage a chance) then there's two set of people doubting each other in the sacred bond of marriage- which is not a few hours , days or months plays....isn't it lifetime (or 7 lifetimes) - however Sai asks, which ever route or wording she takes- the question in the end is the same right?

And isn't that the reason for Virat breaking ties with her . She mostly (or should I say always from the few episodes I've watched) hits right kn target with her assumptions, insinuations or questions.

Sai maybe 19 whilst Virat much older...but calling her immature time and time again for what?.. People who grow up without parental figure(s) (are to an extent people pleasing, hence what she does for those evil CN pple) but they know and understand (irrespective of age) many things and can see more clearly.

Isn't Virat on a guilt trip?The brother he's been crying and waiting for doesn't want to remain with the family. Who's the reason- him right?

So what has Sai said hasn't just spelt those word's out mire clearly?

I think they are inching towards showing virat as abla narr who was misunderstood by his wife and his brother. When both will realize he loves sai, they will feel guilty 😆 N it will make way for a happy union.but pakhi will become hopeful again and again it will crash so she will become more vindictive 😆