A man's character

What determines a man's character?

There are small small things which are need to be observed which shows a man's character for example
:- How a man treats someone who is lower in status than him, How he treats children, Does he respect women ,Does he gives proper respect to someone who is elder than him ( This applies only if that person deserves respect), He respects his parents ( especially his mother) and if he respects professions of all strata no matter how lower in status the job is.

This small behavior traits are what determines a man's character and I see sunny is lacking quite a few of them with his treatment of people lower in status than him, disrespecting elders especially mother of the girl he is romancing, abusing a woman (which is strict no no) and disrespecting parents ( "sunta to mai apna bap ka bhi nahi aj tak" ). Pallavi rightfully said place a man among people who is lower in status then him and see how he behave with them and their real character will be out. The way sunny behaved with naidu today and disrespected him for being a servant over a simple mistake shows his character how he will treat keerthi if they live together or marry. Like servants he will treat keerthi also someone lower than him and will mentally abuse her and torture her. Pallavi caught onto his real behavior real quick and that is why sunny is wary of her as he understood she is someone who is not gullible like keerthi and cannot be duped. Sunny knows manipulating keerthi will nuetralize raghav default due to his love for his sister but pallavi is a wild card . He do not know her weak points and this girl quickly caught on to his ploy and is trying to expose him for what he really is . That he is a fraud!! Keerthi is really immature and Raghav rightfully called her a nibbi today!!

P.S. :- I really wanted to make a thread for this topic as it is very much a reality for any girls when it comes to choose a boy as a life partner!! Please friends give your opinion about this!!

Completely agree

one thing I love so much about MHRW is some scenes are definitely relatable and happen in real life

if you love or feel for someone you don’t think about them or their character as quickly

But if you’re against you’ll find every single fault with them

I’m not saying love makes you blind, just that we as humans often lose sight of what’s important and we don’t see the bigger picture

I like that Pallavi didn’t start judging Sunny again until she found his behavior odd, she’s up for giving people a fair chance but she is watchful which is something we all need to be, keep our eyes open and give everyone a fair chance

Don’t be so quick to judge or jump to conclusions, taking time out to understand the situation can help learn so much

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Completely agree

one thing I love so much about MHRW is some scenes are definitely relatable and happen in real life

if you love or feel for someone you don’t think about them or their character as quickly

But if you’re against you’ll find every single fault with them

I’m not saying love makes you blind, just that we as humans often lose sight of what’s important and we don’t see the bigger picture

I like that Pallavi didn’t start judging Sunny again until she found his behavior odd, she’s up for giving people a fair chance but she is watchful which is something we all need to be, keep our eyes open

Emotions ke sath practicality bhi rehni chahiye!! Pyare mai andhe ho ke apna zindagi barbad karna koi samajhdari ka kam nahi hai!! This show sometimes portrays real life scenarios so maturely and with such sensitivity that you are left with no choice but to admire it!!

Well said on character identification 👏

I applaud CVs for juxtaposing people with similar traits and good looks as positive, negative or grey.

It should be fun on picking out reasons on why few things were forgivable with Raghav and why that ain’t the case with Sunny!🥸

Perhaps knowing backstory helps?🧐

Or it is simply the overflowing love for Anna…? 😍

If you have watched zindagi Gulzar hai -

Zaroon after meeting kashafs mother wonders and tells that hearing the word "sharafat" he was so intrigued and then he wonders that actually that was what was more important than other qualities she had to see before giving her daughter to him and how "sharafat " was way more important than degrees in real life .

Sorry that scene kinda reminded of this and I am glad that they incorporated it into it .

Like they say little things

Little moments

They aren't little

Haven’t watched the epi but going by your post guess sunny has officially turned into a dark character😔 what a pity!imo the character had the potential and could easily remain gray and still provide the necessary frictions. Anyways,saw that coming so not at all surprised. Geya mera farhad ab toh 🥺😆

Originally posted by: drnidsur

If you have watched zindagi Gulzar hai -

Zaroon after meeting kashafs mother wonders and tells that hearing the word "sharafat" he was so intrigued and then he wonders that actually that was what was more important than other qualities she had to see before giving her daughter to him and how "sharafat " was way more important than degrees in real life .

Sorry that scene kinda reminded of this and I am glad that they incorporated it into it .

Like they say little things

Little moments

They aren't little

It reminds me of a scene in Na Bole Tum where mohan after he saved megha from her boss supported her when she said she will not be able to go to work and face the boss again and mohan supported him by saying " Agar apne kuch galati nahi kiya hai mrs. vyas to kabhi mat darna, sar ucha karke zindagi ka samna karna, aur mujhe yakeen hai ap kar payenge". And the look megha gave mohan that time it clearly showed she is not only in love with this man but she also respect this man for what he is and what he stands for.

Originally posted by: SRKian

Haven’t watched the epi but going by your post guess sunny has officially turned into a dark character😔 what a pity!imo the character had the potential and could easily remain gray and still provide the necessary frictions. Anyways,saw that coming so not at all surprised. Geya mera farhad ab toh 🥺😆

I never saw him as a potential partner for keerthi!! This is the same guy who in mid road not only invaded keerthi's space but also forcefully kissed her in front of everyone without even her consent!! I will or in this matter no girl will allow this kind of forceful intimate physical behavior without consent !! It do not matter if the guy is boyfriend or husband!!! Consent matters and no means no!!

Yes so true , showing respect and trust in their character matters a lot .

A person could change his clothes or hairstyle ,character will give it off whatever come may

I feel that's true for sunny and pallavi sees through that and will make Raghav see it as well

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Yes so true , showing respect and trust in their character matters a lot .

A person could change his clothes or hairstyle ,character will give it off whatever come may

I feel that's true for sunny and pallavi sees through that and will make Raghav see it as well

See beauty of the body is temporary but the beauty of the soul which is your character it is permanent and it is what makes or breaks a relationship!!