Absolutely ,this is what I wrote in my only post in this forums . I mean that is a revolution in most Indian families - to have food with everyone not alone and after everyone . But Shaurya is a modern day misogynist ( Fantastic growth yet very much in essence till these last few episodes) who has been conditioned like that . Here are some observations .
1. Final exams in a week , Girl was against forced wedding and yet you planned a wedding ( I would have created a ruckus in private if it would have happened in real life with me - Lovers and partners to be take decisions after discussion and consensus . ) . Love ,courtship and marriage are polar apart phases of live . Shadi brings what it's bringing to Anokhi .
2. No talk by Shaurya ( Actually these two never had good communication only impulsive anger ,romance )regarding Anokhi ' slaving hard by cooking 10 people's food with diverse food choices in morning ,afternoon and night before going for final exams and even now ;When there are Kanchan and gayatri to support and house helps possible .
3. What you say , even from day 1 post wedding , I don't think Shaurya has been realistic and sensitive to issue of balance of career and household responsibilities . It's not that she is the single woman there to cook or how come Zimmedariyan alag alag . Zimmedariyan saath saath mein .Share kii jaati hain ,in 21st century if u say you have changed .
4. Unfortunately this whole track of understanding own misogyny by Shaurya would never be shown on the show now .( STILL ONE EPISODE ON THIS MIGHT DO ), Ishq par zor Nahi is better in this regard where one incident DRAGGED FOR EPISODED WHEN REVEALED ,opened the male lead to understand to some extent the damage that's been done to his mind and acceptance of the other soch of gender equality .
Astha reunion must have discussed this as well . Why Anokhi or any woman has to prove (though she is all willing to ) everytime that she can be perfect in every sphere . It's okay to not be a superfast and superb balancing maid cum wife cum student cum TA in first few days of marriage or for ever and at 20 ? I thought Anokhi might be shown imperfect in not pleasing the unreasonable people of Sabharwal household .
Edited by Justice2016 - 4 years ago