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Posted: 4 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

I think, Imlie didn't want Adi to tell the police that he is son in low of Satikham not as flipping but to keep him safe for the time being, he is known in the city as married to Malini, so this will complicate the issue for them more than it is already, and Adi reaction tells that he understand her point.


And I hope whatever they show us in the promo will not happen next week 😂


I do think the first part of the promo Adili already talk about it, with different reaction ( Adi was not that upset)


So maybe it is just an Advertising promo to gain more viewers like the hut hug promo they just show the concept and phase which the story will carry not actual scenes of the show.

>> I hope they don't prove me wrong this time 😩


And about imlie thinking that because she is from the village so Ts will not accept her, I didn't see that, I think they want to show us that Imlie knows that Ts will not accept her because they think Mallini is the perfect match for Adi.


But she will put a condition in front of Adi that they can't announce their relation now, they have to wait for Mallini to settle, but it is pure stupidity and unfair to Adi and to her!


So what if Millani never found anybody?!


She have to understand the fact with every step they will do , somebody will be hurt! None can have it all!

And by her refusing Adi, none will be happy! Not Malini, not Ts not Adili, every body will be daily in pain!


But by accepting him and claiming their relation, yes Ts will be hurt and angrey, Malini already knows and hurt, and time will heal them all!

Adi has made mistakes. In jumping the gun to marry Malini - he has caused havoc in Malini's life. He needs to make some retribution. He is working to make the situation right...and has started with telling the truth to MAlini, Meethi and SK and handled the situation from Imlie's side. He needs patience to do things the right way - by giving time to everyone to accept the relationships. He cannot have instant gratification at all times. Adi cannot walk in one day - say she is my first wife and everyone falls in line.

Malini after 7 years - cannot shut off like a tap...it can't be as simple as - sorry I love someone else, and I actually married her first.Then MAlini packs her bags - gives him a divorce as its the right thing to do and the very next week Adi settles in to marital bliss with Imlie

Similarly T's who are just starting to grapple with a possible relationship between Adilie - need time to come to terms. T's have no idea Imli is their bahu and after almost a year of seeing Adini and their PDA they can't just fall in line with their new bahu - because Adi married her first and had a late realization. However much we don't like MAlini - there needs to be an awareness that a mistake was made and a genuine attempt to resolve and help the injured party recover.

I am not saying Adilie have to wait for MAlini to find another partner before they start their life - but it cannot be at an indecent speed either. If MAlini already has found someone - let's settle her first and if not at least let's proceed with respect for Malini's situation (and not total indifference - since Malini has another bf) is what I think Imlie is saying - she wants to proceed with the truth and not something she knows cannot be true as she has seen Malini's love for Adi.

If Adi had a game plan to bring it all together - now that would be ok - his plan so far seems to be tell the truth - shock and then everyone fall in line - since Imli was his first wife and he now loves her and MAlini has another by who will take care of her. I can't believe he takes Imli back to his house like the precap shows without even speaking to his parents about the situation first - whether he tells them the truth that she is his first wife or for whatever reason he is bringing her back. He is exposing Imlie to abuse. Then we can't blame T's if Imli gets their unvarnished response. He should be trying to smooth things for her and not confront his family like springing her on them unannounced. Reminds me of when he brought her for the first time and walked to his room - letting Imlie make her own lies and excuses to the T's for coming to Delhi. He has acknowledged his mistakes but some basic traits of his still remain. :) Thats the BBSB whom we love tho....because for all his faults he does love his Imliya and the reason for all the hurry is that he wants to be with her :)

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Nice episode. My fav part was Rupi’s dialogue. Well the problem with wedding bachan part is same with union scene. The makers can not give us a moment to enjoy this beautiful soulful scenes. Within seconds the situation flips or I would say Imlie flips

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Posted: 4 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: PPak

Adi has made mistakes. In jumping the gun to marry Malini - he has caused havoc in Malini's life. He needs to make some retribution. He is working to make the situation right...and has started with telling the truth to MAlini, Meethi and SK and handled the situation from Imlie's side. He needs patience to do things the right way - by giving time to everyone to accept the relationships. He cannot have instant gratification at all times. Adi cannot walk in one day - say she is my first wife and everyone falls in line.

Malini after 7 years - cannot shut off like a tap...it can't be as simple as - sorry I love someone else, and I actually married her first.Then MAlini packs her bags - gives him a divorce as its the right thing to do and the very next week Adi settles in to marital bliss with Imlie

Similarly T's who are just starting to grapple with a possible relationship between Adilie - need time to come to terms. T's have no idea Imli is their bahu and after almost a year of seeing Adini and their PDA they can't just fall in line with their new bahu - because Adi married her first and had a late realization. However much we don't like MAlini - there needs to be an awareness that a mistake was made and a genuine attempt to resolve and help the injured party recover.

