A man's character - Page 5

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I'm so sorry that you had to go through such a horrible experience but I'm also glad you rejected that proposal. A guy who puts you down even before you're married is a RED FLAG. He was probably also having an inferiority complex. Men who feel inferior tend to display such qualities of putting other people down. A confident man does not need to play such tricks.

It's just sad that society still perceives women as a liability that they have the nerve to tell us that they're doing us a favor by marrying us. We need to change that and it's only and only by being fiercely independent, especially financially. When money comes into play, all relationships and equations change. Money has power, sad but true. It's up to us how we use that power, but it definitely has a great amount of power, such that no man or woman can walk over us as if we're broken dolls. You'll be surprised how peoples mind set also changes the moment you're walking with your head held high. They will eventually respect you as a person rather than as a woman.

I hope you find the perfect person for yourself, but take it easy! There's a lot more in life than marriage. Cliched as it sounds, its true. We only have one life, live it before we exit from this world. We're all exiting one day, so rather exit after living a fulfilling life than exiting with regrets of never getting to live a happy life. I also believe that there is no other hero in your life other than yourself. If you really want to do something, you have to step up for yourself first. Then your parents will support you but if you expect that someone else will take that initiative for us, then it will never happen. Once you take that one step, the next 100 steps are easier.

I'm glad you did what you did! More power to you!

Thanks Di!! I usually remember this incident sometimes and think this must be what many woman go throughout their life and suffer!! But yes life is much more than marriage!! I am happy with how I am right now!! Single, Working girl and occassional trips with my friends and casual flirting in Tinder. !! 🤣

Hahaha casual flirting is healthy! As long as you're safe (I'm not a dating app's person, find it very scary 😆) maybe coz I've had some encounters with psycho's 😆

Live and be happy!! 🤗

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Thanks Di!! I usually remember this incident sometimes and think this must be what many woman go throughout their life and suffer!! But yes life is much more than marriage!! I am happy with how I am right now!! Single, Working girl and occassional trips with my friends and casual flirting in Tinder. !! 🤣

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Hahaha casual flirting is healthy! As long as you're safe (I'm not a dating app's person, find it very scary 😆) maybe coz I've had some encounters with psycho's 😆

Live and be happy!! 🤗

Oh do not worry I had my share of psychos and creeps in tinder dating!! But I know how to handle them!! I mean after the farzi australian boy I do not take creeps and jerks seriously!! 🤣🤣

Sunny is there for money. He never wanted to get married even when they were running sunny never said we will get married. But today for Sagai he didn't utter a word.

Ur right he doesn't know Pallus weakness and that's how Ved comes into place. I now think that sunny and ved do not know each other from before but will join hands.

Sunny will cause the whole Mandaar confusion to cause a rift in RaghVi. To get his plan successful.

Ved will be attacking from outside and sunny inside

Sab dushman bane hai Pallu and Raghu ke. Let them live in peace 😭

Yeah Sunny is here for the money or something else, but Kirti is nowhere in his life. That's why I think Raghav has played the master stroke by announcing engagement. Sunny claims to love her etc and now he's been cornered. Let's see how he gets out of this. He will use Ved to get out of this situation, that's what I think. In the process, Kirti will realize that her lover is a loser and her brother truly cares for her.

First I thought Raghav is just being idiotic by rejecting Sunny just coz he can't see his kid sister with a guy but there's more. He smells a rat and he's doing everything to get that rat out of his hiding hole.

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Sunny is there for money. He never wanted to get married even when they were running sunny never said we will get married. But today for Sagai he didn't utter a word.

Ur right he doesn't know Pallus weakness and that's how Ved comes into place. I now think that sunny and ved do not know each other from before but will join hands.

Sunny will cause the whole Mandaar confusion to cause a rift in RaghVi. To get his plan successful.

Ved will be attacking from outside and sunny inside

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Sunny is there for money. He never wanted to get married even when they were running sunny never said we will get married. But today for Sagai he didn't utter a word.

Ur right he doesn't know Pallus weakness and that's how Ved comes into place. I now think that sunny and ved do not know each other from before but will join hands.

Sunny will cause the whole Mandaar confusion to cause a rift in RaghVi. To get his plan successful.

Ved will be attacking from outside and sunny inside

So you are saying it will be a pincer move to separate and pressurize raghvi from each other. Because sunny knows as long as pallavi is there he cannot completely manipulate raghav through keerthi and ved knows pallavi is now raghav's weakness and will use it to hurt him. Classic middle age war move. 😈

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Sab dushman bane hai Pallu and Raghu ke. Let them live in peace 😭

Yeah Sunny is here for the money or something else, but Kirti is nowhere in his life. That's why I think Raghav has played the master stroke by announcing engagement. Sunny claims to love her etc and now he's been cornered. Let's see how he gets out of this. He will use Ved to get out of this situation, that's what I think. In the process, Kirti will realize that her lover is a loser and her brother truly cares for her.

First I thought Raghav is just being idiotic by rejecting Sunny just coz he can't see his kid sister with a guy but there's more. He smells a rat and he's doing everything to get that rat out of his hiding hole.

Wohi to anna kya don aise bane? 10 sal mein dimag chalakar dusmano ke man mai khauf paida kya tabhi don bane!! Yad hai lion incident ke samay farhad ne kaha tha chote mote gangs raghav se panga nahi lega le kin major gangs ka bat alag hai!! Matlab gang wars bhi anna jhel chuke hai aur jit k nikal aya hai!! 👏

I know right!! I want to see anna in full don avatar, fighting. Combat has to be hand to hand. I want to see gang wars! I don't want Pallavi to solve his business matters and don matters. Not that she is not capable but I just don't want the typical star plus bahu solving all problems for her husband, jaise usse pehle toh woh channe bech raha tha.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Wohi to anna kya don aise bane? 10 sal mein dimag chalakar dusmano ke man mai khauf paida kya tabhi don bane!! Yad hai lion incident ke samay farhad ne kaha tha chote mote gangs raghav se panga nahi lega le kin major gangs ka bat alag hai!! Matlab gang wars bhi anna jhel chuke hai aur jit k nikal aya hai!! 👏

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Sab dushman bane hai Pallu and Raghu ke. Let them live in peace 😭

Yeah Sunny is here for the money or something else, but Kirti is nowhere in his life. That's why I think Raghav has played the master stroke by announcing engagement. Sunny claims to love her etc and now he's been cornered. Let's see how he gets out of this. He will use Ved to get out of this situation, that's what I think. In the process, Kirti will realize that her lover is a loser and her brother truly cares for her.

First I thought Raghav is just being idiotic by rejecting Sunny just coz he can't see his kid sister with a guy but there's more. He smells a rat and he's doing everything to get that rat out of his hiding hole.

I don't know the desicion of an engagement seemed more emotional one than a practical one. I would be happy if RR tells it was done as you said to get him out of his hiding hole.

Yeah even I think he will use Ved to get out of the situation!

Originally posted by: meghumonu

So you are saying it will be a pincer move to separate and pressurize raghvi from each other. Because sunny knows as long as pallavi is there he cannot completely manipulate raghav through keerthi and ved knows pallavi is now raghav's weakness and will use it to hurt him. Classic middle age war move. 😈

Yes exactly ! 👍🏼

Sunny just wants money and get out of it. He never wanted marriage. He knows Pallu is onto him and RR is emotional fool for his sis rn. So makes sense to hit Pallus weakness which he will get to know through Ved