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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sherikana

I think if Aditya wishes to stress that Malini means nothing more than a friend, then holding her hand when she pretended to feel faint was a VERY bad idea. He should have platonically held her elbow to guide her along, or even better let Imlie do it.


Adi got M home as a dost and is being polite and courteous, being human. They could have shown him escorting her by the elbow, but that is too early as Adi does not suspect anything. Thinks he is helping her.


He wanted to escort her as she was feeling weak.. if Imlie had gone, then she may have protested.. or fallen again forcing Adi to lift her up in his armas. I would rather he just hold her hand.😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: shalu79

Precap mein Imliya tray leke BBS ke kamre mein ja rahi thi..

Ye roz jati hogi na.. we can assume ye daily routine hai inka🤣

hume dikha te nahi hai

When the tray crashed, how cooly Adi was asking kya hua🤣..


Finally we got darshan of Imlie taking a tray to Adi's room

Waise he must be taking tea.. what is this with roti sabzi in the morning??? For Dd?

Agar chai ka cup tootha, it would have been more realisitc.

Adi's reaction is priceless and waiting for the epi to air.. it will be worth to see his face and Imlie looked very hurt and disappointed ( hope it was with Dd) not with Adi.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Gadda daal fees, hum aawat hai.

Thanks Nim for starting the thread today.

Aaj ka episode was to show the difference between innocent love and manipulation. It was to show simple humanity v/s genuine saath. It showed how despite everything, some people never change, be it Imlie, Adi or Malini.

