ishqi :'( - Page 2

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

That is Gul's hero for you. 😆

one of the many gul things that we hate :')

Agree. Besides if someone has to go through near death experience for the hero to realise that they're in love then he is no hero. (goes both ways but Gul seems to glorify her ML using this trope a lot)

Originally posted by: rouble_lover

Funny how, people forget how such life experiences in real life, can affect and change a very strong fighter like person like Ishqi, sending them into trauma, causing PTSD and mentally being all over the place in a vulnerable state, just as it’s shown.. but instead, when seeing the realism in serials, they would say things like, “Why is she being weak? Why is she being like a damsel in distress?? Why isn’t she fighting back?? If I were in her place I would have fought back. Women are much stronger than they are showing.” Etc Just like you all are saying on here!

It’s SOOOO much easier to sit behind and dictate how other ppl should react to things, when none have walked in the shoes of the person! Nor do they TRY TO! I honestly did not like this show in the beginning, I felt it was waay too OTP and the lead girl wasn’t bearable to watch due to her overacting and how repeatedly negative the dialogues were!! But now, the show, the chemistry and the story is actually picking up pace! The lead girl has impressively improved ALOT! I can actually see and feel the leads chemistry with each other, which wasn’t taking in effect, before!!

People!! I understand you want the character Ishqi to be, to live, and behave in a certain way, a way you are used to seeing.. BUT understand, any person who gets kicked and kicked at every corner in life, for a long period of time, whenever they see some hope of growth and looks to grow.. will get used to falling down and see it as their new normal! This CHANGES a person as they become conditioned to adapt to the changes that life throws at them, so they are able to find the strength in their survival! They develop severe PTSD and try not to repeat any actions that may cause any conflict in any way! I can relate to this PTSD!

Ishqi had been trying for jobs ENDLESSLY, looking for places to stay, like a mad woman! Had been LITERALLY begging to be hired, for weeks and months.. but everytime receiving the same exact response and having her aunt to take care of, running from her abusive uncle, trying to shelter and protect her aunt while also fighting against all odds for SIX MONTHS has taken an immense toll on her! She finally was forced to come to that exact same resort and is super grateful now to be able to land and keep a waitress job, at the least and able to provide a shelter, food and safe space for her aunt.. that she by now does not have the means or strength to fight anyone for any reason that might cause her to loose the only saving grace for them right now, that is, her job at the resort!

So till the truth is out and Ishqi feels safe again to live freely without being blacklisted.. where she can stand up on her own feet again, earn from a job that holds value for her, able to buy a house for her aunt and her to live in.. she wouldn’t feel confident in herself to fight for the rights!

So EVERYONE.. HAVE a HEART, take a DEEP breath! HAVE patience and allow the story to unfold and trust that the truth going to be out SOON!! Till then.. catch a break and have faith!

The show is being emoted very well realistically, in terms of Ishqi. True, the truth wouldn’t have been dragged for so long from revealing in real life, at least Karthik would know the real story, so he could support Ishqi and Sonu, as needed.. but then, if this happened, it wouldn’t have been a serial 🙃.

Keep watching and waiting for the truth to be out!! :D

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