Happiness is with family

Leela was right was when she vented her anger on Rakhi. People in real are like Rakhi. In our lives, Jab khud pe baat aati hai to rules alag aur dusro pe baat aati hai to behavior alag. Apne liye sab maaf. Anupama previously told to Kavya, that in the process of making Anupama jealous, kavya will lose everything. But yeh Bhens has no akkal, she again tries to make Anupama jealous. Kavya should thank Anupama, otherwise a second woman tag wouldn't hve left her.

Kavya tries to justify everything. If it was a mistake then she would've been forgiven. But this repeated behavior of hers is not a mistake. She has done a crime to torture everyone, then how she will be forgiven? Now Vanya have done a Gruh Pravesh. Why it's necessary to have blessings? Because only then you can peace to the house or else Bematalab ka jhagda.

Kavya says Sorry to Leela but what's the use of it. See the hypocrisy of Kavya. One day she said Dhakke Maar ke sab ko bahar nikalungi. And today she said she had no intention of troubling anyone. Wow...Time has a big role. The loving bond which has been for a long time is hard to be replaced by someone who says Sabko jail bhej dungi. Her hypocrisy...

Bapuji I much appreciate you. Its better to leave. Vanraj I felt pity for him, one percent. During this years he was the reason of everyone's happiness and now he is getting a punishment. He got his Karma back. He hadn't imagined this will happen as he had Kavya for personal pleasures. All the unusual things happened with him. He was greedy for his happiness and there is a saying Lalach Buri Bala hai. Family wished only Vanraj and left.

Now they all are staying with Anupama. I was wondering that it's just a resort. They should have stayed separate from Anupama as the room is so small. And what if Anupama stayed in her mother's house. Will they go at that house? This sounded illogical.

Rakhi enters and didn't like her today. When she supported Kavya, I didn't have any issue. But why to spoil others happiness. I may have difference of opinion here.

Vanraj behavior was understandable with Kavya but Kavya is intolerable. Won't like to elaborate more...

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I saw one thing which probably Surabhi might have noticed it. Seeing that I reminded of her. I wanted to mention it but left it on Surabhi.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Leela was right was when she vented her anger on Rakhi. People in real are like Rakhi. In our lives, Jab khud pe baat aati hai to rules alag aur dusro pe baat aati hai to behavior alag. Apne liye sab maaf. Anupama previously told to Kavya, that in the process of making Anupama jealous, kavya will lose everything. But yeh Bhens has no akkal, she again tries to make Anupama jealous. Kavya should thank Anupama, otherwise a second woman tag wouldn't hve left her.

Kavya tries to justify everything. If it was a mistake then she would've been forgiven. But this repeated behavior of hers is not a mistake. She has done a crime to torture everyone, then how she will be forgiven? Now Vanya have done a Gruh Pravesh. Why it's necessary to have blessings? Because only then you can peace to the house or else Bematalab ka jhagda.

Kavya says Sorry to Leela but what's the use of it. See the hypocrisy of Kavya. One day she said Dhakke Maar ke sab ko bahar nikalungi. And today she said she had no intention of troubling anyone. Wow...Time has a big role. The loving bond which has been for a long time is hard to be replaced by someone who says Sabko jail bhej dungi. Her hypocrisy...

Bapuji I much appreciate you. Its better to leave. Vanraj I felt pity for him, one percent. During this years he was the reason of everyone's happiness and now he is getting a punishment. He got his Karma back. He hadn't imagined this will happen as he had Kavya for personal pleasures. All the unusual things happened with him. He was greedy for his happiness and there is a saying Lalach Buri Bala hai. Family wished only Vanraj and left.

Now they all are staying with Anupama. I was wondering that it's just a resort. They should have stayed separate from Anupama as the room is so small. And what if Anupama stayed in her mother's house. Will they go at that house? This sounded illogical.

Rakhi enters and didn't like her today. When she supported Kavya, I didn't have any issue. But why to spoil others happiness. I may have difference of opinion here.

Vanraj behavior was understandable with Kavya but Kavya is intolerable. Won't like to elaborate more...

Bolded lines for the tagged members:

I saw one thing which probably Surabhi might have noticed it. Seeing that I reminded of her. I wanted to mention it but left it on Surabhi.

