Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 44

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

I somehow cannot take Dhara’s sacrifice seriously- she is 29 years old. It is not very hard for her to conceive- it’s pretty common these days.

In the original, Dhanam was 33 years old. While it is not unheard of to have a baby in 30s, her chances of getting pregnant are definitely much lower than Dhara’s logical.

ofcourse, I concede that Dhara would have had to listen to taunts from the society about not having a baby, which is in itself a ridiculous practice and should not be propagated

I feel to have kids or not to have kids was GauRa's choice. Period. I know they had good intentions but I am seriously not sold by those reasons. And now I feel Dhara is taking out all that frustration of not having her own kid on the brothers along with other family issues!! I really hate the makers for making Dhara mahanta ki mahurat. No one and freaking no one is as mahaan as Dhara in real life. I feel GauRa are probably the most unrealistic characters in the show!

Yesterday and today's episodes have really left a bad taste in my mouth. Can we discuss some upcoming positive ShiVi tracks that you guys feel the makers might show? Just to cheer everyone up and lighten up the mood in the forum😃😃

Originally posted by: bhavna101

Exactly! This ideal family that they are trying to portray is not a real thing! They are trying to create a palace of happiness on the foundation of sacrifices of their individual hopes, dreams, and ambitions. Relationships need adjustment and compromises but not sacrifices!

I’d genuinely call it a palace of illusions. My in-laws have a joint family and trust me, we all have a life and love each other. We had to move out of town given our education and opportunities that came our way. My elder sister in law is a home maker, and the elder brother stayed because he was interested in taking the family business forward. The youngest son and couple, they have a juggling arrangement with the family taking turns to take care of parents. We visit every festival, even if it's for a day. No one's dreams are crushed. I wake up late while my sister in law cooks morning meals. I take care of cleaning and stuff after waking up and evening dinner. The younger one would be given responsibilities like serving etc. We all don't give up our hopes. Nobody questioned us for moving out or being a total feminist, unlike the patriarchal set-up of the household. They try to understand; I try to make them know. For ages, my younger devar couldn't call me with great respect given our familiarity pre-marriage. We have our share of fights, but no one beats each other despite being from a small town

@bold - I second that! But no, they won't do this in the show. Their whole life will remain centered around this one small store!

Raavi's dream seems to become a perfect housemaker, I have nothing against that. In fact, I respect her choice for the job of housemaker is an extremely difficult one. And it is her own choice, nobody forced her to make this choice.

I appreciate Raavi for wanting to do the most challenging job on earth-homemaker. But, imagine Raavi without her bodyguard Shiva or her family. Who is she? Will she be able to survive in the world without support. I am all in for division of labour but trust me; women should have financial and emotional independence. Raavi isn't capable of survival beyond her family or Shiva. This puts her in a weak spot. I am good with women choosing not to earn, but they at least need to have the strength to fend for themselves if the need be. Currently, there's nothing in her character that suggests at any form of capability apart from her goodness of heart. She needs to grow up.

But Rishita, ah, I ain't sure about her. She doesn't seem to want anything else other than being loved and cared for by Dev and Dev alone😆Her desire is to have Dev's life revolve solely around her. Other than that she seems to want to do nothing.

I have lost hope for Rishita long back 🤣

Originally posted by: Sakmen

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPFJEurhcLf/?utm_medium=copy_link

Some amount of positivity ❤🤩

I am in such a bad mood that nothing is making me happy. Even on seeing this picture, I am like, give Raavi nicer clothes than these🤪

Originally posted by: bhavna101

I am in such a bad mood that nothing is making me happy. Even on seeing this picture, I am like, give Raavi nicer clothes than these🤪

The blouse had a sexy back.. they didn't even make use of it🤢

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Yesterday and today's episodes have really left a bad taste in my mouth. Can we discuss some upcoming positive ShiVi tracks that you guys feel the makers might show? Just to cheer everyone up and lighten up the mood in the forum😃😃

- Suman comes in and bashes some sense into everyone

- Krish resumes his search for the forgotten red ribbon girl

- Shiva troubles Maami. Added bonus if he uses Raavi 😈

- Rishitha gets dengue, Dev is stuck in the room taking care of her. No DevTa scenes(sorry DevTa fans) 😈😈

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

- Suman comes in and bashes some sense into everyone

- Krish resumes his search for the forgotten red ribbon girl

- Shiva troubles Maami. Added bonus if he uses Raavi 😈

I feel this might happen. Shiva will stay close to Raavi because he will fear that Maami might forcefully make Raavi reveal the family incident. So Shiva will try to keep her away from Maami and in that process will end up being with her 24x7.

As for Dhara, I want Suman to come to know about this asap. Cannot wait till the puja! Dhara deserves to get some dandas from Suman.

Yes I hope Krish gets all the happiness in the world! And I want Dhara to know he is not a majburi. How dare she call him that? 😡

Originally posted by: Transference

I’d genuinely call it a palace of illusions. My in-laws have a joint family and trust me, we all have a life and love each other. We had to move out of town given our education and opportunities that came our way. My elder sister in law is a home maker, and the elder brother stayed because he was interested in taking the family business forward. The youngest son and couple, they have a juggling arrangement with the family taking turns to take care of parents. We visit every festival, even if it's for a day. No one's dreams are crushed. I wake up late while my sister in law cooks morning meals. I take care of cleaning and stuff after waking up and evening dinner. The younger one would be given responsibilities like serving etc. We all don't give up our hopes. Nobody questioned us for moving out or being a total feminist, unlike the patriarchal set-up of the household. They try to understand; I try to make them know. For ages, my younger devar couldn't call me with great respect given our familiarity pre-marriage. We have our share of fights, but no one beats each other despite being from a small town

I appreciate Raavi for wanting to do the most challenging job on earth-homemaker. But, imagine Raavi without her bodyguard Shiva or her family. Who is she? Will she be able to survive in the world without support. I am all in for division of labour but trust me; women should have financial and emotional independence. Raavi isn't capable of survival beyond her family or Shiva. This puts her in a weak spot. I am good with women choosing not to earn, but they at least need to have the strength to fend for themselves if the need be. Currently, there's nothing in her character that suggests at any form of capability apart from her goodness of heart. She needs to grow up.

I have lost hope for Rishita long back 🤣

Yeah, that is what living in a joint family is truly like. But the Pandyas don't seem like a family to me. Suman is the big boss, GauRa are the Gods, Dev-Shiva-Krish are their param bhakts while Raavi-Rishita are the ideal lambs for sacrifice😆🤣 Kya jhol hai!🤣

Arre, don't be so harsh on Raavi. Don't we have Anupama as an example? I believe that when the situation will demand it, Raavi will take upon on roles other than being a housemaker. Let her recover from the trauma that she is going through right now and not judge her capabilities so easily. When the situation arises, I believe she would be able to deal with it in her own unique way.

Originally posted by: Sakmen

The blouse had a sexy back.. they didn't even make use of it🤢

Would have loved one Shivi blouse dori tying scene 😳

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

- Suman comes in and bashes some sense into everyone

- Krish resumes his search for the forgotten red ribbon girl

- Shiva troubles Maami. Added bonus if he uses Raavi 😈

- Rishitha gets dengue, Dev is stuck in the room taking care of her. No DevTa scenes(sorry DevTa fans) 😈😈

I'm only interested in Shiva-Raavi falling in love, their confession, the love-making (lots of it!), and of course, baby Shivi❤️