I am not saying Adilie have to wait for MAlini to find another partner before they start their life - but it cannot be at an indecent speed either. If MAlini already has found someone - let's settle her first and if not at least let's proceed with respect for Malini's situation (and not total indifference - since Malini has another bf) is what I think Imlie is saying - she wants to proceed with the truth and not something she knows cannot be true as she has seen Malini's love for Adi.

If Adi had a game plan to bring it all together - now that would be ok - his plan so far seems to be tell the truth - shock and then everyone fall in line - since Imli was his first wife and he now loves her and MAlini has another by who will take care of her. I can't believe he takes Imli back to his house like the precap shows without even speaking to his parents about the situation first - whether he tells them the truth that she is his first wife or for whatever reason he is bringing her back. He is exposing Imlie to abuse. Then we can't blame T's if Imli gets their unvarnished response. He should be trying to smooth things for her and not confront his family like springing her on them unannounced. Reminds me of when he brought her for the first time and walked to his room - letting Imlie make her own lies and excuses to the T's for coming to Delhi. He has acknowledged his mistakes but some basic traits of his still remain. :) Thats the BBSB whom we love tho....because for all his faults he does love his Imliya and the reason for all the hurry is that he wants to be with her :)


Totally agree with everything you have said. Our love for Aditya cannot negate the fact that he has committed a few blunders. Some of you may not agree but whatever Malini’s faults are she did not deserve what happened to her. While Aditya has realized how his mistakes have affected imile and has promised to atone for it, he parallelly has to realize how much this affects Malini too and has to atone for it to the best of his abilities. He is a man with little patience, but he has to let time heal everyone and give time for everyone to accept Imlie. He has to understand this problem cannot be solved overnight.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lodestar

Simplicity main sundarta was the theme of SK-Meethi wedding❤️. I loved the simple bina taam jhaam ki shaadi with just their daughter & SIL's presence.


Meethi & SK not figuring out ki they are bedecked in bride & groom wear was funny😆. Then I liked how Adi was ushering in Amma & Imlie was ushering in Dadda in Mandir where there is a wedding setup with pandit waiting & the senior 2 bailbuddhis busy in their bickering over Imlie's statement about getting them married. Then finally Imlie spelled it out to them clearly that they were performing their surprise wedding😆.


The atmosphere then became solemn with Adi- Imlie asking them to give an official marriage stamp to their jeevan bhar ka saath. Imlie said that won't her Dadda give her this happiness of seeing her mother finally the respect & Saath of the one who has always been with her & SK immediately agreed.


I loved SK & Meethi's confession to eachother about why they couldn't take this step before. SK because he believed he was not layak of Meethi & Meethi because she was a woman who got pregnant out of wedlock so she didn't want to burden him. I liked how she expressed her gratitude to SK for being a true Jeevansaathi to her & Imlie's Dadda & that she is ready to marry him.


Then we had all the marriage rituals being performed with Adi-Imlie fulfilling the role of parivaar. Adi-Imlie watching their Amma getting married to SK with happiness & serenity was a good visual. I liked the sindoor moment between SK-Meethi & how that reminded Adi-Imlie of their own private happy sindoor moment. Then when finally when the wedding got completed Adi offered to take them out for lunch but Imlie stopped them saying that the wedding is incomplete without the Imlie vachan ceremony.


I found the vachan scene very sweet & I do think Imlie actually meant the vachan of giving each other equal haq over each other. If she only wanted SK-Meethi to take the vachan she could have just prompted them from the side, demo was not required. Plus the way Imlie was smiling during the vachan & how she smiled when Adi reciprocated the vachan makes me believe she meant it.


Then we had the SK arrest scene. Bechare couldn't even enjoy the few moments of happiness. Adi tried to help out by asking them about arrest warrant & he was truly angry about the shooting. Imlie prevented Adi from revealing his rishta to them because she didn't want to get him into trouble by association. Also that would lead into some background check & the truth might get revealed to everyone in the worst way possible.


Meethi was crying blaming her destiny about losing SK's Saath as soon as they got married. She told Imlie all that crap about her real Baba's family not accepting her due to being from village & all as she didn't want Imlie to know that he was a two timing asshole & she is an illegitimate child for real. Imlie started projecting her own insecurity about T family rejecting her because Dementor Didi was a perfect bahu for them after listening to her Anna's lie. This insecurity is toh always going to be there for Imlie after everyone believing Adi-Malini as a made for each other couple so I am not shocked by it.


