Is Pallavi really that wrong? - Page 4

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Every time I watch an Indian movie with a scene with alcohol there’s a warning about how alcohol ( over use) can be harmful or some such thing... I always thought of it as kinda silly.

I’m sure they mean it as a deterrent .

But I’ve never seen that warning/disclaimer/whatever come on for MHRW. I wonder why.

Raghav drinks too much. I mean a shot or two is ok but they show him *completely wasted* many times and that’s not OK imho.

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

You are right in a way you know. The forum is bashing Pallavi too much.

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As for Raghav. I completely agree that he should be working to defeat Mandaar in his usual cool way but the fact here stands however much he is more proficient at playing mind games it had always been from a business point of view. Never so personal, emotional or close to home.

Raghav's problem lies in the fact that he isn't so secure of the affection he receives. His traumatic childhood added with his former piercing loneliness perhaps makes him more clingy to the little bit love he receives more than that could be called normal.

He is unable to face even the remotest possibility that Pallavi might be taken from him. Maybe that is why he overreacts a wee bit more than he should. Its a mental and emotional mess of a situation to be in. These feelings might be new for him. Any other man might have felt more jelousy than insecurity in this situation.

I cannot condone that drunken act he did in front of D house however much heart breaking that was and Ketan outdid himself. That man is going on like he has declared a war on his liver.

Other than that like I always say, horrible writing and utter destruction of their initial characterization.

Originally posted by: ..sur..

I know Pallavi is wrong but what if this Mandaar was genuine and what if Pallavi feels that it is like her last karz of the Ds which she has to repay?

The point is for once let's look at it from her POV.

Repay as in?? from pallavi 's POV she thinks mandaar is genuine and a nice guy and she has once upon a time dreamnt a life with him, agreed....even if we consider that..

There were lot of red flags which she conveniently ignored..that also I am ready to give benefit of doubt, because by nature she is too giving and forgiving...she has been vocal about being Raghav's wife so her concious is clear and hence she feels others will also understand her intentions..

But then she has moved on in life and she is head over heel in love with raghav who is her legal husband too, so like any husband he too has some desires, wishes and needs and now being Raghav's wife she has some basic responsibilities towards him which is she not thinking about, not keeping in loop , forgetting the big day in his life etc ...she is kind of giving false hopes and wrong indication to people around her that mandaar is her priority at the moment and she will be there for him always ..she is being ignorant of Raghav's pain and heart break..she is being insensitive towards raghav , in trying to help mandaar..had she balanced between both...may be people would have sympathized with her but by always choosing may be unintentionally mandaar over raghav..she looks Unrelatable...

I love ❤️ what you wrote.

Originally posted by: ..sur..

No, what Pallavi need is guidance and love. She is being gaslighted in the name of her mayka and she can't see it. In a relationship if one is being dumb the other has to be intelligent for both of them. Like I said, Raghav has to be smart here and play much better mind games

Poor Pallavi !!.

She is shown to be an orphan and when she married Mandar she felt the parental love in form of aai baba. VD might not be in good terms with her today but before Raghav created mess and VD showed her the door , he treated her like his daughter. And when she got the parental love from them , she started treating D house as her own. And offcourse Mandar is a good person according to her.

These factors make her do overboard in doing things for the deshmukhs. She is smart but she is a emotional person as well . Somewhere still she considers VD as her father. A father can be rude, inhumane but a daughter would always care for him as Pallavi is doing now! ( I Hate VD though) . Smartness can go for a toss if your emotions start overpowering them , like in case of both Raghav and Pallavi .

Today feeling so sad after seeing Raghvi. Both come together as soon as possible and sort out their problems between them. Want to see Raghvi back.

To your question. No Pallavi isnt wrong.

She wasnt told about the challenge so she never got to know of the madness and evil of Mandar. She is discovering it, will get to the truth. But right now she cant alone be blamed for the mess they are in.

Originally posted by: Owia

Poor Pallavi !!.

She is shown to be an orphan and when she married Mandar she felt the parental love in form of aai baba. VD might not be in good terms with her today but before Raghav created mess and VD showed her the door , he treated her like his daughter. And when she got the parental love from them , she started treating D house as her own. And offcourse Mandar is a good person according to her.

These factors make her do overboard in doing things for the deshmukhs. She is smart but she is a emotional person as well . Somewhere still she considers VD as her father. A father can be rude, inhumane but a daughter would always care for him as Pallavi is doing now! ( I Hate VD though) . Smartness can go for a toss if your emotions start overpowering them , like in case of both Raghav and Pallavi .

Thank you! That's exactly what I'm trying to say. Ds are her family for better or for worse and her smartness has gone for a toss

Originally posted by: d.padmini

Repay as in?? from pallavi 's POV she thinks mandaar is genuine and a nice guy and she has once upon a time dreamnt a life with him, agreed....even if we consider that..

There were lot of red flags which she conveniently ignored..that also I am ready to give benefit of doubt, because by nature she is too giving and forgiving...she has been vocal about being Raghav's wife so her concious is clear and hence she feels others will also understand her intentions..

But then she has moved on in life and she is head over heel in love with raghav who is her legal husband too, so like any husband he too has some desires, wishes and needs and now being Raghav's wife she has some basic responsibilities towards him which is she not thinking about, not keeping in loop , forgetting the big day in his life etc ...she is kind of giving false hopes and wrong indication to people around her that mandaar is her priority at the moment and she will be there for him always ..she is being ignorant of Raghav's pain and heart break..she is being insensitive towards raghav , in trying to help mandaar..had she balanced between both...may be people would have sympathized with her but by always choosing may be unintentionally mandaar over raghav..she looks Unrelatable...

Ok agree to everything but Pallavi doesn't know about Mandar right but Raghav does. He knows Mandar is a creep who is behind his wife and by creating this either and or situation he is letting him win.

If we want Pallavi to be sensitive, to understand Raghav's desires and needs then shouldn't Raghav be sensitive

He knows and he can see how much hold the Ds have on Pallavi that she easily gets influenced by them. Her smartness goes for a toss when it comes to Ds but still he is not being clever about it. Why not play it clever and beat Mandaar in his own game?
Remember during Sunki engagement, how cleverly Pallavi postponed their engagement because she knew that at that time Raghav was blind in his sister's love and won't listen to any logic or truth. Similarly, right now Raghav needs to be the clever one.

Originally posted by: d.padmini

Couldn't agree more..... to the point explanation n reasonings 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Was going to dish out the same kind of response in different words😅.....but same notions.

Originally posted by: ..sur..

Ok so I Understand everything you have said and I agree too but I still think we are going overboard with the Pallavi bashing especially calling her a trash character and how she does not deserve Raghav. Such constant bashing is what prompted me to make this post

I agree raising questions on her character and calling her trash is going below the belt.

She is being completely dumb by wearing those Deshmukh rose tinted glasses for sure. She isn't listening or giving importance to things which are in plain sight of her becz of her so called belief in her mayka. Her meek actions and being ignorant are causing the chaos in viewers.