Heir apparent!!

It is good to be back to a forum who connected me to people who thought like me, people who did not think like me and so gave a different perceptive and all in between…and got me back to writing

The age-Old stigma of a Boy versus a Girl child is probably going to be explored in this new chapter of kuch Rang….

Dev and Sona married for couple of years each of them busy in their own lives, the love still exists but it is not displayed as it is buried between work, children, Home and everything in between. Isn’t it true that when we become parents we cease to behave like husband and wife instead act like two partners who are co-parenting! That is what is happening in Dev and Sona’s life. Ishwari accepted Sona because she loves Dev not because she loves Sona. Can a Mother in law really love a daughter in law as a daughter or will she always remain the sons wife?.

Ishwari a mother who struggled to bring up her children gave her son the powers to be where he is now but in turn ignored Neha her girl child. Why is it because the Heir apparent was a Male and not a female? Things which were not explored in theprevious season’s is probably explored in this one and if that is so then it will really be a path breaking show.

Into Dev and Sona’s busy lives comes a storm in the name of a son who is their blood, Easwari word for word talks about soga being Just like Dev but now that a Son who is the real child comes in will she still think Soha as just like her Dev?. She thinks she was and is the ultimate mother because she sacrificed for her children and Sona really is not so is her old self rearing her head again?

Dev as usual torn between his mother’s views and his wife’s when all was status quo there were no issues, but now will he really see that his mother does have some strong views and really balance between wife and mother.

For Sona, Soha was her lifeline and is still is. She was the one who mended her when everything was broken will she be able to love another as much as Doha though that child is related to her in Blood?

The dynamics of the three Easwari the mother ,whose world revolves around her son, Sona whose life revolves around her daughter and Dev caught in between…A great story to tell if the makers do justice.

As far as the cliché of swapped babies I think it is not only cinematic liberties but could be there is more than what meets the eye?

Thoughts welcome my lovelies..it is good to be back

There is a great scope in this subject

I hope makers will do justice

See how it goes

I am not bothered about about “ beta is precious “

That is a regressive thinking ..,it does exists but not witnessed personally

Loving this forum already as it is bringing back all of my favourites to share their views. Hi Gemini, ecstatic to see you back.

If the series moves fwd like you say as girl child vs boy child, i bet this forum will totally tip one side on the scale and the show ripped apart to pieces😆. Dev and ishwari are identical on several things and one of them being their focus on achieving things, goals and even humans to add to the 'happiness' of the family with little consideration to the feelings of others and damage they leave in their wake. Once done their focus shift to the next feather to add to their cap.

After reunion in s1 it was soha first, then sona, nxt reuniting siblings and the final crown shubh even at the cost of sona's life. Now the focus is on ayush with dev being bringing his son to the family and ishwari focused on son's son with little to no consideration regarding sona's feelings. Hope the show progresses with these two realising the damage they are causing to others by forcefully including and excluding humans at their convenience.

Its disheartening to see the distance between dev and sona like she has accepted that dev - ishwari unit is constant and given up on bulldozing their fortress tobe a part of it. She has realised she will always remain as son's wife and shifted her focus on kids and career but her wait for dev is still there.

Same I was thinking on these lines ..Ishwari is a person who differentiated between her own children ...she is subconsciously comparing herself with Sonakshi and trying to prove again that she is still a best mother .. she will take extra care of both sons of Dev but will ignore Soha ..and also will justify it by blaming Sonakshi that she isnt taking enough care of her sons ...

Originally posted by: havima

Loving this forum already as it is bringing back all of my favourites to share their views. Hi Gemini, ecstatic to see you back.

If the series moves fwd like you say as girl child vs boy child, i bet this forum will totally tip one side on the scale and the show ripped apart to pieces😆. Dev and ishwari are identical on several things and one of them being their focus on achieving things, goals and even humans to add to the 'happiness' of the family with little consideration to the feelings of others and damage they leave in their wake. Once done their focus shift to the next feather to add to their cap.

After reunion in s1 it was soha first, then sona, nxt reuniting siblings and the final crown shubh even at the cost of sona's life. Now the focus is on ayush with dev being bringing his son to the family and ishwari focused on son's son with little to no consideration regarding sona's feelings. Hope the show progresses with these two realising the damage they are causing to others by forcefully including and excluding humans at their convenience.

Its disheartening to see the distance between dev and sona like she has accepted that dev - ishwari unit is constant and given up on bulldozing their fortress tobe a part of it. She has realised she will always remain as son's wife and shifted her focus on kids and career but her wait for dev is still there.

@bold. What about Dev and Ishwari's feelings. Do they matter less than Sona's or Bijoy's. If Sona is hurt by the revelations, isn't Dev and Ishwari too hurt by the revelations. Dev is trying to come to grips about the fact that he not only missed the birth of his child, but also missed his own flesh and blood in the process. If you say Dev should be considerate towards Sona's feelings, shouldn't the same be expected from Sona as being considerate of Dev and Ishwari's feelings. If you are saying Dev should support Sona, doesn't it follow that Sona should support Dev too.

