I guess they mean the bit with Adi making her come back to his house from the hostel during Holi?But despite the appearance, none of that really happened without Imlie’s choice being involved. She was the one who laid the conditions for her return most of the time 😆.....She keeps leaving the house, yes 😆....and Adi always chases her down but she never returns without her marzi actually being involved.
All Adi wants is that she admit the choice that already shows in her eyes for him 😆. There is no compulsion here.
Actually in the case I was referring was the recent instance when she was leaving the C house forever and then the entire mud spa and confession and lodge scene happened and she came back with Adi to T house knowing that the family was upset with her. I get both your point and @NM's point that it has always been Imlie's choice to do what she wants where Adi was involved, as he has always given her that freedom by asking ki tum kya chahati ho. But ultimately the situation becomes such that her choices seem more like reactions to the situation rather than a well thought out decision. Again, I am not saying that anything happens without her marzi, it is just that sometimes others marzi and feelings, be it didi, Adi, T family or even Meethi and Satyakam (at the bus stop where they said that they will stay in Delhi and work things out with Adi rather than ho back to PD) seem to be driving her decisions. Sometimes I feel she should also be allowed to make her own mistakes rather than being driven only by thinking about others. But I also understand that she will never be able to do that, as that will go against her basic character traits. So hope this time she is able to make the correct choice that will be hers to deal with be it with or without the guilt trips that come with it.