I also liked the T family scene were Rupi Di was advocating for both Adi-Malini with a dash of Imlie defense as well. She was trying to get them to accept that Adi-Malini marriage cannot be fixed if they are unhappy with each other & the families should allow them to get out if their marriage for their Khushi. But as we all know T elders are all about log kya kahenge & the ladies made the argument about making adjustments & compromises to keep the marriage going. Radha indirectly told Rupi that she should have tried harder to stay in her own marriage which was the most offensive thing in the convo. Rupi also defended Adi showing concern for Imlie because the elders have now abandoned her so he is the one who has to take the responsibility.


I think next week SK might be out of jail & I hope it is because of Adi. I don't want Loservedi helping in anyway. I don't think they will show that. Dementor Didi might be trying to go to PD to find out her cheater dad's kaand , see Imlie at bus stand, might also see Adi with her over there or might even follow her back to the lodge. But I don't think she is going to confront them about it because image needs to be maintained. Anyways it is not as if Adi personally lied to her about being in PD, he has not even called her so with what face can she demand anything from him now when she is the 2nd wife. Looks like Adi will bring Imlie back on his own as Dementor Didi is coming to T house separately. Let's see how they'd setup this track now next week.


Oh is it yaar? You think mithi lied? Nah i think part of it was true about her not feeling upto the mark caz of her background but lol even if a lie Amma did more damage with it then sambholllooing the situation 😆


The vachan yeah sure it was sweet but I wish they let it linger for a bit.. I was happy that imlie even came to this much of in term with reality and allowed herself to feel the happiness be naughty a bit in that moment but then I got really really confused with the random thoughts she was having.. again it is not like it was unexpected but it felt like whiplash leaving me in doubt about the vachan which I still am in


Oh yes I am definately happy about adi bringing imlie on his own.. that is a positive for now....I.wonder what made her come after her big sharat lol haha

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

Lovely post, NM!

Indeed, the wedding was done so well. Nice to see Mithi get her haq with Sk! Sk's words on trying to calm Mithi down was phenomenal.

Rupi didi defending Imlie was also done very well with a more logical point.


Sk was a hero the way he surrenderd ek dum seetimaar stuff that.. one can't help but be in awwee of the guy even more than already is. such tashan such class such pride even in getting arrested caz he is sure he had a reason to do what he does ... simply awesome.stuff

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: PPak

Adi has made mistakes. In jumping the gun to marry Malini - he has caused havoc in Malini's life. He needs to make some retribution. He is working to make the situation right...and has started with telling the truth to MAlini, Meethi and SK and handled the situation from Imlie's side. He needs patience to do things the right way - by giving time to everyone to accept the relationships. He cannot have instant gratification at all times. Adi cannot walk in one day - say she is my first wife and everyone falls in line.

Malini after 7 years - cannot shut off like a tap...it can't be as simple as - sorry I love someone else, and I actually married her first.Then MAlini packs her bags - gives him a divorce as its the right thing to do and the very next week Adi settles in to marital bliss with Imlie

Similarly T's who are just starting to grapple with a possible relationship between Adilie - need time to come to terms. T's have no idea Imli is their bahu and after almost a year of seeing Adini and their PDA they can't just fall in line with their new bahu - because Adi married her first and had a late realization. However much we don't like MAlini - there needs to be an awareness that a mistake was made and a genuine attempt to resolve and help the injured party recover.

I am not saying Adilie have to wait for MAlini to find another partner before they start their life - but it cannot be at an indecent speed either. If MAlini already has found someone - let's settle her first and if not at least let's proceed with respect for Malini's situation (and not total indifference - since Malini has another bf) is what I think Imlie is saying - she wants to proceed with the truth and not something she knows cannot be true as she has seen Malini's love for Adi.

If Adi had a game plan to bring it all together - now that would be ok - his plan so far seems to be tell the truth - shock and then everyone fall in line - since Imli was his first wife and he now loves her and MAlini has another by who will take care of her. I can't believe he takes Imli back to his house like the precap shows without even speaking to his parents about the situation first - whether he tells them the truth that she is his first wife or for whatever reason he is bringing her back. He is exposing Imlie to abuse. Then we can't blame T's if Imli gets their unvarnished response. He should be trying to smooth things for her and not confront his family like springing her on them unannounced. Reminds me of when he brought her for the first time and walked to his room - letting Imlie make her own lies and excuses to the T's for coming to Delhi. He has acknowledged his mistakes but some basic traits of his still remain. :) Thats the BBSB whom we love tho....because for all his faults he does love his Imliya and the reason for all the hurry is that he wants to be with her :)


Ooh dear you get me wrong!

I agree with you totally, I don't want them to rush things, I am not on" I want Adilli romance" mood at all!


