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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

What life she has then?

Take care of three children all by herself !

Stay in the house let every one take care of children

What is the point in Children have their right , they love both parents !

What about it?

😅😅😅

Don’t think only in Sona’s prospectives think about children’s shoes too, Devakshi brought then to the world now argue , fight or discuss settle things !

🤷🏻‍♀️

I used to think from both Dev & Sona's perspective pre leap in the 1st season. I loved the pre leap Dev with all his flaws. But I can no longer find excuses for the mamma's boy Dev. The day he takes a stand for himself first & then for his wife & children & learns to distinguish between right & wrong when it comes to his mother, I will be the first person to cheer & respect him. As of now he doesn't deserve Sona.

In an ideal world, children are the happiest when they have the perfect family with them living happily with both their parents. But in reality, sometimes children are better off in a happier environment with a single parent rather than staying in an unhealthy environment wherein parents have irreconcilable differences, are not compatible, have bitter fights every day resulting in affecting the mental & emotional well being of their children.

In case of Devakshi they love each other but there is no respect or even communication between them. Dev doesn't seem to value & respect her opinions whereas Sona seems to be losing respect for Dev as he can never stand for himself & his family when it comes to his mother's wishes nor does he ever support her or stand by or with her. Her tolerance level has almost been reached & she has reached a stage where she finds herself at crossroads where if Dev is not sensitive enough to her feelings or isn't supportive of her as his life partner, she might be triggered into taking. a road which will lead her away from him. Being separated doesn't mean that the kids will never see Dev. They could have the joint custody of their children and/ or visitation rights can be amicably worked out between the two. They can even have joint outings & holidays together. This way the children will not lose out on either of their parents' love. Or if Dev doesn't want to lose Sona , they can live together as a nuclear family close to the Dixit house. This way they can keep a protective watch over Ishwari & see to her needs too & visit her often. This is actually an ideal solution to stop Ishwari 's excessive interference in their personal space & let everyone ( including Ishwari) live their life but for that Dev has to first cut off his mother's apron strings.😅😅 Ishwari can keep herself occupied doing some social work. This will make her independent emotionally (from her dependence on Dev) & open a new world full of possibilities for her. She might even appreciate Sona more.

Bold part: How can one argue , fight or settle things when the other person isn't willing to listen to you even when you share all your feelings with him or he walks out in the middle of a fight / argument because he cannot listen to the bitter truth. Sona has tried so many times to share her fears & concerns with him but he barely hears them or even if he hears them, he brushes it aside them each time resulting in Sona feeling even more frustrated or he walks out in the middle of their conversation/ argument like he did in today's episode.🤢

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Posted: 4 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30


Looking like that only. Now he is mad at her🤷‍♀️

Not only that, will also make sona asks sorry from his mother also.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: 07RB

Not only that, will also make sona asks sorry from his mother also.


I can totally see that happening.

I hope it doesn't, though. Age or being a mother doesn't negate the wrong you do.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: Summerholiday

Maa & beta are the real life partners. Sonakshi should gracefully exit from their life with the 3 children. No point in being the third wheel.😬


Yep. I said this in season 1 itself. There ain’t no place for Sonakshi in this twisted Ma- beta relationship. She never stood a chance.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: Summerholiday

Maa & beta are the real life partners. Sonakshi should gracefully exit from their life with the 3 children. No point in being the third wheel.😬

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSn3KJ4iSvW/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link..

Above pics r saying exactly what ever u wrote..real life partner 👍😅 ..ishu is asking **kiya Sonakshi ne room se nikal diya tujhe? Chal mere saath mai lori sunake tujhe sulaungi..bachpan mai jaise sulaati thi tu jub paanch saal ka tha 😅🙄 dev..*Nahi maa tu jaa mai yahaan hi theek hoon* mujhe Lori nahi sunna jaa tu soja *..damn beta 👎👎

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Posted: 4 years ago
#26

Neha's dialogue from season 1 - "Apne aur apne bete ke beech mein yeh apni betiyon ko bhi nahi aane deti ... Kisi aur ki beti ko kya aane degi"

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Posted: 4 years ago
#27

Why don’t wait for the episode?

Dev didn’t bad mouth about Sona to his Maa either kept quiet or told they will sort out their issues or staying away from each other is better fir now !

That is what every one who blames only Dev wants right ?

I will not call a mother and son relationship any other ways but there are this kind of relationships too close to each other !

Sona knew it from the beginning !