  • Today was day 1 of Malini trying to "win" over her soon to be ex-husband and lines were crossed, but unfortunately the people involved were completely unaware of it. It started when Imlie ran to the door going "mera piya ghar aaya" and went to hold her Malini didi's hand, who subtly pulled out, showing her emotional distancing as well. See Malini reminds me of a typical single child who suddenly has faced the prospect of a sibling at a very older age. That jealousy and anger of having to share your favorite possession often overpowers the logic that on the other side is your own flesh and blood, who you are bound by nature. Malini wants to ignore Imlie's good side to justify her plan to win over Adi, which is why whenever Imlie shows her care and concern, it bothers Malini. How much ever I want to hate Malini, she is not completely devoid of a soul like AC. Hence even though following her mother's plan will give back her prized possession, Imlie is the curve ball that she cannot discount. It is like kicking the puppy because it wanted to play with you. While you may try to justify your action, saying that you do not want to entertain the animal, but you cannot ignore that all the puppy wants is your love and attention, and it is not the puppy's fault that you are removing your frustration on it. So no matter how hard she tries, Malini is going to get pangs of guilt seeing Imlie's love for her - everytime she hurts Imlie. That guilt is what is going to ultimately whitewash Malini, which is the situation I dread the most, but will happen to continue to keep Malini relevant to the story. Do we need her to keep the story going - ofcourse not. Do we have a choice - unfortunately not. Also, Malini's delusions keep building up to suit her purpose. Her ideas of an ideal marriage that only focused on the physical and showy aspects of the relation were what made her assume that Adi's basic humanity and care for an acquaintance on par with the attention you get from your husband. Adi having ignored her for so long in favor of Imlie has triggered this intense need for her to magnify every basic little action as something much more that it actually is. She wants to believe that Adi is showering her with all the attention she craved for him due to this plan, promptly ignoring the signs that he is doing this only out of sympathy for her health. These delusions will either expose her intentions, or dissolve with the truth, to the extent to finally get her over Adi. My bet will be on the former, but let us see how this plays out
  • Imlie wants to very badly hold on to the image of Malini she has built up in her head. She wants to put her on that pedestal for accepting Imlie as her sister and Adi's wife. She brushes off any sign that shows her Malini's true intentions as she does not want to face the fact of Malini being two-faced and lying to her. That is why despite her experience during the kidnapping track or even the subtle clues she got today, she refuses to recognize DD as someone who is currently manipulating the situation to get back Adi. Even with the precap, while she got a shock, I will not be surprised if she believes what Malini will say and just let it go. But my hope is that she recognizes that something is amiss and that she needs to read between the lines to really understand the current situation. While I do not expect Imlie to openly challenge Malini, I want her to atleast remind Malini that she is Adi's first wife and no matter what, she is not going to let go of her rights now. While I doubt that will happen, one can always hope. Her innocence and constant need to ensure that her sister is fine sometimes really worries me how she will feel when the truth actually does come out. Coz when it does, no matter how much they whitewash it, Imlie bharosa on relationships is going to take a very big hit. I hope that Adi is able to assure her with his constant support and pyaar, but DD's betrayal is going to really affect Imlie's psyche and trigger her insecurities enough to prompt her to leave again, despite whatever Adi does to prevent it.
  • Adi was, is and will always be clueless. This guy will ever come out of his basic delusion that people are beyond what they seem on the surface. Like how he is still unable to comprhend how his mom is not able to accept Imlie despite everything she has done, he is unable to pick up clues from Malini that she wants him to be more than a friend. See the issue with Adi has always been that except for Imlie, he has never scratched beneath the surface for anyone. People berating him for not pushing Malini to know the truth behind her apparent suicide attempt have forgotten how Malini herself had once lamented that Adi never showed woh haq wali zid to make her do something she did not want to do in the scene where he made Imlie drink the milk she had got for Malini. Adi is one who will push once or max twice before leaving that person, as he does not like to interfere too much - he did it even with Nishant, where it was Imlie who made him do the drama. Except for Imlie, he will never probe beyond the token enquiry expected out of him. Hence when Malini did not explain and just mentioned she felt alone, and AC insisted that she felt happy in the T house, bechara Adi assumed that she wanted to come there to spend time with Imlie and him, as Imlie will cure her of her depression. Gadha kahin ka. But the stuff that I really liked today was him clarifying at every point about his intentions towards Imlie - be it to his family, Malini or even Imlie herself. Him talking to her and making sure they were on the same page, him reminding his family that he no longer wants to discuss or allow anyone else to make him relive past memories to suit their purpose, or even elucidating his plans to revamp his room to make it suitable for Imlie and him together. Each action made sure that the other person cannot doubt his endgame - spending his life with Imlie. If they do not want to accept, it is their issue, but according to him, he has kept his promise of ensuring that Imlie gets the place she deserves in his life. I am sure that the incident shown in the precap will prompt another session between Adi & Imlie where he will assure her that she can trust him, to which she will give her affirmation. For once I want him to see beyond Imlie's token "I am fine" and really see that this has affected her and deal with it properly, but I doubt any such thing will happen.
  • Special call out to the Jr. T's especially Rupi di - her raising questions on Malini coming there and then wondering why AC allowed her to come despite she hating the T's was heartening to see. This gives me hope that team Imlie will be able to see Malini's karastanis even if Adile remain blind as a bat to her manipulations. I was a bit bothered on not hearing from PT on any of this, so looks like Aparna must have given him a warning based on last night's defense. Bechara ko ab thode time ke liye ya toh chup rakhenge ya token dialogues hi denge, till someone else flips. Also controversial opinion, but something tells me that the precap may shift something in Aparna. See currently Aparna also believes that Malini is this sacrificial devi who has given up her rights for her sister and can do no wrong. Seeing this side of Malini may raise conflicting emotions in Aparna. While she may want to be happy seeing Malini & Adi together, but seeing how it affects Imlie and the way this entire situation has been orchestrated, I have a feeling Aparna may start feeling some twinges of guilt. This may land up as the trigger to initiate Aparna's road to redemption. While I am all ready to be chopped, let us see how tomorrow pans out.

Kuch na likhne par bhi I landed up writing a very long essay, but today's conflicting opinions just prompted me to put my thoughts about each of the characters. Today's episode has made me feel better about this track, in the sense that it will have its share of cringe, but overall a lot of open loops will be closed.


Aps ..lovely WU as always.. 🤗


Highlighted some bits in bold...

M - She is ignoring Imlie's affection and respect, taking her for granted, showing her 'her place' in the family and in her life, going back on her promise to self, that she will ensure that Imlie gets all the haq.. from the Ts, from her family... society.. everyone.. She is so shallow that she cannot even fake concern for Imlie during Adi's kidnap.. and for her to start feeling bad now, is a bit far fetched. The WW is going to happen pucca.. and it is going to tire us all. No doubt.. Till then I will enjoy Dd ka Chop with popcorn. 🤣


I - She should react and show eyes at M and also at Adi. Adi is on the backfoot ever since he got his dost back home and he will have a convo with her.. this I am waiting to see.. now sab makers ke haath mein.. what they want to show us. Will Aparna see the effects of this on Imlie and will it impact her? Dunno and think it is too soon.. as she is bent on ignoring Imlie.


