There he goes again, his romeo avatar won't help him ever - Page 4

Originally posted by: maahi11

babe I feel exactly what u said

And so since morning my mood was gloomy and irritated watching this shit,

😒 I will go offline anytime, don't even want to spoil my mood today. Did a big mistake by checking updates and watching a few clippings 🤦‍♀️. Anyway, I don't let it ruin my day, at the end of the day it is just a show which we somehow have got so attached to 😲 .

For me this is pure manipulation on the part of Virat and this can I say from my own experience, today I felt for the 1st time the helplessness of Pakhi

He disappointed me big time. I didn't expect this from him.

How much irritate I might be with this woman this doesn’t change the fact that yes today I could see the helplessness in her, when u make someone ur world, and that man hurt u and yet end up doing what he ask for,

this happens when u have given that person the power to rule upon u that u stop somewhere to think rationally, yes I have no shame in admitting that it is personal experience coz I completely know u become so helpless at that moment, it suffocates u but yet u can’t help, it takes lot of efforts and will power to come out of it, yes it is possible,

I am sorry dear, I understand what you are saying. You are very right in saying that one will starr feeling helpless and it will also suffocate them. See, as much as I know how wrong Virat is, this is why I used to feel sorry for him. Whatever you have just said is what he did and that is why he felt suffocated and fought with Sai on the day of Amays arrest. He didn't even realise his feelings back then. Imagine how would Pakhi then be feeling when she knows what she wants from this guy. She is wrong, no doubt about it, has turned evil too, she shouldn't have done this to herself too. It is not worth it.

somehow I feel that Virat wasn’t in front of Pakhi 24 hrs it could be possible foe her too, or Samrat could her spoke to her, given her a chance, could have understood her and Virat perceptive,

u know ur heart cries, u feel suffocated, but u can’t take out that frustration on someone nor U can tell anyone about it, I am not justifying Pakhi here coz she forgot the line of right and wrong with sai, who shouldn’t be her target,

Jab aap kisi ko apni life samjhte ho and that person just goes away, U have no clue what u feel, the only thing u wish that time was either to have thrown that feelings out of urself or have not felt that hard, the prob is when u r in that stage when u let the person affect u so much u just wish that person comes back in ur life anyhow, that time sense of understanding, rationality lacks that u are left hurting,

You have put this beautifully. I can share what Inhad written about Pakhi and her feelings through pm may be. It more or less tells the same thing.

@bold ❤

True, Pakhi would one day feel the exact same thing when she wants to move on or when she realises that is was all not worth it.

Probably I am not making sense now but this happens and trust me it’s a worst feeling

I agree. Are you kidding me when you are saying it doesn't make sense 😆. I had written about Pakhi's feelings and her expectations from him or why she is growing angry or upset but refrained from posting it in the forum. I am not worried that people will bash me but I was worried that people who are already upset with Virat will be more upset with him and I didn't want that.

I try to understand their behavior, whoever it is and so it doesn't matter even if it is Pakhi. She is also a human being, yes she is very wrong, her expectations or motives are wrong. One cannot justify her action ar all. But I know why she is hurt. Waada alone is not her problem and not many would agree.

I have always believed that Pakhi would have been different if Samrat was around. It would have helped her move on in her life, if not for sooner a little later. Her malicious acts would have been in check and she herself wouldn't have turned this vile. I don't entirely blame Virat, Pakhi let him control her life. She did it on her own as you have also pointed. No one should give that control to anyone, let someone affect you so much that you forget your morals or doesn't care about your self respect. She has made her life a mess. She could have done something in her life.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I am curious about Samrat and I somehow feel he has more backbone than Virat..We will have to see once he comes back... And PP is being whitewashed for him already..

He would have made a great pair with Sai. Virat deserves no one tbh.

Thanks for tagging me. At this point, I have decided not to watch. They're messing up characters and the drama is getting repetitive therefore diluted. The Shivani Amey drama, admission drama was done so well.

The fire Virat had when defending Sai for admissions or his reactions even during the Ladakh fiasco were much stronger than this.