I didn't said that they don't have to worry about Mallini, I want them to consider her feelings too, at the end she is a victim of situation, none deserve this no matter how much I hate her character behavior in the meanwhile, but at the same time putting Mallini happiness as a condition will not make anyone happy!


Adi have to tell his family about their relation, keeping it a secret will again bring misunderstanding and insults to Imlie later, and in which basis can he insists to bring her home?


They will not be happy even if they announce their relation now, that is sure, Malini guilt, Ts anger will not spare them, but at the long run, with time, they could work it out, keeping it a secret will only cause more pain to all parties!


I think due to lockdown, they are limited to do many thing even if they want!


I hope they show us Adili shopping,

I hope instead of bringing Mithi and Satikham to Dilhi we get a PD track instead


And now I don't think they can arrange for a hostel track too, they have to bring extra female actors!


They now use their own staff and directors to complete the scenes 😂👌🏻


So hope this lock down ends soon and they all go back to the old set 💕

Edited by Guiltyo0o - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o


Ooh dear you get me wrong!

I agree with you totally, I don't want them to rush things, I am not on" I want Adilli romance" mood at all!


I didn't said that they don't have to worry about Mallini, I want them to consider her feelings too, at the end she is a victim of situation, none deserve this no matter how much I hate her character behavior in the meanwhile, but at the same time putting Mallini happiness as a condition will not make anyone happy!


Adi have to tell his family about their relation, keeping it a secret will again bring misunderstanding and insults to Imlie later, and in which basis can he insists to bring her home?


They will not be happy even if they announce their relation now, that is sure, Malini guilt, Ts anger will not spare them, but at the long run, with time, they could work it out, keeping it a secret will only cause more pain to all parties!




And that is the key.. better to accept it move on start living their lives or atleast take a step.towards it rather then live in denial like criminals which they aren't. Adi has done one step by telling it to the didi now is the time to break it to T's and let time take it's course instead of giving into.imlie ke random demands about didi ki shaadi and such caz frankly that woman will never be happy and kalko phir blame them so why even involve yourself again into her matters focus on your troubles as it is you have plenty..

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Kuch nahi kar sakte hum jab they want to make it as shallow and dumb.. I felt she will.flip otherwise the sudden Amma mentioning all the Kamiyaan made no sense she could have simply said caz she didn wanted to be at a mercy of a man for her aatma Samaan she did not come blooper much that she went kisi aur aurat se uska haq nahi cheena blah blah when she didn't even bloody knew till few weeks ago ke DC was married in city lol


I just wished the vaada bit was left for some days and we got to see it in action a bit caz otherwise it just sounds big words no meaning


Word.


Everything was nice by itself but felt very off-place, all because they want to prop up someone else. Problem yeh bhi hai ki this is now happens constantly. Not like abhi do hafte ka useless track khatam and back to being the show we all liked.


Mithi’s entire conversation in the end felt very misplaced. Haan, husband has been arrested lekin she has always known Satyakam right. Arrest hone ka darr toh hamesha se raha hai. Also, I thought she never knew about Dev being married. Toh doosri aurat kahaan se aa gayi? Unless she assumed ki he got married somewhere in between those two decades.

She left a worm in Imlie’s head for no reason. Aur jitne bhi external forces hain, woh sabhi use karenge this opportunity.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Beautiful caps!! And Sumbul looking beautiful in yellow and twinning with Adi.

Agree on your comments Naadan - Adi has been the driving force in the unit since the instant he realized his feelings for Imilie. Imlie has to go hand in hand with him - she herself said so in her vachan😆

I will wait and see how the promo and the continuation of Meethi’s conversation (if we get any) plays out- there is most likely some more time left before they reach T house.

Please let them have a proper conversation before there go back into the madness and drama 🤞🤞


We’ll pretty much get the same conversation centered around the well being of another person. I doubt we will get anything else. Maybe a couple of lines on where to stay etc but it will be what we saw in the promo I think.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: PPak

However much we don't like MAlini - there needs to be an awareness that a mistake was made and a genuine attempt to resolve and help the injured party recover.


Why is the onus only on Aditya and Imlie to have awareness and not on Malini? Why is everyone else expected to make amends when it is Malini who is incapable of detaching herself from Aditya and lacks the self-respect to walk out? She heard him say Imlie was his first wife. That meant she is second. That meant he married her knowing he was already married. Why did she lack the basic understanding to drag him for that? Let’s not try and give her benefit of doubt because she had the consciousness to cook up an affair between the two but none when it came to blaming Aditya for the mess?

Just because a woman lacks agency does not mean others around her need to kowtow to her fragility. If Imlie is wrong in assuming Malini’s happiness is in a second marriage, it is equally wrong for Malini to continue being blind.

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