Story till now - Sonakshi - Page 2

Originally posted by: Doodle12

I didn't know that. is that mentioned in show. might've slipped. I thought he went to government school only.

That's why esh stole bangles to pay fees..😆

Originally posted by: Doodle12

I didn't know that. is that mentioned in show. might've slipped. I thought he went to government school only.

He went to govt school primary ,I remember one old man as teacher visiting in earlier episode

Originally posted by: Hari73

That's why esh stole bangles to pay fees..😆

Sona saved her from guilt , where as Ishuworry kept blaming Sona for every thing

😅😅😅

First time when a man can throw a lady out ( the very first time at hospital ) it is troublesome every time ot would repeat , there was only one way that was to escape , run away from that kind of a man & the entire thing there but “ Love is blind”

She still continued loving him got “ mad mansion”

A choice made by her ... fell for Ishu’s drama even that time Ishu was not agreeing her short comings she was telling she didn’t get enough time to adjust !

So she ate sleeping pills !

🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Hari73

Here sona struggle was not shown by makers. They were on street too, homeless. It was all sona responsibility to take care of sick grandma, parents n brother. On top of it she had critical pregnancy. Yes, education made lot difference and she could get back to normal life within few months.

I am not denying esh had difficult life. But she was not heart broken or cheated like sona. Sona was living lifeless life. For her Soha was only ray of hope. But esh had 4 children, dev was not only a ray of hope, but she chose dev n gave all amenities n let neha suffer. And let us not talk abt why she gave priority to dev. If she had given equal chance to neha in studies n all, it would hv been diff scenario. Instead of sending dev private school, she could send both neha n dev govt school. I cannot agree dev was only smart n intelligent child. If neha was given chance, may b even she would hv shined too.

And here discussion abt similarities betwn 2 mothers with respect to their children. Sona raised soha selflessly and esh raised dev for her own self reason. So for me no comparison at all.

On this point I disagree. Sona had the business investment in the startup that Dev had invested in. So there was hope for that business to start bringing in money relatively soon. They may not have had a house but they did have money in the bank and I doubt Dev would have cashed the cheque taking the money back. Also they had Jatin as well plus the support of the rest of her family. And frankly worse case scenario if she had severe financial issues for Soha's sake she had the potential to ask Dev for help. So she was in a better position than Ishwari although they both would have had their own struggles.

We may prefer Sona as a character over Ishwari but their situations were very different. And uneducated woman living in a patriarchal world with 4 young kids would not be a life I could easily cope with. Whereas having an education opens so many doors for women.

I understand the turmoil this character is in over the latest development regarding her children. I mean it's very difficult to grasp the fact that the daughter she called her own till date is not her own. On top of that the son who is hers... she's unable to connect with him a lot due to guilt. This is actually how normal human beings would act too... conscious, awkward and scared.

What I don't understand is how the father and the grandmother of the said "daughter" are trying to force the new dynamics on everyone...not just the mother. It baffles me to think that people can be so dense.

Soha's a very small child...who seemed to be pampered a lot by everyone...not just her mother. So when she sees a new boy getting attention more than her, sharing "her" things or people... she's bound to be angry. Aren't we all territorial? Though I don't condone what she did. She's bullying the boy...but this is due to the over flowing love her grandma is showering for the new boy. Her grandma's neglection towards her feelings. Was Suhana close to her grandmother?

Dev should have given the boy and his other family members some more days to adjust to the truth...he has forced everyone into mess without preparation. Did he listen to his mother and take this step so urgently? Also what's up with him gaslighting Sonakshi? Why does he keep blaming her for things even she is not responsible for? Like not bonding with Ayush enough, Soha locking up Ayush and heights was yesterday when he made her feel guilty for not knowing about his achievement! He stood her up, forgot about it, taunted her for talking to her father and guilt tripped her into saying sorry to him. The gaslighting in that scene was so smoothly done. It's the biggest red flag in a relationship actually. Sonakshi should ponder over this angle of her relationship with her husband.

Originally posted by: malikakas

On this point I disagree. Sona had the business investment in the startup that Dev had invested in. So there was hope for that business to start bringing in money relatively soon. They may not have had a house but they did have money in the bank and I doubt Dev would have cashed the cheque taking the money back. Also they had Jatin as well plus the support of the rest of her family. And frankly worse case scenario if she had severe financial issues for Soha's sake she had the potential to ask Dev for help. So she was in a better position than Ishwari although they both would have had their own struggles.

We may prefer Sona as a character over Ishwari but their situations were very different. And uneducated woman living in a patriarchal world with 4 young kids would not be a life I could easily cope with. Whereas having an education opens so many doors for women.