A - is clueless about Dd ka intentions.. hope he starts noticing her weird behavior when he is around and takes some steps.. gets KC home to meet her, that is a given.. we had BTS of KC in the T house.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MERARAI


AC targets her vendetta towards DEV at Imli. He can’t undo his past, Imli is a living breathing reminder of his betrayal. If his betrayal was unacceptable and she can’t forgive him, why even stay married to him? She wants to punish him for the rest of his life by targeting Imli.


Hatred has no logic.


Bingo Merarai! Bold - +100


This is the only way she can retaliate against Dev. All that pent up frustration of not knowing what has transpired in PD 20 years ago, has come to a head with Anu now being handed the perfect tool for revenge - Imlie. The fact that Imlie is utterly innocent and deserved none of this, makes no iota of difference to her.

She is just plain evil.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: _Seera_

Tent 🏕



Today moved the story in a direction where there is no return for everyone… all the actions have equal and opposite reactions… Aditya is already paying for his actions!! Now it’s Malinis turn.. to rip what she is going to sow..


Aparna, Radha and BK - All were reminded that Aditya is a man of substance! He was a mountain who was moved by Imlie.. now he will move mountains to be with his jhali! All accused and reminded Aditya how he has wronged Malini.. and he like a strong human being accepted that he did do wrong and he has apologized to malini and doesn’t want to repeat same mistakes with Imlie!!

If imlie was a cricket match.. aditya was Mahindra Singh Dhoni!! He made everything crystal clear to everyone!

Jr Ts have had their share of doubts.. and definitely asked right questions but how much that will impact overall trajectory of the series we can’t say…


Dev and Anu - One doesn’t have head and another doesn’t have heart. Tonight Dev judged Any correct.. told her she is using her own child as a pawn in her game and he at the same time tried to white wash Didi by saying it’s not her fault.. it’s Anu’s.. so we know after this how WW of golden bahu is going to be.. 😵‍💫🤮😵‍💫🤮😵‍💫🤮


malini - well all I can say is feminism is dead today.. she needed to feel loved by Aditya yeh konsa pyaar hai jo games khelke haasil kiya jayega?!?!? Her desperation is beyond me.. i think only imlie will know KCs truth.. and then things will get more interesting… Malini was also extremely rude towards imlie but saying stay in ur place.. but was ready to jump the gun n move in into Imlies place.. 🤷🏻‍♀️


Imlie is zoned in DD prem that she didn’t notice that Malinis behavior has been anything but friendly towards her. Malini has time n again given reason to imlie to question her behavior but imlie currently in her Didi prem is not questioning Malini… will it be stay after pre-cap?!?? I don’t think so.. imlie is observant.. she has picked up nuances that are very subtle and that’s why she was able to judge everyone and every reaction correctly! So I am sure after tomorrow imlie will keep an eye on Didi or directly question her..


Aditya - today’s hero was Aditya from shutting everything down from the past to making future plan with his jhali!

The way he described the reimagined room ohh my eyes were lit! Everything was for imlie… place for books n place for Sita Maiya! Jab Malini aayi thi kisi ne na poocha tha ki kya decor chahiye.. aur abhi Aditya is all set to do it for his love! 🥰😍🥰😍🥰😍


Few noteworthy lines and scenes -

1. Aditya saying jab humaari shaadi ki photo lag jayegi yeh kamra rukha nahi lagega.. symbolic in two ways… malini never added any color to his life as there is nothing that was changed post malini or pre malini but with just a sketch imlie will bring spring into BSs life…


2. jis banduk shaadi ko yaad karake Aditya gussa karta tha and aansu bahata tha.. aaj usko yaad karake muskurata hai!! 🥰😍🥰😍
Love changes u and how.. most depressing point in his life is the most precious to him now. ❤️

3. Aditya’s reaction after seeing malini was beyond scared.. he legit felt he saw a ghost! And he did sleep in one corner 😂
I want to see his apology tour after tomorrow’s kaand 😂


Thanks Nim for thread!


Lovely WU Seera 🤗


Loved the analogy of cricket and MSD here.


Anu has set the ball rolling and M is at a point of no return. As you said, there is an equal n opposite reaction. M stepping in thinking to right the wrong, but she is one wronging Adilie and leading Apu on, feeding her false hope. There is a difference being in the dark, to being deliberate about one's agenda. She knows what her mom did is wrong but still listened to her as she showed her a pic to win back Adi ka pyaar. The woman does not get that Adi was never interested in her since he realized his love for Imlie.

