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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose


He was toxic/rebel without a cause. The relationship itself was toxic. No one wants to live like that.

Both of them needed therapy.


For him, it seemed like nothing else really mattered to him, he just wanted things his way or all hell would break loose. Getting your heartbroken doesn't mean you will turn to drugs/alcohol. It just means that you are a weak person and you cant solve your problems - you just want to run away from them. Its narcissism being sold off as "great love". No its not.

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Okay , I got it . I thought his love was toxic but in real he was toxic that I agree . Both were toxic in a way . I have problem with that movie bcause it somewhat idealises Alcohol and drug use which was the main content of that movie . I couldn’t watch it without fast forwarding the drug and alcohol use part .

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: adithyan



She is not afraid when she wants to do things which pleases her ?


If these things wont come out, she is fine. Her problem is not that she thinks things she does are wrong. Her problem is Ahaan/dadi disowning her because of things she does.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: CornKhazana

Must say Gul's story have some kinda magic in them. The last Gul show I watched was IPKKND and thought I would never feel so passionate about any other show, but then came IPZN.

After watching IPKKND falling for another Gul show is still fine but falling for IPZN after watching QH is a serious matter 🤔 and Param-Akshita deserves the credit here 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: adithyan



She is not afraid when she wants to do things which pleases her ?


That's precisely my problem with her.


Also, she doesn't have to go on "tell all" mode to help Ishqi. She could have supported her without telling the truth to anyone.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Ahaan said "Main aaj ke baad kabhi kuch galat nai karunga. Hamesha tumhe support karunga Ishqi, Hamesha protect karunga"

Once he gets to know Rhea is pregnant he will protect her also { usse toh yaad nahi hoga kaisa kaand kiya }

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: esprit_00

Also ... dont throw stones at me but I kind of understand Sonu too ... Raj is probably at work most of the day and she has Timon & Pumba lecturing her for the entire day - then if she goes home or talks to Dadi / Ahaan, she can't even say much... the only people she can talk to is Raj-Kartik. As for not confiding in all that happened, my personal take is she needs some therapy - she is so afraid of everyone and everything, she can never state or accept that such thing happened to her so she kept mum.

that is so perfect naming for those two👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

After watching IPKKND falling for another Gul show is still fine but falling for IPZN after watching QH is a serious matter 🤔 and Param-Akshita deserves the credit here 😆


I cant help but draw parallels.


Though QH got really messed up after a while. Totally ruined! It was so good in the beginning, they should have ended it on a good note.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: kirti_fiji

that is so perfect naming for those two👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽



She gave me Hasina B flashbacks.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Piccadilly

I have seen Arjun Reddy and I still couldn’t understand why his love was called toxic . Was it bcause he destroyed himself by drinking but Devdas also was like that only . His first kiss I agree was shocking but then he realised that this girl is not complaining about it, so he thought it as a green signal and went for it . He never touched her without her consent . Both were mutually attracted and involved in the relationship. While in relationship he was always caring one while she was injured and while her visiting him in Mussoorie during his PG days . He even first talked nicely with her dad but when he started badmouthing Arjun also retorted. I am not saying slapping was correct but that came as a reflux action not as it was planned . If we point this slap we need to point her slap also where she slapped him for not taking her with him . I don’t like violence be it any kind but in this case both have done that so we can’t blame any one person.

The only problem I have with Arjun Reddy is that it had too much drugs and alcohol use and in a away encouraged teenagers and fans of that movie to indulge in that. For them it might look stylish but in reality these things sucks .


Well to me it was toxic, because it just didnt hurt him , but the people around him too. I mean they were together in the end, but was that even significant? To me, no, not much. I mean, they had such a great well settled life. but his love was more on the lines of obsession to me, if it didnt destroy Preeti(i havent watched arjun reddy if the names r different).. it did destroy him. I dont feel its love, if it is to the extent that it destroys you or your mental peace or that of someone else.

Now i know while ahaan n he r very different, but there is this sentiment, of high ownership of the other person in both of them, atleast to me.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Piccadilly

Okay , I got it . I thought his love was toxic but in real he was toxic that I agree . Both were toxic in a way . I have problem with that movie bcause it somewhat idealises Alcohol and drug use which was the main content of that movie . I couldn’t watch it without fast forwarding the drug and alcohol use part .


Some people legit idolise the movie and character, which is even more problematic.

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