Where are they going with this, I don't understand! Do they imagine that only the so called triangle gives drama, or Virat's conflict..when he's not conflicted anymore?

For Sai, I remember her tagline initially ' kisiki majboori ko uski mohabbat nahi kehte'

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Thanks for tagging me. At this point, I have decided not to watch. They're messing up characters and the drama is getting repetitive therefore diluted. The Shivani Amey drama, admission drama was done so well.

The fire Virat had when defending Sai for admissions or his reactions even during the Ladakh fiasco were much stronger than this.

Where are they going with this, I don't understand! Do they imagine that only the so called triangle gives drama, or Virat's conflict..when he's not conflicted anymore?

For Sai, I remember her tagline initially ' kisiki majboori ko uski mohabbat nahi kehte'

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Originally posted by: laksh

I agree and that js highly disappointing. Infact that us why I am upset with him. I have always wanted him to act confident, think on his own and do things. How long can one be this way? I know that his family and where he grew up is the reason why he is the way he is but he should have got exposure from his school, college and work too. I know family like this but the kids have been able to come out of that set up, set their mentality straight much much ahead in their life. They can feel that things are not right and even if they don't act rebellious, they develop a voice for themselves, they build their own personality. Infact they have come out stronger than people from regular household. I can empathise with his character, for what he would have faced in this house but he should work on changing himself, change for others if not for himself. And his behavior with Pakhi is just not right, not acceptable atleast to me. I didn't expect that from him.

When he wants his wife, it doesn't work for me when he cries or thinks to himself, he should act, he should do something about it.

I don't expect him to fight Sai's battles but I do expect him to provide a safe and secure environment to his wife, especially when he says that he is in love with her

Originally posted by: Bluegrass

Virat is a typical obtuse raja beta who got a little too praise and validation growing up

Samrat was and will continue to be more complex character with his deracinated childhood, service, and now plausible PTSD. Also, his masculinity is extremely positive as opposed to Virat

I liked Samrat alot, he was charming and all smiles with beautiful eyes, they selected perfect actor to play him. Its unfortunate that we have seen so little of him

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

I'm not surprised with virat behavior. Because he was always been selfish since beginning. He asked the girl he loves to marry his brother. He never thought how she would live under the same roof with both ex & husband, never thought how samrat would feel if he got to know his wife loves his brother. He wanted to repay the ehsan that samrat did in his childhood.By doing this he felt he repayed him. And that made him feel high about himself as great sacrificer. He thinks he is doing things for others but no he is doing things to feel himself as higher person. He know if he doesn't force pakhi to marry samrat she would reveal about them infront of their family which will ruin his image. Had he once genuinely thought from samrat pakhi pov today situations would have been different. And when he put deal conditions infront of sai he sounded so insensitive. Not once he asked her whether she is okay with those conditions. He just told her straight away these r my conditions. He never thought just like every girl sai too would have had dreams about her marriage. He knew she was in helpless situation to say no to him still dragged her in loveless marriage. In both sai & pakhi cases I agree they both had the chance to back out from the wedding. But virat putting them in such situations itself shows his insensitiveness. By marrying sai he wanted to make himself feel better that he is honouring the promise made to his guru. Virat is good man in general. But when he was doing things that made him feel good brother, good IPS he refused to see other emotions. He don't want to loose his good man image. After marriage he asked pakhi to guide sai. How insensitive is this towards both girls especially when both the girls knew about past. Again he failed to think from their pov. He never understand pakhi intentions & sai insecurities because for him it's always about his emotions. On marriage he put certain conditions & promises to both girls. But he failed to abide by it. His feelings changed but ironically he wants the girls too understand his changed feelings & be okay with it without him giving them any clarification. One time virat said tumhara sach tumhe patha hoga when saying he doesn't love pakhi. This means he doesn't care if she still loves him or not when he is the one who planted the expectations in her by giving promise. He didn't thought the need to clarify the vaada with her until she brought the topic. Same with sai. He forgeted what he told her before but now wants her to reciprocate his feelings without him giving her any clarifications. Not once he thought how his angle with pakhi hurting her & how pakhi interference in their personal matter affecting her. Sai many times clearly told what she feels about him & pakhi but he never wanted to clarify it but wants her to love him back. On sai ousting day he didn't thought about devi whom he claims to love because he was occupied with only his emotions. He never wanted to meet his sister's daughter until pulkit called sai. Because he always busy in handling his own emotions. Many times it was always about him for him. He fails to think what other people going through infront of him. Sorry for lengthy post. This is what I understood from virat character. I hope makers tweak his character & make him root worthy. As of now he is big disappointment.

