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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Ok it is an accident , now happy ... you are right

I don’t know pooja imp or not , because I am christian genuinely I don’t know 🤪

I can’t spoil my peace of mind for fictional characters iust told what I thought

I apologize for quoting you

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: mily_mathew

I don't think all kids are as possessive as Suhana

I myself am a first born

I never wanted my parents to give me more love than my brother.


What ishwari is doing is showing favoritism to ayush

Which is wrong.


But dev ,he is just showing sympathy to ayush.its more of a heartfelt love since ayush does not have anyone now.


Sonakshi on the other hand I too closed up,maybe coz she is terrified of losing soha that she is not even looking at ayush,he being her child too.


The fact that ishwari can let soha go is somehow scaring sonakshi.it happens.soha is her first born and her life line during those tough 7 years.


In all this,somehow I feel bad for ayush.on a side not,I'm not a shaheer fan.i like erica more.but as of now,I feel sonakshi ,though I understand her fear,has to take a step towards ayush,love is also about sharing,you can't have it all.soha needs to understand that

It will take its own time,but people need to take baby steps.sona seems frozen and totally in defense mode.qll her insecurities are surfacing.

See the thing is right now Ayush is getting more of almost anything good than Suhana. You said you never wanted your parents to shower you with more love than your brother, ofcourse it shouldn't be that way either, love and affection should be given equally to all the kids with no favoritism, but that doesn't happen always and to the kids who get it less they more or less react exactly the way Suhana did, I did too, because my parents engaged in favoritism as well since we were kids itself and this most of the time happens to elder or first borns unless the second child turns out to be a black sheep of some sort and or the elder one is exceptionally talented or something that the parents feel they can show off and when the second child is unable to match that level they feel the same as how the first borns feel.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Rein123

See the thing is right now Ayush is getting more of almost anything good than Suhana. You said you never wanted your parents to shower you with more love than your brother, ofcourse it shouldn't be that way either, love and affection should be given equally to all the kids with no favoritism, but that doesn't happen always and to the kids who get it less they more or less react exactly the way Suhana did, I did too, because my parents engaged in favoritism as well since we were kids itself and this most of the time happens to elder or first borns unless the second child turns out to be a black sheep of some sort and or the elder one is exceptionally talented or something that the parents feel they can show off and when the second child is unable to match that level they feel the same as how the first borns feel.

k.i agree with this showering love from ishwaris ene, but dev s just asking Suhana to give ayush some space in her life.bur ishwaris foundations were so badly laid that Suhana is not ready to have ayush in her life,already he has taken over ishu,she fears the same will happen with drv and sonakshi too.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: mily_mathew

k.i agree with this showering love from ishwaris ene, but dev s just asking Suhana to give ayush some space in her life.bur ishwaris foundations were so badly laid that Suhana is not ready to have ayush in her life,already he has taken over ishu,she fears the same will happen with drv and sonakshi too.

Dev is asking Suhana to give Ayush some space, but you know what, if Suhana has made it clear that she doesn't want him around then he should force them together as that is also not healthy, and even worse is the fact that he expects Suhana to share her stuff with Ayush, why does she have to share her things with Ayush? For what?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rein123

Dev is asking Suhana to give Ayush some space, but you know what, if Suhana has made it clear that she doesn't want him around then he should force them together as that is also not healthy, and even worse is the fact that he expects Suhana to share her stuff with Ayush, why does she have to share her things with Ayush? For what?

True,ayush should have his own place ,he should not be taking suhanas place.but fo you think suhana won't rebellion then

She does not want her dad and papa to give any attention to this new boy.


Ishwari was right today,they have to take baby steps towards sharing only then they can share parents.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rein123

Dev is asking Suhana to give Ayush some space, but you know what, if Suhana has made it clear that she doesn't want him around then he should force them together as that is also not healthy, and even worse is the fact that he expects Suhana to share her stuff with Ayush, why does she have to share her things with Ayush? For what?

