Originally posted by: Rein123
I think her behaviour is more or less normal, when a new kid arrives in the family say a new born who is atleast 3 or 4 years younger the first born feels sort of left out and is forced to become the responsible one overnight, I know this because being the first born my self I too didn't like it and reacted the same way as her when everyone around me started giving more attention to my younger sister over me and telling me that I should be more understanding and responsible and what not, the problem starts when one child gets more love than the other which turn into obvious parental favoritism which then ignites a kind of sibling rivalry and this is very common amongst kids who are close to the same age group or say just a year or 2 apart age wise. So I kind of relate to Suhana here, and it's not just with kids, even pets behave the same way, ask any pet parent although you may think the comparison is off but I feel logic applies to both. Both the kids need to he kept away from one another, keeping them together would only make Suhana more aggressive or angrier towards Ayush. Give both of them equal amount of attention and love, If Dev and Ishwari want to coddle Ayush they can do it but not infront of Suhana.
I don't think all kids are as possessive as Suhana
I myself am a first born
I never wanted my parents to give me more love than my brother.
What ishwari is doing is showing favoritism to ayush
Which is wrong.
But dev ,he is just showing sympathy to ayush.its more of a heartfelt love since ayush does not have anyone now.
Sonakshi on the other hand I too closed up,maybe coz she is terrified of losing soha that she is not even looking at ayush,he being her child too.
The fact that ishwari can let soha go is somehow scaring sonakshi.it happens.soha is her first born and her life line during those tough 7 years.
In all this,somehow I feel bad for ayush.on a side not,I'm not a shaheer fan.i like erica more.but as of now,I feel sonakshi ,though I understand her fear,has to take a step towards ayush,love is also about sharing,you can't have it all.soha needs to understand that
It will take its own time,but people need to take baby steps.sona seems frozen and totally in defense mode.qll her insecurities are surfacing.