To all members of MHRW family - With love 🌼

*positive vibes only*

My dearest MHRW forum members

I know we are sailing through some extremely disappointing episodes. Inconsistencies, characters being butchered, leads made to behave too naively (especially Pallavi nowadays) just to give way to the negative ML (because trp, duh). I know it all. We all have so many complaints and I have as well. Especially today’s episode was hell lot of frustrating, it was the last nail in the coffin.

And yet I am not able to give up on MHRW, only and only because of one reason- Raghvi. I love them way too much. So much so that I have overlooked all the loopholes, technical glitches, very annoying night filters, Raghav’s bandaid sitting on top of his hair, Pallavi being given 1970s hairstyles and some tacky sarees- you name it and I have ignored it all. We all have. And I guess majority of us will continue to do so.

Before moving any further, I would like to point out that what actually has driven us off the edge about today’s episode has a lot more to it than just Pallavi behaving naive.

1. Biggest factor was an almost 20 mins screen time to Mandaar (no disrespect to Ashok, he’s brilliant and he deserves all the love). But there’s something called as balance. Makers? What even? Nobody watches an itv show daily to watch a negative character in all his glory throughout and very little positivity. I do not want to watch a psychopath on my screen for 20mins straight first thing in the morning.
   Facts- had these 20 mins been shortened or it was divided into at least 2-3 episodes, and some lighter scenes were included in between- it would be so much more tolerable. Where are Amruta and Farhad? SunKee are not needed right now. Too much negativity already. (What was their scene even about? I skipped it and haven’t watched yet.)
2. Mandaar is a creep and just by being on the screen he makes many of us very uncomfortable. The first day I heard ‘tum mere ho’ being played for him- my heart was drowning the whole weekend and I know many other people who still feel the same about that bgm. Thankfully I was able to get over it.
3. Many of us are annoyed that Pallavi should be able to judge him better. It’s extremely uncomfortable to see your favourite character falling prey to a stalker so easily. As we are mostly women on the forum, and encounter such situations irl at some point in our lives- it’s triggering to see her being an easy target.

But the fact is that it’s probably going to continue just like this for a week or two . Or maybe more, who knows? The makers are trying to bank on Mandaar track for trps and if it rises they are just going to be more encouraged. And there’s no other way that Mandaar can creep into their lives if they don’t let him to. And hence we see Pallavi being super naive right now and Raghav being very insecure even though it was his idea “SaathMilkeInsecuritiesKoPunchKarenge”.

So please everyone be ready to witness all what is coming our way. They might even go as far as showing a mini separation, maybe? Definitely a lot of angst is upcoming. I know Raghav is hurting bad, and we all love him dearly. But it’s a part of life and it’s okay. We all get hurt and move on with it, if the love is strong enough to sustain it. That’s how we grow. And do Raghav and Pallavi love each other enough to get through this? Yes, without a doubt.

There were times Pallavi was being hurt too and she still decided to hold on to him strongly. Raghav is doing the same and I don’t expect anything less from our man. He is making me so proud with every episode. (Now I am not going to complain here about him not telling Pallavi about the 7day challenge- because I know why it’s being shown. We all know. Same reason I mentioned above, same reason Pallavi is behaving so ignorant to M’s creepiness.)

I believe you all knew everything I have written till now. It’s really nothing different from what is being said across the forum since morning. The real motive of me making this post today is entirely different.

All through the collective state of anxiety we have been in past few days, Raghvi are LOST. Period.

We keep speculating what might happen and what might go wrong, but we forget to see what all is going right. They are talking, they are willing to work through this. When have we ever seen an itv couple behaving like this? Such beautiful Raghav and Pallavi scenes we got, and we are not celebrating? I know the looming possibility of something unfortunate happening to them is not letting us enjoy the scenes fully. (And I am very bitter about it as well. I totally hold the CVS responsible for this.) But can’t we take it upon ourselves to filter out the negativity? Because Raghvi deserve to be celebrated. Sai and Shivangi deserve to be celebrated. The never seen before on itv scenes that we are getting on them, deserve a celebration ya! (That ring wala scene, oh my god so beautiful )

I feel really sad to see that we have kind of forgotten what we all are here for in first place. We should have been going crazy the day Raghav and Pallavi confessed love to each other and yet their was a gloomy silence looming around the forum. I don’t want to see this anymore you know. 😭 I need our happening wali forum back. Let’s celebrate Raghvi unapologetically. I have decided that I am going to royally ignore Mandaar today on because I don’t like him at all. Period. He doesn’t matter to me. (Again no offence to Ashok’s admirer. Such an amazing actor that he has managed to creep us out within days!)