Nandini, Pakhi , dolly all 3 were there but anupama didn’t ask anyone that I am ill so you guys make tea coffee.

In place of that she herself was declaring I will make coffee , Aj to toshu/pakhi ne demand bhi nahi kiya tha kuch bhi .

Now why to blame others jab anupama ko khud he aise offers de rahi thi🤢

Jub koi ghar mein agar ek chai maangta hai to tareeka yeh hota hai ki jisne chai maangi bus uski ke liye chai nahi banayi jaati balki sabke liye banayi banayi jaati hai yeh hota hai manners

Bhale hi dolly toshu ne demand na ki ho sirf baa ne demand ki ho but tareeka yahi hota ki sabko poocha jaaye

Aisa nahin hota ki agar ek ne bus bola ki uske ke liye chai banao to bus usi ke liye chai banegi

Bhale hi ek ne chai ki demand ki ho but jub chai ya khuch bhi banane chalte hai to sabke liye banaate hai

Aur har ghar mein hota hai

Anupama to apna farz nibha rahi hai but in dolly pakhi toshhu ko mana karna chahiye nahi hum khud kar lenge

Today also i will blame toshhu pakhi. Kyonki kisi ne anupama ko mana nahi kiya ki aap cold coffee mUt banao

Aur anupama khaali kyon kahe ki bacchon se tum coffee banao. Bacchon ko apna dimaag bhi use karna chahiye koi robot nahi hai bache

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Jub koi ghar mein agar ek chai maangta hai to tareeka yeh hota hai ki jisne chai maangi bus uski ke liye chai nahi banayi jaati balki sabke liye banayi banayi jaati hai yeh hota hai manners

Bhale hi dolly toshu ne demand na ki ho sirf baa ne demand ki ho but tareeka yahi hota ki sabko poocha jaaye

Aisa nahin hota ki agar ek ne bus bola ki uske ke liye chai banao to bus usi ke liye chai banegi

Bhale hi ek ne chai ki demand ki ho but jub chai ya khuch bhi banane chalte hai to sabke liye banaate hai

Aur har ghar mein hota hai

Anupama to apna farz nibha rahi hai but in dolly pakhi toshhu ko mana karna chahiye nahi hum khud kar lenge

Mehmaan nahi hai uske bacche, ke jo ghar main aaye hai sabko puchna chahiye. Jab baa and bapuji ne maangi, unhe deti. But agar usse khud sabko banake deni hai, toh karo phir mehnat.

And ya mere ghar main aisi formality nahi hoti, ki papa ko chai peeni hai toh mummy sabke liye kuch na kuch banaye, jisko peeni hoti hai uske liye hi banti hai sirf. And kabhi kabhi toh mummy, papa ko bhi mana kar deti hai ki abhi mere pass time nahi hai khud bana lijiye apni chai and mere papa bana lete hai. Apne gharwalo ke saath kya formality?

And why you always saying Toshu and Pakhi, Samar kaunsa uthke gaya Anu ki help karne?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Today also i will blame toshhu pakhi. Kyonki kisi ne anupama ko mana nahi kiya ki aap cold coffee mUt banao

Why not samar? Woh bhi toh help karne nahi gaya, na mana kiya coffee banane ke liye. Aur ye mat bolna Samar ke liye coffee nahi bani, iske haath main bhi cup tha jab Rakhi aayi thi. Toh agar teeno bache aise behave kar rahe hai, toh galti sabse zyada mummy ki hai.

And agar galti Toshu and Pakhi ki hai toh Anupamaa kaisi mother hai jo unko sudharna nahi chahhti, woh bigad rae hai toh aise hi rehne do.

