Happiness is with family - Page 5

Originally posted by: neo7

Mehmaan nahi hai uske bacche, ke jo ghar main aaye hai sabko puchna chahiye. Jab baa and bapuji ne maangi, unhe deti. But agar usse khud sabko banake deni hai, toh karo phir mehnat.

And ya mere ghar main aisi formality nahi hoti, ki papa ko chai peeni hai toh mummy sabke liye kuch na kuch banaye, jisko peeni hoti hai uske liye hi banti hai sirf. And kabhi kabhi toh mummy, papa ko bhi mana kar deti hai ki abhi mere pass time nahi hai khud bana lijiye apni chai and mere papa bana lete hai. Apne gharwalo ke saath kya formality?

And why you always saying Toshu and Pakhi, Samar kaunsa uthke gaya Anu ki help karne?

Mere ghar mai bhi aisi koi formalities nahi hoti ki mai jab bhi chai banau sabko puchu. jo muje bolega uske liye mai bana deti hu. Noon mai agar pappaji bolege toh mai sirf unki chai banati hu , jab mummyji ko pina hota hai tab woh samne se bolti hai Aj mera bhi bana dena otherwise silent message ki Abhi sirf pappaji ko pini hai. Apne ghar mai Kya formality!!!!

Samar bhi Pakhi toshu jais he hai, ghar mai koi kaam nahi karta hai.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Niyo I tell one big thing in my family no one drinks tea/ coffee I haven't even tasted it

I was in USA for one month 2 years back. There lifestyle was very much different than mine but its OK. Uncle cooked food and here my father haven't even stepped in the kitchen. So different rules hote hai har ghar ke

In my house only father drinks tea, but rest all drink coffe, that also occassionally. Niether my sisters nor my mom has tasted tea in our life. And my house also, papa retire ho gaye uske baad se kitchen main jaana start kiya, woh bhi hum sisters ne unhe jabardasti sikhaya, ki hum teeno chale jayenge shaadi karke, toh kya mummy akele pura kaam karti rahegi. So now he has started helping in kitchen, sabji kaat ke dete hai, fruits and all kaatke dete hai, methi, palak, kothmir aa badhu saaf karine de che. Dhere dhere he is learning, warna unko sirf chai banani aati thi.

Originally posted by: neo7

Rulayegi kya pagli 😭

Same here, I understand different people have different way of living. Till their way of living is not harmful to anyone, its all fine. Everyone has a choice to live their life on their terms and without hurting or harming anyone.

And India se zyada diversity aur kahan milegi❤️

Hum nahi samjhenge toh aur kaun samjhega.

❤️❤️❤️

Na na yaar aa mara ghar ma j thay chhe. Mari mummy ne bahu samjhavu hu

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Culture se lena dena hota. Ek city hai jahaan pur sabhi ko jo bhi ghar mein aata usko petha ke saath paani pilaaya jaata hai yeh city ka apna unique culture hota hai

Agar ek na paani maanga to jo bhi uske saath hai uske liye bhi paani hota

To har city mein ek apna unique culture hota hai

Jab bahar se koi guest ghar aate hai tab hum bhi jitne log aye hai utne glass chai / pani serve karte hai😆

Aisa nai hai ki ek glass de diya or bola half half kar k pi lo 🤣🤣🤪

So guest ko serve karne ka koi separate culture nahi hota 😆 it’s common sense 😆

But same rule can’t applied on house member ki ek paani piyega toh sab paani piyege🤣🤣

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Right Tania...

Anupama didn't ask them but they also didn't tell that aap betho hum banate hai...

She is a mother so she can tell Pakhi to help, its her responsibility. But as an individual I am talking. She has cancer so the levels of her health are worst, but Kaam ni sooj jaate thavi joie, Bimar ni daya jaate j aavi e parvarish hovi joie, chhokraone

Parvarish ni to vaat j java de kosha! Badhu mangyu hath ma madyu hoi tya ava daya vagar na chokrav j hoi 🤢

Anupama na dhyan ma aa vaat j nathi k ana chokra sooj vagar na che. Aa to bav j kharab vaat kevai ke maa ne potane dhyan ma nathi.

Ofcourse mari mummy na dhyan ma che mane sooj pade che k nai , Ane jo mane jate j sooj na padti hot to mari mummy pachad padi ne sooj lai avet Mara ma !

Anupama ma che trevad pachad padi ne chokrav ma sooj lai avani???

Originally posted by: neo7

Josh josh maan kaik vadhaare toh nathi boli gayi ne?

Maari ek problem che, koi pan koi vastu, sanskriti, sanskar, reeti rivaaj ne saathe connect kari dene bina matlab, toh maaro thodo paaro chadhi jaye. Bcoz lokone bahanu joitu hoi tamari sanskriti ane sanskaar par question karvano. Thats why may be when she started linking it to culture, I think vadhare boli gayi.😒

No no

Agar sub ghar ke log ek saath lobby mein baithe baate kar rahe ho to agar koi ek bhi paani maangta hai to sabke liye laaya jaata

I repeat jub ghar mein sub ke saath baith TV ya baate kar rahe hon to sabke liye jaata hai

Isse faayda bhi hota hai

Chalo paani to ghar ke log apne aap uth ke lenge jisko pyaas lagegi woh apne aap bhi uth ke le sakta hai except jo bimar hai ya jo old hai ya jo bahut chote bachche

Magar baaki beverage ke liye to ek baar sabko poocha jaata hai chahe sabhi log ek saath baith ho ya alag baith ho

Ghar mein sabko poochne ka faayda hai

Manlo

A member ne bola ki mujhe chai peeni hai

Ek ne khaali us member ke liye chai banai

Phir 10 minute baad B member ne bola ab mujhe coffee peeni hai

To jis member ne chai bani phir usne chai ka bartan maazaa aur coffee banayi

Phir 15 minute baat C member ne kaha use bhi chai peeni hai to kya baar har 5 minute mein har 10 minute bartan maarta ya chai banata rahega?

Originally posted by: neo7

In my house only father drinks tea, but rest all drink coffe, that also occassionally. Niether my sisters nor my mom has tasted tea in our life. And my house also, papa retire ho gaye uske baad se kitchen main jaana start kiya, woh bhi hum sisters ne unhe jabardasti sikhaya, ki hum teeno chale jayenge shaadi karke, toh kya mummy akele pura kaam karti rahegi. So now he has started helping in kitchen, sabji kaat ke dete hai, fruits and all kaatke dete hai, methi, palak, kothmir aa badhu saaf karine de che. Dhere dhere he is learning, warna unko sirf chai banani aati thi.

Khana banana sabko sikhna chahiye. Its a basic thing to learn

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Niyo I tell one big thing in my family no one drinks tea/ coffee I haven't even tasted it

I was in USA for one month 2 years back. There lifestyle was very much different than mine but its OK. Uncle cooked food and here my father haven't even stepped in the kitchen. So different rules hote hai har ghar ke

Here in ahmedabad, in my home, my husband makes dough, pappaji loves to do chopping and we (me/mummy ji)cook the food.

When it comes dusting in the covid times my husband/pappaji does vacuum and we/mummyji does bartan.

My husband and pappaji both likes cooking and frequently they tries their hands in the kitchen.

Now what to call it? Different culture? For me it’s just different living style.

Hota hai culture. If u go to allahabad lagbhag sabhi log sab hi log chataai mein sote hain

Ek city mein bahut se logon ki life style bahut milta julata hai

Ek jagah wahaan ki log chai peena pasand nahin karte bus doodh peete hain

Aiur ek jagah wahaan ke log ek din mein 25 cup chai peena pasand karte hain