Sai Joshi is hurting, can someone help?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: msin

yes !!! She had 3 incidents where she could break away fro virat .. one was the most horrendous when he threw her out of the house .. she should have steeled her heart and not fought for her right to take care of for him with pakhi .. why didn’t she think of pakhi’s pain then ..???

After she took cate of him .. and was leaving the house .. virat stopped her .. by then she had heard the conversation between pakhi n virat .. given it her conclusion.. she should have steeled her heart and moved out .. telling virat clearly that there’s is a deal marriage .. you have no right to stop me .. as I don’t consider u my husband.. virat had also clearly told her he will never enforce his right on her .. ( jeep ride back home ) which he never followed .. right from the first day of marriage ..

3) after her accident when pulkit was taking her back .. virat stopped her and she stayed back ..

I agree virat has hurried the matter .. it was a bad idea to celebrate the anniversary in such a public way .. he could have guaged the matter by seeing her mood .. he had already got her on a holiday.. they could have just gone for dinner on their own .. and he could have told her happy anniversary.. he wants to make the marriage real .. what was the need for getting Sunny n Mohit there ..

How would it have been a honeymoon.. he had already given her a surprise birthday party .. there was no need of such a grand surprise.. ..

That manhandling time also she wanted to leave. Tab bhi nikal jaana chahiye tha.

Then as you mentioned after getting ousted by him, why even play the "I am the patni I have the right to take care of him bakwaas."

Then when Virat refused to agree that he had a past with Pakhi.

Then when she had her accident, apparently because of him. She almost died because of him toh phir kya kar rahi ho uske saath ?

Virat toh I feel like he needs to get chappals from people. Both annoyed me today. 🤣

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That manhandling time also she wanted to leave. Tab bhi nikal jaana chahiye tha.

Then as you mentioned after getting ousted by him, why even play the "I am the patni I have the right to take care of him bakwaas."

Then when Virat refused to agree that he had a past with Pakhi.

Then when she had her accident, apparently because of him. She almost died because of him toh phir kya kar rahi ho uske saath ?

Virat toh I feel like he needs to get chappals from people. Both annoyed me today. 🤣

problem is Sunny n Mohit diluted the atmosphere.. virat had his mask on in front of his friends if she had shouted at him like this one to one .. then virat would not have kept quiet .. he would have blurted a lot more .. like he does in room .. maybe a few more hometruths could have been spoken ..

they seriously need to split from each other .. some time out is needed .. to see whether they are better off without each other or together

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

When Virat questioned Sai about what she was doing with Ajinkya in their room, we all went mad and rightly bashed him. Then how is it fine for her to say that he is using both the girls ? 🤔 Isn't it also kind of questioning his character ? Didn't he say no matter what he won't have anything else than friendship with didi because she is his brother's wife. Us hisaab se hi toh she shouldn't have said something like this. She actually thinks so low of him that he will have that kind of relationship caring a damn about his brother. Let's not forget she even called him khilona in the past too. If he is such a person like she thinks he is then yeah best option for her is to leave him. And if she needs him financially I am sure he will still help her even if she decides to leave because that's what he always wanted do even before she tried to commit suicide.

My point exactly. Is he fooling both the women ? and sai has such a low opinion of him then she shouldn't be doing anything for him nor live with him .The questions needs to be asked, pakhi or me, what about vaada , why is pakhi waiting , why does pakhi taunt us ,but virat doesn't answer , that's another mystery 🤯 its demeaning to him but.he chooses not to clear the air. Does he want sai to love him with pakhi as a package or what 😆Or does he want sai to love him forgetting that there is a pakhi , there was a pakhi?

After today's episode anytime virat would be confused to tell her about his love ..bec pakhis feelings holds more weight than virat or sai ki feelings...virat se zyada toh sai vaada vaada karti rahegi . Kahin nikal na pade sautan se Milan karane. The typical itv bahu trope.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

When Virat questioned Sai about what she was doing with Ajinkya in their room, we all went mad and rightly bashed him. Then how is it fine for her to say that he is using both the girls ? 🤔 Isn't it also kind of questioning his character ? Didn't he say no matter what he won't have anything else than friendship with didi because she is his brother's wife. Us hisaab se hi toh she shouldn't have said something like this. She actually thinks so low of him that he will have that kind of relationship caring a damn about his brother. Let's not forget she even called him khilona in the past too. If he is such a person like she thinks he is then yeah best option for her is to leave him. And if she needs him financially I am sure he will still help her even if she decides to leave because that's what he always wanted do even before she tried to commit suicide.

@ bold

Virat was so wrong questioning sai as ajinkya & sai were classmates/friends only.... NOT 'yoga wala' love birds!