No, they sold everything including business to pay dev's favour. I highly doubt dev is that mahan to not to encash. But in the bank once you issue, if you don't hv money you will b sent to jail. And seriously you think bose family use dev's money? Jatin came later not immediately evicted from house. But thanks to jatin, atleast someone there for boses on the earth who has humanity.

But what abt mental struggle sona and her family went thru? I know according to many sona n her struggle don't exist..😆

Also, education is not indication of mentality. It is personality of individual who develops. My grandma never went to school, but she was way better than esh. Infact she got married at the age of 8. She had her own share of struggle, but never put pressure on her kids. She was so broad minded. It is purely individual how they carry their life.

Even my maid, she has 2 children n husband not working. She works in 3 to 4 houses. But I hv not seen her nagging like esh. She gave good education to her children, one engg n other one diploma. She was getting irritated when she was not able to pay her bills. But never put pressure on her children n neither she was biased with her children. It is completely depends on individual how they look into life. Esh is self centred, n always thinks she did best. But it is her duty and you cannot make children feel that she did favour to them showing her struggles.

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

I understand the turmoil this character is in over the latest development regarding her children. I mean it's very difficult to grasp the fact that the daughter she called her own till date is not her own. On top of that the son who is hers... she's unable to connect with him a lot due to guilt. This is actually how normal human beings would act too... conscious, awkward and scared.

What I don't understand is how the father and the grandmother of the said "daughter" are trying to force the new dynamics on everyone...not just the mother. It baffles me to think that people can be so dense.

Soha's a very small child...who seemed to be pampered a lot by everyone...not just her mother. So when she sees a new boy getting attention more than her, sharing "her" things or people... she's bound to be angry. Aren't we all territorial? Though I don't condone what she did. She's bullying the boy...but this is due to the over flowing love her grandma is showering for the new boy. Her grandma's neglection towards her feelings. Was Suhana close to her grandmother?

Dev should have given the boy and his other family members some more days to adjust to the truth...he has forced everyone into mess without preparation. Did he listen to his mother and take this step so urgently? Also what's up with him gaslighting Sonakshi? Why does he keep blaming her for things even she is not responsible for? Like not bonding with Ayush enough, Soha locking up Ayush and heights was yesterday when he made her feel guilty for not knowing about his achievement! He stood her up, forgot about it, taunted her for talking to her father and guilt tripped her into saying sorry to him. The gaslighting in that scene was so smoothly done. It's the biggest red flag in a relationship actually. Sonakshi should ponder over this angle of her relationship with her husband.

It is a mistake of sona, who is forgiving very soon n giving into dev's action. If she had rebelled, dev would understand she too human being just like him.

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

I understand the turmoil this character is in over the latest development regarding her children. I mean it's very difficult to grasp the fact that the daughter she called her own till date is not her own. On top of that the son who is hers... she's unable to connect with him a lot due to guilt. This is actually how normal human beings would act too... conscious, awkward and scared.

What I don't understand is how the father and the grandmother of the said "daughter" are trying to force the new dynamics on everyone...not just the mother. It baffles me to think that people can be so dense.

Soha's a very small child...who seemed to be pampered a lot by everyone...not just her mother. So when she sees a new boy getting attention more than her, sharing "her" things or people... she's bound to be angry. Aren't we all territorial? Though I don't condone what she did. She's bullying the boy...but this is due to the over flowing love her grandma is showering for the new boy. Her grandma's neglection towards her feelings. Was Suhana close to her grandmother?

Dev should have given the boy and his other family members some more days to adjust to the truth...he has forced everyone into mess without preparation. Did he listen to his mother and take this step so urgently? Also what's up with him gaslighting Sonakshi? Why does he keep blaming her for things even she is not responsible for? Like not bonding with Ayush enough, Soha locking up Ayush and heights was yesterday when he made her feel guilty for not knowing about his achievement! He stood her up, forgot about it, taunted her for talking to her father and guilt tripped her into saying sorry to him. The gaslighting in that scene was so smoothly done. It's the biggest red flag in a relationship actually. Sonakshi should ponder over this angle of her relationship with her husband.

You're right and somehow the audience also expects sona to buck up and do what dev and ishuwari are saying.

At this point there are not many redeeming factors to the show and its characters. I am not surprised it attracted extremely toxic fanbase.

Really I think that's too much to ask. She's in such a fragile state and instead of it being Dev'd duty to help as a partner he needs to be taught how to act. Thats low key kinda victim blaming. people in toxic relationships don't understand they are in one because they are being manipulated.

Sonakshi is being gaslighted not only by dev but so many people around her.