Originally posted by: TrollikaDevi
In this case being unconscious and ending up in a situation where you could get raped is a big deal yes. It's self destructive. She had agency there. She was not being conned by the men she hooked up with. She didn't end up in that situation out of nowhere.
But you were talking about sleeping around specifically ,not rape. . You talked about casual sex with strangers and I was addressing that.
I'm addressing casual sex from the perspective of general indian audience.
Even if its rape, people here won't have a problem if the girl married him at the end of the day. There was a real life case where a guy stalked this girl (we knew both), she was raped and then murdered by him. There were people who were saying. "murder karne ki kya zaroorat thi.. rape hi kiya tha toh shaadi kara dete" 🤢
That's the mentality and it happens (panchayat ruling marriage to the victim as punishment for the man) - woman is treated as an object and no one is thinking about her. Movies like Raja ki ayegi baraat, Benaam Badhshah. 🤢
I wonder, for many people if him being black was even noticed or seen that way. Or was it
Madhur may have intentionally put that scene and its perceived by different people differently. We don't know if she casually slept with him and doesn't remember or if she was sexually assaulted. It was never clarified.
Another question I have is, showing such a scene, does it make things like racism seem alright or is it just showing us how we as Indians as a majority see things?
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