Mithai মিঠাই Discussion Thread #2- Mithayi belongs to one n only Sid - Page 105

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Saw the episode:

What caught my extra attentive mind, apart from which is already said:-

1st -Tess and Som da color co-ordinated, white and black😆

2nd - Sid's dialogue, "ami koto gorbo kore bollam je Mithai natural dancer"

well, kar gorbo? keno gorbo😆

3rd - When Ratul said abt Husband's adhikaar, how come Sid looked okay, ekbar o bollo na, na seta imp noe, its nt abt husband-wife. He is already deeply into the game, not in any position to determine between fake n real

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For me best scene was when Sid caught running Mit with full on adhikaar

Precap- Loved the precap. I loved how Mithai took stand for herself. I feel, there s nothng wrong in accepting ur limitation. Sabai sab pare na. There shld nt be any shame in accepting that. If Mit says, I cant dance, but I can make Sweets, i feel its perfectly okay. I can understand Sid's POV. Tess was insulting in such a lowly manner, what can he do. I agree with Sandy here.

@Red.. I agree with this.. You're right sobai sob parena.. But what if situation arises?? Should we escape saying "Ami parinaa" ?? Sandy was right.. Tess was insulting Sid Mithai both.. Like Sid said, Couple Dance er kotha chhilo na but Tess nijei ei issue ta raise kore insult korte thake.. Sid er kache kono option chhilona.. Coz he knows Tess won't just let go..

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

@Red.. I agree with this.. You're right sobai sob parena.. But what if situation arises?? Should we escape saying "Ami parinaa" ?? Sandy was right.. Tess was insulting Sid Mithai both.. Like Sid said, Couple Dance er kotha chhilo na but Tess nijei ei issue ta raise kore insult korte thake.. Sid er kache kono option chhilona.. Coz he knows Tess won't just let go..

Can she pickup such steps in such a short period of time? What if she cant. Then she wll be point of all humiliating comments by Tess. Does she really need that?

I feel, Sid do have right to comment on behalf of Mit, he also has right to accept challenge, but this wll only mean, whenevr somebdy challenges, its weak point of Sid. He needs to work on his weak point. Mithai is right in accepting her weak point, Sid also needs to accept the fact that it doesnt matter who says what, the point is to act smart, not according to somebdy else's wishes.

Sid needs a growing up here. I feel at the end of these challenges, Sid wll grow up and will not accept challenge just for the sake of it.

****bhaut gyaan die dilam😆********

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

@Red.. I agree with this.. You're right sobai sob parena.. But what if situation arises?? Should we escape saying "Ami parinaa" ?? Sandy was right.. Tess was insulting Sid Mithai both.. Like Sid said, Couple Dance er kotha chhilo na but Tess nijei ei issue ta raise kore insult korte thake.. Sid er kache kono option chhilona.. Coz he knows Tess won't just let go..

@bold: Sid's attitude is rather childish in my opinion. Just because somebody insults us or challenges us saying you can't do this, do we leave all our work to fulfil that challenge? Why give that much importance to Tess in the first place? Just plain ignore her. There could be no slap on the face bigger than that.

Today she has said "Oh you cant couple dance" tmrw she will say "Oh you can't fly planes". Will Sid leave his job at PCG and enrol himself in a flight training course?

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

I feel, Sid do have right to comment on behalf of Mit, he also has right to accept challenge, but this wll only mean, whenevr somebdy challenges, its weak point of Sid. He needs to work on his weak point. Mithai is right in accepting her weak point, Sid also needs to accept the fact that it doesnt matter who says what, the point is to act smart, not according to somebdy else's wishes.

****bhaut gyaan die dilam😆********

@bold: Extremely well said. Anybody can get Sid to do anything saying "Sid you can't do

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

@bold: Extremely well said. Anybody can get Sid to do anything saying "Sid you can't do

Not sure why my earlier post is getting cut no matter what I do

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

Learning new things even it's a couple dance or wearing fashionable clothes doesn't mean Mithai will become like Tess.. Coz ultimately your behavior, thinking, outlook to life, respect for people these are the things that decides what king of a person you are..