Nahi aisa hota hai ghar mein agar bhale hi ne ek ne demand ki ho but sabke liye banti hai

Maine khud dekha, hai

Agar ghar ka ek hi person ne kaha ki mujhe lassi peeni hai to aisa nahin hota jisne lassi maangi bus usi ke liye lassi banegi jisne maagi hai balki lassi sabhi family member ke liye banegi

Koi jarooraton nahin ki jub maa kahe tubhi bache kaam kare

Ghar mein maa ke saath bhahut time spend kiya to ghar mein rehte rehte maa ko kaam karte dekh kar bache ke ander bhi ghar ke kaam karne ki iccha, khud jaagti

Khuch cheen natural bhi hoti hai

Samar to tabhi help karta hai aur usne kai baar help bhi kiya but yeh toshu samar kya karte hain

Jub vanraj ka accident hua tub atleast samar medicine laata tha

Woh at least marketing ka kaam karta hai but yeh toshu pakhi to khuch bhi nahin karte

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Nahi aisa hota hai ghar mein agar bhale hi ne ek ne demand ki ho but sabke liye banti hai

Maine khud dekha,

Agar ghar ka person ne kaha ki mujhe lassi peeni hai to aisa nahin hota jisne laash mangi bus usi ke liye lassi banegi jisne maagi hai lassi sabhi family member ke liye banti hai

Koi jarooraton nahin ki jub maa kahe tubhi bache kaam kare

Ghar mein maa ke saath bhahut time spend kiya to ghar mein rehte rehte maa ko kaam karte dekh kar bache ke ander bhi ghar ke kaam karne ki iccha, khud jaagti

Khuch cheen natural bhi hoti hai

Samar to tabhi help karta hai aur usne kai baar help bhi kiya but yeh toshu samar kya karte hain

Maine samar ko bhi mushkil se 1-2 baar help karte dekha hai, woh Anupamaa ke saath kitchen time pass hi karta hai, kabhi uski help karte maine toh nahi dekha.

May be in your house aisa hota hoga, maine bhi kai gharo main dekha hai sabke ke liye sab kuch nahi banta, jisko jo jab chahiye hota hai uske liye hi banta hai and it is not a hard and fast rule, ki sabke liye banana hi chahiye.

So according to you, if you are in a situation like Anupamaa and tere bache teri help nahi kar rahe toh tu unko bolegi nahi help karne, nalayak ban rahe hai toh nalayak rehne degi ? And if you are saying bache dekhke nahi sikhe, well then parvarish main bohot badi kami hai, bacho ko empathise karna sikhaya hi nahi hai, unpe kabhi responsibility daali nahi hai, unki galtiyon pe kabhi unko sudhara hi nahi hai. As you sow, so shall you reap.

Main unko kahoongi ki tum log ab itne chote nahin rahe ki main jub tak tum log na kahoon tum log kaam nahin karoge ?

Yeh bhi koi kehne wali baat. Tum logon ko dikhai nahin deta ki main bimar hoon. Ya yeh bhi batana padega

Yes hamaare ghar mein aisa hi hota hai jub koi cheej banti hai to ek baar sabhi ko poocha jaata hai jo mana kar diya uske liye nahin banegi baaki sabke liye banegi

Yahi culture hamare yahan ka

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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Main unko kahoongi ki tum log ab itne chote nahin rahe ki main jub tak tum log na kahoon tum log kaam nahin karoge ?

Yeh bhi koi kehne wali baat. Tum logon ko dikhai nahin deta ki main bimar hoon. Ya yeh bhi batana padega

Yes hamaare ghar mein aisa hi hota hai jub koi cheej banti hai to ek baar sabhi ko poocha jaata hai jo mana kar diya uske liye nahin banegi baaki sabke liye banegi

Yahi culture hamare yahan ka

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@bold - Haan toh ek baar toh bologi na, exactly thats what we are saying, Anupamaa ek baar bhi nahi bol rahi. Toh galti ko badhawa de rahi hai woh.

And sabke liye chai / coffee banana, is not related to culture yaar, this is related to how every house functions, its different in different houses, isme culture ka kya lena dena. Agar ek ne bola mujhe chai peeni hai, toh sabko sunai de raha hai na ki unke liye ban rahi hai toh tumhe peeni hai hai toh tum bhi batado saamne se, ban jayegi, ye nahi ki wait karo ki koi tumse puche ki tumhare liye banani hai ki nahi. Agar kisi aur ne nahi bola toh it is assumed unko nahi peeni. Humare ghar main toh aisa hi hota hai, sabko baar baar puchne nahi jaate, hotel nahi hai, na hi mehmaan hai ki saamne se pucho sabko har baar. Agar ek ne bola and ek ke liye hi banaya toh kaunsa main uncultured ho gayi.