Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #25| Flawed and (Still) Worthy - Page 68

What tadke waali daal is Sickand talking about. Maybe he doesn't know if you add Too much Hing to the tadka and roast it little longer the tadka becomes bitter. That is what is happening here. It is damn bitter.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Forced situations = bakwas episode = fast forward

1. What happened to raat gayi baat gayi? Din me 50 baar ILU bolne se kuchh nahi hoga if you can't sort such simple things out.. Yes simple. Pallavi should know that Raghav doesn't doubt her one bit ..Its Mandhar he doesn't trust and if that is the case why does he think that way? What about the 7 day challenge he was talking about? Yes she has the right to be pissed at him for not telling her about everything earlier BUT whatever happened was not THAT big a deal ...jitna dikha rahe hain.. stupid sad songs playing..Pallavi lost while cooking..bit too much..

2. Raghav - In my opinion, he is the one primarily responsible for whatever has happened including Pallavi moving to D house.. Instead of running behind her feeling guilty... do what is needed first. Show her the text, tell her about the challenge and THEN apologize for not sharing these details earlier. Tell her that she can be mad at him for as long as she wants but she has to trust him on this..

3. What the hell was he trying to do with Vijay ??? That man clearly was emotionally manipulating Pallavi by pretending to be all majboor and lachaar.. and Raghav just played into his hands by trying to humiliate him when he was already getting Pallavi's sympathy by pretending to be remorseful and all down and low?? Really? This was to time to ask him to wash his feet..Had he remained silent, maybe Pallavi would've had the courtesy to talk to him and Amma instead of stomping out like that. He literally pushed Pallavi out of the door.

Thank god Ayi and Amma are there to knock some sense into these two dodos. One is overtly emotional in the name of insaniyat and one is too hyper and impulsive to think rationally. But ab kya? Raita to fel gaya. Ab gao khidki pe khade hoke judai wale songs.

@ bold: I disagree about Raghav being primarily responsible but I agree with everything else you said for your #2 point. This may be an unpopular opinion here, and I'm willing to discuss with others about it & be open minded, but in general, I'm tired of everyone acting as if Pallavi isn't an adult who can't make her own decisions and doesn't have her own free will and agency.

Whether it's the characters deciding things for her (i.e. SKB & Raghav deciding if Pallavi should or should not go to D house - like what in the world was that. She was standing RIGHT THERE) or people on this forum saying she's being emotionally manipulated and thus shouldn't be "blamed" for her actions, I wish everyone would recognize that Pallavi is an adult woman who is capable of deciding things for herself.

You and only you can decide how you react to other people's actions & statements. You have to know yourself really well and be cognizant of the situation to really stop yourself from being manipulated. And even then, often as humans we let ourselves be emotionally manipulated by those we love because we give them that power over us, it's pretty natural. But just because someone is emotionally manipulated doesn't mean they're not responsible for their actions. We all have our own brains that we can use to think and decide whats best for ourselves.

I'm not saying its 100% her fault for thinking what she's thinking, but I'm also saying she has her own choices she can make and she chose what she chose. We can't "blame" that on anyone or anything but her.

I've been emotionally manipulated before, I know how it feels, I understand how it can happen without you realizing it. I looked back at myself and asked myself how I could have ever let that happen. My own family had asked me how I could ever let that happen because they would've never thought a woman who was educated, smart and successful (LOL NOT tooting my own horn but I hope the point makes sense) would ever let that happen to her. They would've never guessed in a million years that I would let someone who I was ready to marry do that to me. So I get that part of it. Of not recognizing when or how it started. But it never absolved me from the decisions I made during that time. And it could never, because in the end I still consciously made those decisions.

It doesn't of course mean she's not unforgivable or should be written off as a lost cause. Or should be bashed and trashed and dragged. But IMO, we need to hold characters responsible for their own decisions.

Yes Raghav was wrong to take it as far as he did in that moment, but Pallavi can choose to react that way or not. We get to decide for ourselves what we let affect us and influence our decisions. And even then, I get why she left at that moment. I don't even really blame her for that. A lot of it was her anger speaking. What really upset me was her accepting SKB vachan as if her mother was not also saying at the same time, you don't have to do this.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Filtering out everything else and just trying to focus on their equation:

Raghav aur Pallavi ki phone conversation 🥺🥺 kitne pyaare hain dono!