And from all these aspects Sid has already accepted Mithai, not Tess.. Sid has changed too coz of Mithai.. Mithai fell in love with The Siddharth Modak who was rude, arrogant, the one who pushed her out of the room on their 1st night, never bothered about his siblings.. But is he still the same person now?? No..

He has changed a lot.. He even took the Fish challenge even though it wasn't necessary.. But does these changes turned him into someone like Rajib Mitra?? A chhaposha grihosti?? Nope.. He's still Siddharth Modak..

Similarly Mithai will still remain Mithai even if she learns couple dance or learns to use knife n fork or wear a western outfit at some party..

See it's not about Mithai learning the things in the first place. Couple of points to be made.

1. It's not about learning new things. It's about thrusting things upon Mit as per Sid's whims and fancies. This is absolutely wrong.
2. One of the things Mit strongly stands by is "amader nijer jinish er kodor amra korina, shudhu bideshi jinish er pechone chhute berai". Forcing Mit to do western couple dance is backtracking on exactly this thought, against Mit's principles. The reason Tess said this, was out of contempt for the way Mit dances (komor dolano and all that). Do you not feel that by compelling Mit to do Tess-like dance is in some way conforming to Tess's thought, exactly opposite to what Mit believes?
3. Mit should definitely learn and grow. But NEVER EVER to prove a point to someone. Specially not to somebody as insignificant and irrelevant as Tess.

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

What I'm saying the situation wasn't right here.. Sandy said it.. Tess was insulting Sid n Mithai left, right center..

And as for challenge didn't Sid went out of his comfort zone n took up the Fish challenge coz he was poked to do so?? Was it necessary for him to prove himself?? No it wasn't n yet he did.. So why can't Mithai go out of her comfort zone n prove herself??

@bold: No, it was absolutely not necessary for him to do that. But he doesn't know that and that is why he did it. And that is precisely the problem. He does not know where to draw the line when it comes to challenges. His fragile male ego falls to pieces every time somebody challenges him.

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Can she pickup such steps in such a short period of time? What if she cant. Then she wll be point of all humiliating comments by Tess. Does she really need that?

I feel, Sid do have right to comment on behalf of Mit, he also has right to accept challenge, but this wll only mean, whenevr somebdy challenges, its weak point of Sid. He needs to work on his weak point. Mithai is right in accepting her weak point, Sid also needs to accept the fact that it doesnt matter who says what, the point is to act smart, not according to somebdy else's wishes.

Sid needs a growing up here. I feel at the end of these challenges, Sid wll grow up and will not accept challenge just for the sake of it.

****bhaut gyaan die dilam😆********

I'm not going into any more arguments n already IG teo sob jaygay same debate cholche 😂 Just one point..

@Red.. Mithai did picked up Rabindra Nritya in one day (that too a whole dance) during Saraswati Puja.. And she did once said to Sid that she is a quick learner .. So I'm guessing Sid was confident that she would pick up the steps coz she's a natural dancer..

I'm neutral pehle hi bol diya 😐🤣

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

What I'm saying the situation wasn't right here.. Sandy said it.. Tess was insulting Sid n Mithai left, right center..

And as for challenge didn't Sid went out of his comfort zone n took up the Fish challenge coz he was poked to do so?? Was it necessary for him to prove himself?? No it wasn't n yet he did.. So why can't Mithai go out of her comfort zone n prove herself??

Listen even Mit did all those. but the topic Sid still hasn't accepted Mit. Acc to her all Sid is doing is for the challenge. All she says is If He Can't accept her as she is why Will she try to change.. Sid has to confess. And Yes It's a missunderstanding. Mit loves Sid and she didn't realise that He does too.. when she will realise she Will do everything and it's not she doesn't do it now