Mithai মিঠাই Discussion Thread #2- Mithayi belongs to one n only Sid - Page 104

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The new precap is out and I love it! I was feeling a little ambivalent about Sid and Ratul forcing Mithai to dance their style, but seeing Mithai take a stand for herself is so so relieving

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

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The new precap is out and I love it! I was feeling a little ambivalent about Sid and Ratul forcing Mithai to dance their style, but seeing Mithai take a stand for herself is so so relieving

Too many debates happening on IG based on this precap.. Some are saying Mithai is right n some are saying there's nothing wrong in learning new things n upgrading yourself so that she can give it back to people who insults her at every step like Tess n Som..

I'm waiting for Sid's reply..

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

Too many debates happening on IG based on this precap.. Some are saying Mithai is right n some are saying there's nothing wrong in learning new things n upgrading yourself so that she can give it back to people who insults her at every step like Tess n Som..

I'm waiting for Sid's reply..

@bold: Definitely agree with this. But it cannot/should not be thrusted upon her, specially using an excuse like "husband's adhikaar"

@green: She doesn't have to become one of Tess or Som to give it back to them, no? Naysayers will be there at every step, but should you become one of them to prove yourself right?

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

@bold: Definitely agree with this. But it cannot/should not be thrusted upon her, specially using an excuse like "husband's adhikaar"

@green: She doesn't have to become one of Tess or Som to give it back to them, no? Naysayers will be there at every step, but should you become one of them to prove yourself right?

Green- exactly.. You don't have to be one of your opponent to give it back to them.

Yes one should learn new things. But shobai ke je shob jante hobe tar kono maane nei. If Sid wants to accept Mit it should be because of her and his feelings not because she has changed or something.

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

@bold: Definitely agree with this. But it cannot/should not be thrusted upon her, specially using an excuse like "husband's adhikaar"

I agree with this part too.. Actually if you see both are right from their POV.. The situation is wrong here.. Sid wants to educate Mithai for her own good, unlike Dadai who wanted to educate Mithai to make her Sid's jogyo life partner.. Sid knows Mithai is talented n he is a person who always believes education is important.. Same rule applies for dance..

But the situation went out of hand due to constant poking from Tess 🙄 Mithai gainyaan, geon bhoot, Sid'er jogyo noy, these types of insults needs to stop..

Saw the episode:

What caught my extra attentive mind, apart from which is already said:-

1st -Tess and Som da color co-ordinated, white and black😆

2nd - Sid's dialogue, "ami koto gorbo kore bollam je Mithai natural dancer"

well, kar gorbo? keno gorbo😆

3rd - When Ratul said abt Husband's adhikaar, how come Sid looked okay, ekbar o bollo na, na seta imp noe, its nt abt husband-wife. He is already deeply into the game, not in any position to determine between fake n real

☺️

For me best scene was when Sid caught running Mit with full on adhikaar

Precap- Loved the precap. I loved how Mithai took stand for herself. I feel, there s nothng wrong in accepting ur limitation. Sabai sab pare na. There shld nt be any shame in accepting that. If Mit says, I cant dance, but I can make Sweets, i feel its perfectly okay. I can understand Sid's POV. Tess was insulting in such a lowly manner, what can he do. I agree with Sandy here.

Originally posted by: shivay23

Green- exactly.. You don't have to be one of your opponent to give it back to them.

Yes one should learn new things. But shobai ke je shob jante hobe tar kono maane nei. If Sid wants to accept Mit it should be because of her and his feelings not because she has changed or something.

@bold: Absolutely, he should fall for her because of who she is and should want to improve her only for her betterment. Not because of chanellges with irrelevant people like Tess.

Learning new things even it's a couple dance or wearing fashionable clothes doesn't mean Mithai will become like Tess.. Coz ultimately your behavior, thinking, outlook to life, respect for people these are the things that decides what king of a person you are..

And from all these aspects Sid has already accepted Mithai, not Tess.. Sid has changed too coz of Mithai.. Mithai fell in love with The Siddharth Modak who was rude, arrogant, the one who pushed her out of the room on their 1st night, never bothered about his siblings.. But is he still the same person now?? No..

He has changed a lot.. He even took the Fish challenge even though it wasn't necessary.. But does these changes turned him into someone like Rajib Mitra?? A chhaposha grihosti?? Nope.. He's still Siddharth Modak..

Similarly Mithai will still remain Mithai even if she learns couple dance or learns to use knife n fork or wear a western outfit at some party..

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

Learning new things even it's a couple dance or wearing fashionable clothes doesn't mean Mithai will become like Tess.. Coz ultimately your behavior, thinking, outlook to life, respect for people these are the things that decides what king of a person you are..

And from all these aspects Sid has already accepted Mithai, not Tess.. Sid has changed too coz of Mithai.. Mithai fell in love with The Siddharth Modak who was rude, arrogant, the one who pushed her out of the room on their 1st night, never bothered about his siblings.. But is he still the same person now?? No..

He has changed a lot.. But does these changes turned him into someone like Rajib Mitra?? A chhaposha grihosti?? Nope.. He's still Siddharth Modak..

Similarly Mithai will still remain Mithai even if she learns couple dance or learns to use knife n fork or wear a western outfit at some party..

You are getting our point wrong. Offcourse Mit should learn all those but The Thing is The way Sid says. It's his ways. If she learns all this for her own self than it's good and They should also dance as they both want it not because some Tyash bori gave challenge.

Originally posted by: shivay23

You are getting our point wrong. Offcourse Mit should learn all those but The Thing is The way Sid says. It's his ways. If she learns all this for her own self than it's good and They should also dance as they both want it not because some Tyash bori gave challenge.

What I'm saying the situation wasn't right here.. Sandy said it.. Tess was insulting Sid n Mithai left, right center..

And as for challenge didn't Sid went out of his comfort zone n took up the Fish challenge coz he was poked to do so?? Was it necessary for him to prove himself?? No it wasn't n yet he did.. So why can't Mithai go out of her comfort zone n prove herself??