I was about to say this only

Highlight hai vo to 😒

Kl ka episode bhi kuch aisa hi hoga 😔 Mandaar and his suicide drama

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Pata nahi 🤣

Bas apna dil behla rahi hu😭😭

Leads ki itni stupidity bardashat nahi ho rahi 🥺🥺

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Yaar aaj to hadd ho ho gayi 😆 I dunno..I think Pallavi's anger at Raghav is a bit exaggerated. Yes she has the right to be mad.. But that kitchen scene was sooooo off with that stupid song.. I couldn't connect with her pain or hurt AT ALL.

One of them has to act braindead for the MU/separation to happen. Raghav is doing the honors. Aur kya? Pallavi's wellbeing should be his priority and for that he needs to make sure she listens to him, trusts him and what he has to say about Mandhar.. But harkatein aisi hi.. kya kare koi?

Vijay and that overbearing farzi Dr.Ramya..both need to jump off the cliff.

Kitchen scene mein toh main bohot hasi. Uska gussa valid hai, but yeh 'dard' ajeeb laga. I'd have preferred her to cut her finger because she's cutting veggies gusse mein or something, rather than this 'flashbacks of happy memories' waala random scene. Such bad screenplay. And all this for that lame dialogue of 'dard kam kaise karoge'

I know. Yaar, I know Pallavi is getting more flack for this. And it's not like woh deserve nahi karti. She needs to realize that duniya ka har bojh uske kandhon pe nahi hai, and she can't be so vulnerable to emotional manipulation. But yaar...Raghav is being a bigger idiot right now, no matter how I look at it. The response to Vijay was toh maha dumb, but forget that. Even on the phone when they were making up- he apologized for being insecure- ek baar bhi yeh nahi bola, ki listen, Mandaar called me, I'm worried about you, please stay alert and careful?? Kyun nahi bol raha?? I don't get it. Amma aa ke lecture de gayi on insecurities- Amma ko bol diya ki Mandaar accha nahi hai. Amma ko bhi details nahi bole? I don't understand, what is silencing him???

Here's how I see it- with Pallavi, I'm frustrated but I'm honestly more worried. Self preservation instincts hain hi nahi iss ladki mein, she's been ignoring red flags. I'm not angry at her for 'hurting Raghav' though. It's the kind of gussa which parents show on us when we do idiotic, self sabotaging things.

With Raghav, if his responses are stemming from insecurities, then I agree with Amma. Pallavi has made him very secure so far, and the rest is his baggage to deal with. She can support, but she can't do uske hisse ka emotional labour for him to get past his demons. But I am extremely sympathetic of how Pallavi's actions are triggering his fears and abandonment issues severely. I hope Amma also continues to guide him. If his responses are stemming from concern for Pallavi's well being, then I have no comments. He's just being dumb.

(Again- not to say Pallavi is being perfect here, but enough is said about her actions anyway, I don't feel the need to rehash)

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Filtering out everything else and just trying to focus on their equation:

Raghav aur Pallavi ki phone conversation 🥺🥺 kitne pyaare hain dono!

LOL at you directing sabka focus to the tiny cuteness aspect 🤣

Positivity ki dukaan 🤗

Sikku ain’t getting 2.0 this way 🤣 I only feel bad for him 😭

Raghvi ka kya hai, saath hi honge after 1-2 day. Kids! Making irrational mistakes, hurting and patching up 😆

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Kya yaar tum log o ko painfully beautiful episode accha nehi laga, kitne heartless ho.😆

Pallavi ne sabji nahi balki sikku ne tadka jala diya

Khane ka maja nahi a raha yaar 😭😭

Hamare taste buds jawab de gaye aaj toh 🥱

Tadke ke chakkar mein sikku daal banana hi bhool gaya 🤪

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

LOL at you directing sabka focus to the tiny cuteness aspect 🤣

Positivity ki dukaan 🤗

I do that for myself, so I do that for everybody else 😎