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Posted: 4 years ago
#28

Yes sona knew it from the beginning..but she didn't know that dev will never support her in any area or he did b4 ,whenever she tried to say abt his mom ,he hushed up 🙄👎son definitely will love,support his mom ,dad but not dev's way he is blind abt his mom kartoot .👎..he didn't growup during season 1,2 and now season 3 worse ..when any kind of relationship goes beyond the edges that relationship is not acceptable for sure.👎

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Posted: 4 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: kinu17

Yes sona knew it from the beginning..but she didn't know that dev will never support her in any area or he did b4 ,whenever she tried to say abt his mom ,he hushed up 🙄👎son definitely will love,support his mom ,dad but not dev's way he is blind abt his mom kartoot .👎..he didn't growup during season 1,2 and now season 3 worse ..when any kind of relationship goes beyond the edges that relationship is not acceptable for sure.👎

There will be few more episodes see what Dev & Sona will do

That is those character’s lives , I would rather waitvand watch

She is free to walk out but children’s opinion must be taken , they have equal rights like adults !

If they want to follow her then take them if not leave them with whom they want !

Leaving children , avoiding facing them is not the option

What support she wants from Dev ?

Why don’t ask Ishwarry direct ?

Most the most Devakshi will fight , than living without happiness fighting is better option !

😂😂😂

After some eruption things will become either worse or better , there is nothing much to go on in this story.

😃😃

This is one and only series I watch so after this escape from world of ITV shows ( hopefully) 😂

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Posted: 4 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: Summerholiday

I used to think from both Dev & Sona's perspective pre leap in the 1st season. I loved the pre leap Dev with all his flaws. But I can no longer find excuses for the mamma's boy Dev. The day he takes a stand for himself first & then for his wife & children & learns to distinguish between right & wrong when it comes to his mother, I will be the first person to cheer & respect him. As of now he doesn't deserve Sona.

In an ideal world, children are the happiest when they have the perfect family with them living happily with both their parents. But in reality, sometimes children are better off in a happier environment with a single parent rather than staying in an unhealthy environment wherein parents have irreconcilable differences, are not compatible, have bitter fights every day resulting in affecting the mental & emotional well being of their children.

In case of Devakshi they love each other but there is no respect or even communication between them. Dev doesn't seem to value & respect her opinions whereas Sona seems to be losing respect for Dev as he can never stand for himself & his family when it comes to his mother's wishes nor does he ever support her or stand by or with her. Her tolerance level has almost been reached & she has reached a stage where she finds herself at crossroads where if Dev is not sensitive enough to her feelings or isn't supportive of her as his life partner, she might be triggered into taking. a road which will lead her away from him. Being separated doesn't mean that the kids will never see Dev. They could have the joint custody of their children and/ or visitation rights can be amicably worked out between the two. They can even have joint outings & holidays together. This way the children will not lose out on either of their parents' love. Or if Dev doesn't want to lose Sona , they can live together as a nuclear family close to the Dixit house. This way they can keep a protective watch over Ishwari & see to her needs too & visit her often. This is actually an ideal solution to stop Ishwari 's excessive interference in their personal space & let everyone ( including Ishwari) live their life but for that Dev has to first cut off his mother's apron strings.😅😅 Ishwari can keep herself occupied doing some social work. This will make her independent emotionally (from her dependence on Dev) & open a new world full of possibilities for her. She might even appreciate Sona more.

Bold part: How can one argue , fight or settle things when the other person isn't willing to listen to you even when you share all your feelings with him or he walks out in the middle of a fight / argument because he cannot listen to the bitter truth. Sona has tried so many times to share her fears & concerns with him but he barely hears them or even if he hears them, he brushes it aside them each time resulting in Sona feeling even more frustrated or he walks out in the middle of their conversation/ argument like he did in today's episode.🤢


Agree with this!

I loved preleap Dev with all his flaws, I loved post leap Dev who finally figured things out and started balancing his life.

I don't know about this Dev. Blatantly disregarding Sona's feelings just to keep his mother happy, manipulating a child instead of standing up for him. This Dev is really hard to like.

Dev/Shaheer's fans are all over social media talking about Sona doesn't understand, Poor Dev is trying to understand and balance everyone, but he himself is so alone.. but it's quite ridiculous. There are situations where he should balance, like the first episode, poha vs Paratha at the dining table.

This is not a situation to sit on the fence and balance. He himself knows very well his mother was wrong. If he can't support her here also, then really what's the point of having a partner?

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