She has covered up multitude of her mom's sins, all of this is going to come back to haunt her. All her million apologies are not going to cut it. She is going to fall flat and going to have to pick up the pieces by herself as she has burned the bridge with KC as well. She does not need a crutch or to wear the label of Mrs. in order to move on in life. A lesson to be learnt by M the hard way.


I am waiting to see BBSB run after Imlie to apologize with M having the first row seat.. ... chop continues..

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Juvvi9

Gadda.. Will have to watch in FF mode😭

Thanks for the thread and badhiya WU nim ji🤗..

First things they got rid of those awful fake eyelashes mann.. Thank God.. Such a relief.. ST has got beautiful eyes without those fake lashes she looks so pretty..

Coming to the Episode.. Surprisingly good epi.. 👍🏼

With Adi ka dil dimag Duniya revolving around imlie DD really thinks she can win back Adi.. She treats him like a toy trophy ya koi bejaan cheez.. Lagi rahe.. Adi bhinkarya rahega iski chop..

Adi's chop session from start to end was good .. Imlie ka khayal is utmost concern for him n he knows his jhalli so well k no one will ever feel depressed in her company..

Apu n Radha lagi padi thi GB ki seva mei n thinking of patching her up again with Adi.. Kaise log hai ye zabardasti ki bhi limit hoti hai... Imlie ye sab baatein sun rahi hai hurt hogi n at some point of time looks like she's gonna leave.. Again Apu Radha try to bring in past n Adi ne jo Radha ko shut up karawaya.. Phir imlie kaha hai usko collg ko late ho raha hai.. He's got his priorities sorted..🤣 Dil ko thandak..

Phir bhaga banda biwi k paas.. Since bringing DD home till he talked with imlie in kitchen uske dimaag mei sirf yehi chal raha tha k imlie ki permission nahi li to hope she understands.. N waqai his jhalli understands n knows him more than himself

.. These type of convos we crave for magar bhaga dete hai.. Chalo aaj topic DD tha to didn't mind chotu sa..

Rest Dev se koi ummeed nahi hai nalayak tha hai rahega.. Anu being herself overconfident n bhadkaaoing her kam akal or i can say be akal daughter to get back into room n nonsense so DD yaha phir despo try marte hue aur Adi yaha phir DD k despo sapno ko choor karte hue apne future with imlie k starting point that is naqsha badaln hai kamre ka...DD ki shakal dekhne layak thi.. N end mei she is again back to her pendulum state.. Inse nahi ho payega.. They left that open with Dev ka statement also.. Whitewash nirma wala karenge ye DD ko..

Precap.. Let's see what happens but the way imlie ne apni aankhein jhuka li.. Awww. She was hurt n sharminda.. 🥺

On side note.. Adi k kamre ki konsi deewar was DD referring to ki kitni khali hogayi hai?? 🤣I don't find a single wall without frames bhari padhi hai saari deware frames se iske kamre mei🤣

Bold : yes that was a bit daft, Adi's room is overloaded with stuff on the wall, mostly rubbish to my eyes. His room needs a complete redecorate - get rid of dingy dirty brown walls and all the ghastly pictures, leave up stuff with Imlie and family including SK, Meethi and Prakash, and any of Adi's patrakar work, the rest are superfluous clutter. But his ideas for items for Imlie, the mandir, bookshelves and her drawing of their wedding, were great.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var


Adi got M home as a dost and is being polite and courteous, being human. They could have shown him escorting her by the elbow, but that is too early as Adi does not suspect anything. Thinks he is helping her.


He wanted to escort her as she was feeling weak.. if Imlie had gone, then she may have protested.. or fallen again forcing Adi to lift her up in his armas. I would rather he just hold her hand.😆

Not sure I have ever held a friend's hand in my life, especially not of a male friend! Not done as far too familiar.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sherikana

Not sure I have ever held a friend's hand in my life, especially not of a male friend! Not done as far too familiar.


Adi's intentions were noble here and it was purely offered to support her as she was feeling weak, being back from the hospital.


In some places, friends holding hands is frowned upon.. for sure.. for AM it was under different circumstances. The fact that M faked it is different as it shows her mentality and thinking. Taking advantage of a person's kindness and goodness.

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Posted: 4 years ago

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