@bold blue. Didn't;t Dev put his career on hold to support Sona when she wanted to move ahead in her career. Didn't he become a stay at home dad doing everything. Didn't Ishwari support Sona on that. If it is ok for Sona to focus on achieving things, why is it wrong for Dev or Ishwari to focus on achieving things. If it is ok for Sona to ignore Dev or Ishwari's happiness to focus soon her goals, why are you expecting that from Dev or Ishwari only all the time. Did Sona give any consideration to the feelings of others when she left the house after the marriage fiasco.

What happened was not just Dev or Ishwari's fault. Sona and Bijoy too contributed equally. In this season, I see the makers focussing on that. If after the 7 year leap, it was all about Dev and Ishwari's realizations and them making amends, I see this season as Sona and Bijoy's retrospection and retribution.

Havi my lovely so good to hear from you. If they indeed explore the girl child versus boy it is a still relevant topic for today’s times. That is why we have save a girl child and other initiatives still. If first season was about possessive mother, second about egos and how they have to put them aside for a relationship Third may address this if they do then this show will still have the charm.

Hugs to you

Shaavi

Good to see you back in this forum. And thanks for always putting forth a different perspective. Maybe this season will be one to tie all lose ends as in a relationship nobody is fully wrong or nobody is fully right. Circumstances and your upbringing make you behave the way we do.

Dev all he saw and sees is his mother’s sacrifice

Sona all she thinks is Dev and easwari as one unit

Easwari she thinks of dev and her as a team and sona as her sons wife

Bijoy who with his rash behaviors has made some things worse then ever

Asha the sane one missing.

I think we are off to a roller coaster drive. Hope the storyline does justice

Good to connect.

Hi Gemini54! Nice to see you here after so long .

Originally posted by: gemini54

Shaavi

Good to see you back in this forum. And thanks for always putting forth a different perspective. Maybe this season will be one to tie all lose ends as in a relationship nobody is fully wrong or nobody is fully right. Circumstances and your upbringing make you behave the way we do.

Dev all he saw and sees is his mother’s sacrifice

Sona all she thinks is Dev and easwari as one unit

Easwari she thinks of dev and her as a team and sona as her sons wife

Bijoy who with his rash behaviors has made some things worse then ever

Asha the sane one missing.

I think we are off to a roller coaster drive. Hope the storyline does justice

Good to connect.

Hi Gemini,

Nice to see you too and your sensible post. Being cooped at home due to covid, I started thinking about Ramayan and Mahabharat. And I realized there are so many things that we fail to actually pay attention in these books. We are so focused on the main story line that we fail to pay attention to the whole.

In Mahabharata, everyone was human. Even though Pandavas were demigods, they too had to visit hell and spend some time there before going to heaven. Even when Duryodhana did all those bad things, he too ended up in heaven after his time in hell. The beauty of Mahabharata is that wrongs were done by everyone and everyone had to pay for what they did. And it didn't matter if it was intentional or accidental. Something done by Yudishtir doesn't become right, while the same thing is wrong when done by Duryodhana or Karna. The right and wrong is not depended on the person, but by the actions done by that person. Also every action has both positive and negative consequences. If we enjoy the positive first, we experience the negative later and vice versa. But nevertheless, we will have to face both the consequences. There is no escaping from it.

Someone said how Dev and ishu's feeling matter. Replying to that (sorry I am new to the platform don't know how it works)

I am not sure we're seeing the same show. Because Dev and ishwari's feelings have always been considered. From the fact that Sona went through a painful process to give her a child to Dev literally slapping bijoy and never properly apologizing.

Even after Soha was easily shifted to Dev's house. I've lived 6 years at my nani's house due to some reasons. My Nani used to cry everyday for weeks after I left. That part was never considered in the show.

It was ishwari's mistake primarily which led to sona being alone at the time of pregnancy. This is thing not shown in the show but what sort of husband is Dev to leave her wife at such a crucial point of time. Sona was clearly depressed at the news of her not being able to become a mother. Even if she never would've become a mother it was honestly pathetic that Dev let her leave at such a point. She could've been seriously depressed if not for Soha. It was obvious having a kid is what she always wanted.

Now also Sona is being questioned as if she had swapped kids. First by Dev and now by ishu. Worst thing Dev hasn't said a thing to ishu. Dev understands ishu more than Sona.

Dev did something extremely basic by taking care of kids which honestly appreciable doesn't make Sona indebted to him..it's what everyone should do.

Even now sona is struggling with kids ishu is hounding her for complaining.

Sona and bijoy spent 7 years with Soha. Dev and ishu can never understand how jarring this news would be for them. Ishu and Dev should be extra supportive of Sona not only because it's terrible news for a mother it also makes one question her motherhood itself. Sona has also recently lost her mother and this is how everyone behaves with her pathetic.

Genuinely wouldn't want to ever live in such a house.

Love bijoy would want a father like him . He's only ever been rash is response to what he saw. He's seen his daughter not being valued the way he knows she should be valued. His feelings are absolutely valid.