IMHO - what ever sai said about playing with two girls emotions... he is doing it, indeed!

He never gave closure to PP in public.... he never accepted his past with her and clarified... patralekha vahini, I am so sorry for all these mess & emotional distress you went through.. ... what ever it was between us, is over the day you married samrat.

Please don't hurt/drag sai in this mess.... That promise I gave you in heat of the moment at your wedding... I take it back / break it... I thought it was love....but not....after... sai came in my life... I understood.. what love is....

Virat asked pp to move on couple times in starting....

however on other side... he was running in her bedroom at middle of night, was giving her those puppy looks..., was favoring her over sai always, was like a devdaas.., allowed her in all his personal decisions/talks, kept calling her 'pakhi', owed pp clarification when ever he did something for sai (why????), never brought up past - was so guarding pp's feeling (never thought once before hurting sai or his own aai feeling), and so on!!!!!

Brilliant post 👏

Completely agree with you

Thing is Virat has clarified everything without taking Pakhi's name and saying clearly she doesn't matter. She is only his brother's wife. He has to tell her. But now he won't because Sai is not willing to take even one step ahead.

Sai is insecure... she's not really stupid. She keeps telling him...you can't have a relationship with me, without clarifying about Pakhi...to me and to her.

According to me, that's the main clarification she is waiting for, to move forward. The reason for mentioning Sai has forgiven him so many times is not to establish her as a Goddess, it's more to explain that she keeps coming back to him because she loves him.

Saare fasaad ki jadd Pakhi hai.

Neil also mentioned in his live...ki Virat and Pakhi will have to give clarifications.

Does Virat remember his wedding day. A 19 yr old who has just lost her world, who is being told by her husband, right after taking the wedding vows that he is committed to someone else, he is marrying her to just keep his promise to her father and that she should not expect anything from. Can he imagine the hurt Sai might have felt. And added to that he wanted her to make Pakhi her guide and mentor. Of course she is not going to give her heart to you only to get it crushed. Virat keeps saying she should understand his unspoken words, then how come he does not see the hurt and doubts she has about his relationship with Pakhi? Writers please address these issues. Show their feelings in some monologues or discussions.

My heart goes out to this girl who's just 19 years old, doesn't have anyone around her who will listen to her, understand her and guide her. All the relationships she has are connected to her husband and they have a biased view of things because even they're not in the know of the full picture regarding Virat's past.

Sai has never experienced love before. A 19 year old deserves to have those first brushes of love, butterflies in the tummy, that excitement. Instead she has been thrown into a marriage with a person who expects her to understand things that are beyond her age. Besides that, she has to put up with the horrible beings at CN who are out to make her life hell. Add to it the taunts by this horrible human being who happens to be her husband's ex.

Where will she go? Who will she confide in? Who will listen to her perspective? All of this just results in frustration that she took out on Virat in yesterday's episode. Some words justified, some not.

Originally posted by: Soanz.19

My heart goes out to this girl who's just 19 years old, doesn't have anyone around her who will listen to her, understand her and guide her. All the relationships she has are connected to her husband and they have a biased view of things because even they're not in the know of the full picture regarding Virat's past.

Sai has never experienced love before. A 19 year old deserves to have those first brushes of love, butterflies in the tummy, that excitement. Instead she has been thrown into a marriage with a person who expects her to understand things that are beyond her age. Besides that, she has to put up with the horrible beings at CN who are out to make her life hell. Add to it the taunts by this horrible human being who happens to be her husband's ex.

Where will she go? Who will she confide in? Who will listen to her perspective? All of this just results in frustration that she took out on Virat in yesterday's episode. Some words justified, some not.

Same here..this one has been treated like a second fiddle to Virat not by just CN niwasis...but by Virat himself..I feel bad for her when in think she would have to deduce that Virat loves her..all alone .with no one by her side to tell her whats going on went wrong..

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Thing is Virat has clarified everything without taking Pakhi's name and saying clearly she doesn't matter. She is only his brother's wife. He has to tell her. But now he won't because Sai is not willing to take even one step ahead.

Sai is insecure... she's not really stupid. She keeps telling him...you can't have a relationship with me, without clarifying about Pakhi...to me and to her.

According to me, that's the main clarification she is waiting for, to move forward. The reason for mentioning Sai has forgiven him so many times is not to establish her as a Goddess, it's more to explain that she keeps coming back to him because she loves him.

Saare fasaad ki jadd Pakhi hai.

Neil also mentioned in his live...ki Virat and Pakhi will have to give clarifications.

@bold exactly and isn’t it the right thing to do? I don’t see anything wrong in this expectation.

@green 😲😕