Exactly..... it's not like they are poor & can't buy new stuffs 🙄 Dev's logic is share nahi karenge toh bond kaise banega? Isn't it the other way around? Bond banenge tab hi na share karne lagenge? 😕 Let them bond first. Ayush is practically a stranger, a complete stranger to Suhana. How can anyone expect her to share her stuffs with him overnight? And if she isn't willing to, Dev & Ishwari are forcing her to. 😐 Worse, sometimes she's being directly asked to hand over her things to him (that game controller). Dev is thinking that he is creating bond between them by forcing her to give up her stuffs? What is he smoking? 🤥

Ishwari probably doesn't even think about bond & all and just calculating like since Ayush is the real pota he should have this this & this.... Shubh bhi real pota.... can't take anything from him..... okay, let's take this away from Suhana & give it to Ayush. 😞

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NotAMuggle

Exactly..... it's not like they are poor & can't buy new stuffs 🙄 Dev's logic is share nahi karenge toh bond kaise banega? Isn't it the other way around? Bond banenge tab hi na share karne lagenge? 😕 Let them bond first. Ayush is practically a stranger, a complete stranger to Suhana. How can anyone expect her to share her stuffs with him overnight? And if she isn't willing to, Dev & Ishwari are forcing her to. 😐 Worse, sometimes she's being directly asked to hand over her things to him (that game controller). Dev is thinking that he is creating bond between them by forcing her to give up her stuffs? What is he smoking? 🤥

Ishwari probably doesn't even think about bond & all and just calculating like since Ayush is the real pota he should have this this & this.... Shubh bhi real pota.... can't take anything from him..... okay, let's take this away from Suhana & give it to Ayush. 😞

And that is why I am disgusted by their behaviour and to think they want to even snatch Sonakshi her mother away from her and give her to Ayush as well. The only one person who treats her a daughter and not a guest, they want her also too start neglecting Suhana and Shower extra attention to an overly coddled Ayush.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rein123

And that is why I am disgusted by their behaviour and to think they want to even snatch Sonakshi her mother away from her and give her to Ayush as well. The only one person who treats her a daughter and not a guest, they want her also too start neglecting Suhana and Shower extra attention to an overly coddled Ayush.

That's exactly how Ishwari is thinking. If you see the new promo, Sonakshi has started bonding with Ayush. She was teaching Ayush something in the garden, making some food for him & he liked it. Ishwari is watching all these....& still not satisfied. She has decided Suhana must go away for Sonakshi to bond even more with Ayush. She actually wants Sonakshi to totally abandon Suhana & invest herself completely into Ayush. Nothing other than that will make Sonakshi a capable mother in her eyes.

And just few days ago, Suhana wrote an essay on her Dadi praising this flippeshwari who has now dropped her like a hot potato 💔

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NotAMuggle

That's exactly how Ishwari is thinking. If you see the new promo, Sonakshi has started bonding with Ayush. She was teaching Ayush something in the garden, making some food for him & he liked it. Ishwari is watching all these....& still not satisfied. She has decided Suhana must go away for Sonakshi to bond even more with Ayush. She actually wants Sonakshi to totally abandon Suhana & invest herself completely into Ayush. Nothing other than that will make Sonakshi a capable mother in her eyes.

And just few days ago, Suhana wrote an essay on her Dadi praising this flippeshwari who has now dropped her like a hot potato 💔

I am keeping my fingers crossed for this whole thing to be a lie. And when the truth emerges I want Suhana to hate Ishwari for how she behaved during this bullshit lies phase of their life.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: mily_mathew

True,ayush should have his own place ,he should not be taking suhanas place.but fo you think suhana won't rebellion then

She does not want her dad and papa to give any attention to this new boy.


Ishwari was right today,they have to take baby steps towards sharing only then they can share parents.

Doing that would only make Suhana resent Ayush not bond with him, this is how some kids are like, she is a very possessive kid, she doesn't share her stuff with Shubh and Dev and Ishwaro were quite okay with that till she was assumed to be their own blood but now suddenly they want her to share her stuff, why? They can't give Ayush, Shubh's room instead? They are the actual siblings right?? Why are they only taking Suhana's things away as Sonakshi pointed? Shubh is also their brother so tell Ayush to bond and share stuff with Shubh instead, why are they not doing that? It's like they are indirectly saying since she is not our blood those things anyways don't belong to her so it's fine if we take it away from her or force her to share stuff.

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