It is not like I have not known many of what you have said. It has always come out this way only. I kept hoping that it is not entirely true due to his goodness but no, the truth is that he only thinks about his own emotions. Had failed to look at the enotions of the other two. I agree with you on that. He has acted insensitive with Pakhi even though it was for his brother's happiness that he was sacrificing his love, he then acted insensitive while placing those conditions to Sai while getting married to her. I have never liked these from him. As you have said, Sai could have backed out but that cannot deny the face that he acted insensitive by offering her this kind of a marriage. It was his way to maintain his promise made to two people and that was unfair to Sai.

Yes, he was busy handling his own emotions as you are saying and I have noticed that. He didn't think about Devi at that point of time but was drowned in his own misery. He has a lot of good qualities, but if he doesn't let go of this attitude, will be difficult for him and his partner too.

Please don't feel sorry about lengthy posts, my posts or replies have been lengthy many many times 😆.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I don't expect him to fight Sai's battles but I do expect him to provide a safe and secure environment to his wife, especially when he says that he is in love with her

I liked Samrat alot, he was charming and all smiles with beautiful eyes, they selected perfect actor to play him. Its unfortunate that we have seen so little of him

@bold the same here

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I don't expect him to fight Sai's battles but I do expect him to provide a safe and secure environment to his wife, especially when he says that he is in love with her

I liked Samrat alot, he was charming and all smiles with beautiful eyes, they selected perfect actor to play him. Its unfortunate that we have seen so little of him

I agree with the bold part..

I hope Samrat's role once he is back is concrete and he is there to stay,..not the KD way..

I dont even think PP deserves Samrat..

Originally posted by: laksh

It is not like I have not known many of what you have said. It has always come out this way only. I kept hoping that it is not entirely true due to his goodness but no, the truth is that he only thinks about his own emotions. Had failed to look at the emotions of the other two. I agree with you on that. He has acted insensitive with Pakhi even though it was for his brother's happiness that he was sacrificing his love, he then acted insensitive while placing those conditions to Sai while getting married to her. I have never liked these from him. As you have said, Sai could have backed out but that cannot deny the face that he acted insensitive by offering her this kind of a marriage. It was his way to maintain his promise made to two people and that was unfair to Sai.

Yes, he was busy handling his own emotions as you are saying and I have noticed that. He didn't think about Devi at that point of time but was drowned in his own misery. He has a lot of good qualities, but if he doesn't let go of this attitude, will be difficult for him and his partner too.

Please don't feel sorry about lengthy posts, my posts or replies have been lengthy many many times 😆.

@italic okay 🙈♥️

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Absolutely! That's why I said today in DT. It's not enough to tell PP to not have expectations from him in private while remaining a mute spectator to repeated insults of his wife, whom he claims to love, by the same person. As I mentioned in one of my earlier post, it could have been passed off as a case of misunderstanding on his part, if he weren't aware of PP's intentions; but, how can one justify his behavior now? He is turning out to be a hypocrite who would turn a blind eye to all the misdeeds just to maintain a facade of normality; it doesn't matter to him if the cost of that normality is the constant humiliation of his wife by his haughty ex or curmudgeon elders.

@bold exactly. How can this behavior of his be justified? I don't feel like watching this show anymore. Can't watch such a pair. If a relationship is failing due to hurdles, due to someone else's doings, it makes sense but it is like killing with own hands. And if he cries or feels bad after doing all these, I don't know how to feel sorry for him.

@italics yeah, I have been calling him that only recently. That is how it is turning out to be.

@green well worded. How true, this is why it looks like he is being selfish.