Why is anupama inviting trouble?

Like I said why is anupama bringing trouble in her life? Kaavya blames her for anything and everything....is it worth it....to be insulted and humiliated. With Vanraj helping him why after the pain he caused and now having him work with anupama.

Because Anu has Aa Bael Mujhe Maar Syndrome

I am saying ki anupama should move out of shah house and Better think aboiut herself instead of running at house 18 hrs at one feet and fulling demand of other request

Like baa said to anupama ki kavya aur vanraj ko phone lagaao ki shout nahin karein. I mean what the Hell. Why the Hell baa asking anupama ki vanraj and kavya ko phone lagaao ki shout nahin karein

Yeh baa pakhi toshu are selfish to core. Yeh bus anupama ko use kar rahe hain. Anupama ko inse jyaada emotionally attach nahin hona chahiye

Aur yeh anupama ko vanraj ki chinta karni chodi chahiye. Use idea dene band karne chahiye

Yeh sub baa pakhi toshu vanraj aage jaakur phir anupama ko taunt karenge

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I liked this show because it was realistic even if somewhat dramatic. Many homemakers are valued less for their efforts, taunted and made to feel unworthy if they are not financially independent. Anupamaa showed this so beautifully.

Now, the show is becoming very unrealistic with Anupamaa caring so much about the man because of whom she had a panic attack and for once tried to use that against her. Samar is right. Anu wouldn't even have an academy if Vanraj had his way and now he will be working along side her. Anu is a forgiving person and I can believe that she wouldn't be mean to Vanraj but her being so friendly, almost wife like to him is silly and unbelievable.

Regarding Kavya, first Anu used to put her in her place but now listens to all her nonsense just because Kavya lost her job. Not liking this change in Anupamaa.

Originally posted by: PranPriye

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I liked this show because it was realistic even if somewhat dramatic. Many homemakers are valued less for their efforts, taunted and made to feel unworthy if they are not financially independent. Anupamaa showed this so beautifully.

Now, the show is becoming very unrealistic with Anupamaa caring so much about the man because of whom she had a panic attack and for once tried to use that against her. Samar is right. Anu wouldn't even have an academy if Vanraj had his way and now he will be working along side her. Anu is a forgiving person and I can believe that she wouldn't be mean to Vanraj but her being so friendly, almost wife like to him is silly and unbelievable.

Regarding Kavya, first Anu used to put her in her place but now listens to all her nonsense just because Kavya lost her job. Not liking this change in Anupamaa.

I agree with you completely. Being forgiving is important so as to be at peace with oneself. But, it doesn't mean that you should be blind about the pain caused to you in the first place. Anupama might be helping Vanraj with good intentions, but when she knows, that each and every action of hers is going to be misinterpreted by Kavya, then is it worth it. Kavya keeps shouting mera pati, mera pati...then let them handle their situation by themselves. Vanraj never encouraged Anupama ever, so why drag yourself in this mess. I'm not supporting tit for tat move, I'm just saying - focus on yourself. For once.

Kavya is never gonna believe in your goodness. She will blame you even if she herself sets everything on fire. So, what's the point of caring for her. You live in the same house because Babuji asked, that doesn't mean you accept her dukh as your dukh and try to sort every mess out. When someone doesn't respect you, there is no point being a martyr queen.

Inviting troubles in own life is her hobby.🤣

Because this a TV drama n will show any nonsense for drama.

Anupama looks more like maid of everyone rather than Ghar ki malkin

I want Anu to get out of Shah house. She can give her part of property on rent, since that room is detached from the main rooms anyways.

I guess after some major drama only, Anu will leave this. I think so Anuj entry will make her do that, because since Vanraj and his group will act like a typical orthodox bunch of people, and Anu will have to leave it, to leave that toxicity behind.

If makers really wants to have Shah house with Anu, and show drama, they can make Anu buy a house in there locality, fir sabhka reaction mil jayega for daily chores, of Shah house and then from Anu's house, ekh hi jagah pe 😆 still better than staying under same roof though.

It's uncomfortable to see her forget her panic attacks and humiliation and continue to be so great friends with van and care so much ...

I cannot be even civil with mine as he emo physical abused me leaving me with all kinds of scars. But with help of bro I moved on and now happy with my husband. But my bro and bff would have probably killed my ex if I had not given them a swear. The whole fam we have cut ties and my bro has cut ties even with extended fam who said nonsense when I got divorced. Believe me when I say this , it's tough to be even civil to people who passed silly comments

It's ok if she's civil since she has good relationship with his parents and they share children . But working together spending so much time . What guarantee that they will not have feelings involved again. See even if they are in mid 40s getting emo involved is also kind of cheating.

It's all jhamela ..keep work seperate and spend as little as possible time when unavoidable. That way kav is also happy. Now that Vanya are married he has some responsibility not just financial but emo and social too

I do believe you are right. I am too a divorced woman who's husband cheated on. I just walked away and worked and still am by the grace of God with my dignity rather pandering to the whims of ex husband's life. Vanraj is a grown man let him be and sort out his own life with work and Kaavya. It's like anupama is gluten for punishment and she now has started agreeing/feeling sorry for kaavya and vanraj...they are bit children but are grown as mentioned before. Kaavya blaming anupama for losing her job anupama should have just fought for her dignity rather than the latter. Get real anupama and be strong and independent and not a people pleaser as in the Shah household you will start to lose the respect from ur children