I was as miffed as anybody else here in the morning. I had quite a rant as well. But by the evening I had forgotten everything and the only thing I remembered was this.

https://twitter.com/vaishpatel1/status/1420923105757773825?s=20

My heart literally went over them.

I haven’t seen a couple more cute than them, a moment more spontaneous than this, and two actors more brilliant than they are together! Just too much love, too much vulnerability, too much softness in this one frame. Sai and Shivangi have once again floored me .

https://twitter.com/Sias_Creations/status/1421012506835828739?s=20

I see this and I refuse to believe that they won’t be able to sustain. They are so much in love y’all.

And how gorgeous they are together, I can’t even 🤧

Ever since the first episode I have wanted to see them happy and together in love. They are together finally and they will be happy eventually. They will make their way through all the difficulties and the journey is an absolutely beautiful one, if we concentrate just on them. Because the moments/scenes we are getting- they are never coming back. Really. Let’s enjoy them to the fullest. Let’s gush over them endlessly.

There’s a party sequence upcoming and we might get to see our Raghvi taking the dance floor together. For the first time ever! And I want us to party like anything that day! Idc whatever ‘accident’ happens (as sandip sickand suggested), or what we might see in the precap. I refuse to let anything else other than Raghvi take over my mind. 😎 let’s switch the party mode on already.

Also let’s flood the MF with positive posts guys. Let’s come out of our respective dens. No hard feelings, nothing. Bss ho gya . Sbhi ek doosre ko bht saari hugs do and let’s celebrate Raghvi together. 🤗🤗🤗🤗 (Virtual group hug)

PS- I am going to tag as many people I can and I request everyone to add tags further. Let’s come together. Let the positivity prevail. Let’s celebrate as a family that this forum has always been!

PPS- please stop passing rude comments on the FL , (or ML for that matter) even if they are just fictional characters, because it’s extremely distasteful. Let’s rise above the hate and choose our words very carefully guys. There’s a very thin line between discussion and bashing. As long as you are polite - it’s a discussion. Anything beyond that is not.

Also sl*t shaming, calling her characterless- it’s extremely irresponsible. Because she has done nothing like that. No matter how bad the writing is right now, there’s nothing till date to suggest that Pallavi doesn’t love Raghav or is having second thoughts about him. Nothing. Really. Nothing she’s doing is intentional from her side, even if she’s making a mistake.

Read posts suggesting physical/sexual assault as a ‘lesson’ to her- idk what to even say about this. Nobody deserves this. Really. We read about such cases everyday and they are heart wrenching. No jokes here.

Victim blaming is another huge issue. I humbly request everyone to please not to indulge in such conversations. Really heavy real life implications such things have guys! It’s possible that there are real life survivors reading your posts. Please tread carefully.

I didn’t intend to hurt anybody with this. I apologise if I unknowingly have made anyone uncomfortable.


*very happy to see new members joining the forum and many posts up today with space for nothing else but healthy discussions only. 🤗

Adding some absolute favourite Raghvi moments from last one week. Excuse me for using sm links rather than caps because of lack of free time on hand.

https://twitter.com/vaishpatel1/status/1420924577404932099?s=20

https://twitter.com/BUNNYFOODIEJAAN/status/1419476052603138053?s=20

And an upcoming one! We all have waited for this since forever

https://twitter.com/reeeebss/status/1421020749985460232?s=20

Please read and add more tags guys😳

I will comment in full fledge in after some time...tagging people for the much needed positivity

Thanks for this 🤗🤗

Parul 🤗

Love you, love this post!

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Adding my positive vibes- still not over this moment!

Res

Will add positivity to my forum family 🤗

When ever I feel low I see shivangi post for RaghVi and I will feel better

Sharing my few collages of RaghVi scenes..

Sharing Vms from insta

Credit to the owner

https://www.instagram.com/p/CR7B5K-IABO/?utm_medium=copy_link

My all time fav scene

Palls baby feeding RR

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPa8V4FhHhz/?utm_medium=copy_link

Thanks for tagging shreyangi .. I was about to do the same 🤗

More tags ❤️

Please read the post and tag your friends as well 🤗

Hey Parul🤗

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Thanks for tagging me

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Parul soo much love for you ❤️

We all need to be positive and hold on dearly to what we are here for . Our precious babies . Raghav and pallavi . Raghvi😳

This too shall pass and it will only make their love stronger . It might get ugly along the way but there will be light at end of the tunnel🤗

Also for creepy M lets follow RR's mantra of hawa mein filter😎 He'll be shown his place soon by our don couple .

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Parul 🤗

Love you, love this post!

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Adding my positive vibes- still not over this moment!

Never getting over this Ash

thanks for sharing 🤗so much love!