Originally posted by: aye-masakalii
I guess...I just think sometimes, there's a lot of comfort and consolation that words can also provide, even when your hands are tied in terms of action. I guess Raghav just doesn't operate that way, so like I said, his behaviour makes sense to me...but it doesn't make his response less insensitive IMO.
Yes ashi, he could have behaved wayyyyy better. There are many things which could have been, from both sides. But it's what it's. Raghav is raghav and pallavi is pallavi. People tend to behave differently to such situation, which is actually guided by many factors.
His reaction seemed cold, shayad pallavi ko bhi lga hoga. But doesn't that happen irl also? We are not always perfect. Sometimes it's so messed up in our heads that we end up hurting others and won't even realise.
My point is, why we always expect the characters to behave a certain way? Life is not ideal, people are not ideal all the time and I am so glad that the characters in our show are flawed as well, makes them so real.
But I am not saying that he should just keep behaving this way always. He will learn, we learn from our mistakes. And for him to learn, pallavi needs to be vocal about the hurt she felt, and if he loves her enough (which he does)- he would be willing to improvise on this.
I disagree with the idea that pallavi should close up to him now. Hiding your feelings won't ever do you any good. That way she will keep hurting and raghav won't even realise something's wrong. I know slipping back into our shell is the most usual response, but only to realise later that it wasn't worth it. I am proud of pallavi on this front, the way she shows her authority as a wife. I am pleasantly surprised- because that's not an easy thing to do! You have to have a very strong sense of self worth to be able to do that.
